Guys, if there's a girl you like and she showed signs as well, and you are just as shy as her, what could she

Question

say to you that wouldn't sound so horribly cheesy?

Guys, what could you recommend for a shy gal here? Obviously he is just as shy as me, but he is not ending his bit of staring at me. I want to talk to him, but don’t know how. One of my classmates said to ask him what he finds so interesting outside of the window, as I sit against the window in class (and the blinds are closed, mind you). If there were a girl that you fancied, and would wish she would come talk to you, what kind of things would be ok to hear her say without sounding cheesy? Would asking him "what do you find so interesting outside of that window?" sound bad? I don't know , i am that shy...

I welcome all comments, male and female

Answer 1

If he's into you, I think he'd be relieved to know that you're shy as well and anything cheesy you say will probably open him up a bit. So If I were you, i'd just try to strike up a conversation with him, and wouldn't worry whether you sound cheesy or not. And if you do, all the better, I say.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Well, that depends on just how shy he is (if he's shy at all). Try to find out if he's more outgoing with other people he knows about as well as you. If he's more shy around you that probably means he likes you. If finding out whether or not he is generally more outgoing is too tough, look for these other signs: -Glances when he thinks you aren't looking -Looks away quickly when you catch him looking -Watch all his non-verbals -Notice how much attention he pays to you when in a group setting There are probably others, but that's all I can think of off the top of my head.

Answer 3

Well...the window thing sounds like a bad idea. As a shy guy I'd not even answer that question or give you a short 'nothing'.

You could try letting him know you like him. Stare a couple seconds too long, walk by him slow, bump into him and such. As she is shy it has to be way over the top. He has to know your doing it for him, and it's not just an accident.

It's cheesy, but asking him for home work help, or to study together or such is a classic.

If your shy...a note would be perfect. Nothing to mushy...just a 'hi-I like you-here is my number' note.

Answer 4

Ugh. Thats a terrible line.
Ill warn you i have a bad history with this. I have had a tendency to stare at people, i dont know why just studing humans in a way and not really realize im doing it, and it doesnt mean im attracted to them or whatever. Sometimes girls have gotten the worng signal from this. How do you know you like this person if you dont know them, and if you know them, havent you already sorta broken the ice?

Asking for help with the project idea was a good oen, thats the sort of thing that normally gets people to meet eachother. dont force anything.

Answer 5

Ask for help with something, a project or such, from him. Ask a question pretending you really don't know the answer. Compliment him on something he has done or said. Good luck to you. I am not a guy, of course. But I thought you might like to hear from a female, too.

Answer 6

It won't matter much what you say if he likes you. There was this girl this morning who I can tell likes me. She tried to start a conversation. I am already in a relationship. So, I just smiled and didn't really hear much of what she said. But if I liked her, she could have asked me about anything at all and I would just be happy to talk to her. Just be you and confident. And if he doesn't bite, find a better guy.

Answer 7

The window comment sounds good. I'm with you on this one, having the same problem. I love shy guys, but they're so slow to respond!

Answer 8

Write him a letter or a poem telling him how you feel if he's shy he might be afraid of rejection. Although he might know you like him he might be afraid to confront you about it because he's afraid that what he's seeing in your actions is just kindness or just the person you are and may not realize you are giving him hints.