My ex-fiance cheated and lied to me, while I stayed faithful to him. I discovered he was seeing other women. He is from England and bought a nice truck, which he put in my name. He spent around $10,000 on a vacation with this girl from another country on what he referred to as their 10 days of paradise. He lied and seen her again, and is off again, he has been gone a month, telling me how much he loves me. He broke my heart over and over and I am through with him. Everyone at work is glad. They all say to keep the truck, it is paid for and in my name. I gave him 24 hours to tell me what he wanted with his stuff, that was 4 days ago. I was going to sell the truck and send him the money. I told him after 24 hours I was getting rid of his stuff. Should I keep the truck? Now he is sending me satanic messages on my cell phone.
2007-06-18 12:54:22 · 20 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First Im sorry you went through such a bad experience. I do hope things work out better for you in the future. Definitely keep the truck. He sounds like he has the money and the NERVE to do what he wants anyway. So you're expected to be stuck out the "gifts" and the relationship? I say get away from him as fast as possible, truck and all and oh, keep those messages cuz he sounds a lil vindictive to me and I wouldnt be surprised if he tried suing you or w/e in court,so protect yourself. The truck which was a "gift" and in your name should stay with you. Now run!!!!!
2007-06-18 13:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by Hannibooboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason you'd have to return the money to him is because you want him back or you want to make a good impression. Wanna make a good impression? Show him that you don't take any ****! DO NOT return the truck. You'll only regret it later. You might as well get something out of this. You should also block his calls on your cell phone.
When you sell the truck you should use it to take your ten days in paradise with another guy!
2007-06-18 13:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do give the truck back to him, cut some slits in the back of the seats and stuff fresh fish inside. The fish will rot and he will not be able to find them.
Pour milk all over the carpeting too. It will stink like you do not believe, and the smell is really tough to get rid of.
2007-06-18 13:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by Veronica Almighty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sending you satanic messages??? You say that like it happens all the time. If he bought a truck and put it in your name, it was a gift. I imagine he put it in your name to keep the creditors from it and he wasn't thinking you would ever pay hardball. His loss. You gave him plenty of notice. Sell the truck.
2007-06-18 12:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by macguff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he hasnt even mentioned it the sure. But what better does that make you to get back at him through revenge?
Wouldnt you personally feel better about shocking him by being nice about all this? Youll make him doubt himself, so he will rethink what he has done and that you where probably already over him before he was over you...this will make him think you got the last laugh.
And sometime down the road hell realize what a good perosn he missed being with from his assanine actions.
hehe. and you cant get a restraning order without cause.
2007-06-18 12:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by Adam 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sell the truck and KEEP the money! By the way, don't stop with the truck! :)
2007-06-18 13:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sell the truck. Keep the money.
2007-06-18 12:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by merrybodner 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is in your name it is your truck. Keep it. He lied to you and put you through hell. Change your cell number
2007-06-18 12:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by Alex J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sell the truck or keep it for yourself, either way, wouldn't give him a cent of it. Change your phone number and forget he existed!!!
2007-06-18 12:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your truck if it's under your name. Anyway, he cheated on you! Don't want the truck? I say take it to the junkyard and send it to hell for revenge!
2007-06-18 12:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by Karen! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋