2007-06-18 13:28:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
absolutely not. the only way it would be cheating is if you were to kiss or do something more with the "friend dude".
2007-06-18 13:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by BonneyLass 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whoa this could mean so much more. It all depends on how you feel about your friend. I definitely dont see a problem with being in a relationship and having the opposite sex for a friend. There are a couple of questions that u may have to ask yourself. If its cool between you two and u dont see him attractive or fantasize about him then by all means have your friends just know your limits.
2007-06-18 14:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by free2nvme18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to be the best judge of that. If you feel attracted to the "friend dude", you are probably "emotionally cheating" , so you might as well just cheat or dump the bf.
2007-06-18 13:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by rlfesty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol no not even unless you are making out with your friend or something then that would be cheating. a friend is different then a BOYFRIEND no matter if its a chick or a dude
2007-06-18 13:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by jenny_bean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends on how you picture it. If you feel as of though you did something wrong in finding another guy-friend , while your dating him , it's all you.
Personally , I think nothing is wrong . If your boyfriend is acting up about this , then he is jealous .
Maybe if you where actually cheating on him with your guy friend , than I'd understand why he is mad , but if not , (which u seem like someone who wouldnt) , then its all ok.
2007-06-18 13:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by PopsicleGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats not cheating.but since you asked you might just have a crush on him and the thought of being with him is probably tempting .but if you love your boyfriend then you should keep a little distance from your friend dude just to make sure so dont make any wrong decisions
2007-06-18 13:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by Redd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how close you are with this DUDE friend. If you do the same things as you do to your boy friend..then you are cheating.
2007-06-18 13:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by ramesh r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he's only a friend then no...but if you're kissing your "friend" or flirting with him and all up on him then yeah you're cheating lol. By the way it seems like 90 % of guys cheat so who knows maybe he's cheating on you and has many girls on the side...you know how guys are...lol nothing but hypocrits.
2007-06-18 13:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by deleted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough info...you can have a platonic male friend, and that isn't cheating. If you have sex with him, talk dirty with him, exchange intimate communication of any kind, behind your boyfriend's back...that would be cheating.
2007-06-18 13:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But we all know that the same scenario has led to a romance. Guys do it and girls do it. Bottom line, if your relationship doesn't have TRUST then it has nothing. Obviously your BF is not comfortable with something. You two need to talk.....face to face, honesty, no distractions. Clear it up.
2007-06-18 13:32:56 · answer #10 · answered by waawaazzzzat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋