Why would someone that was TOTALLY sweet, All-American, family-oriented, and devoted for half a year have a change of heart and obviously pride for herself by sneaking back to her addictive 13-time on again off again bf...but then just TOTALLY switch her personality towards her family, her friends, me, and pretty much the world. When we have to get something from the other one that we left at their place, we talk on email and stuff, but she's turned into a total, different person altogether and, even if I'm like, "hey sorry it didn't work out, but I hope youre happy", she gets SUPER bitchy and "Hey, I don't need your attitude, alright?" I didn't cheat on HER. Girls, what's the deal with turning into a craba$$ towards the one that treated you good..when YOU screwed up?!
2007-06-18 13:30:10 · 3 answers · asked by rlfesty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to clarify, I don't want her anymore and I don't want to know how to fix us...I'm trying to figure out what emotionally makes a girl that knows she did the wrong thing get so venomous toward the one that got crapped on and is over it? Why be pissy at me?
2007-06-18 13:43:31 · update #1
She turned on you because this is one of the usually tell-tale signs of cheating...
Normally, the biggest give away that someone is cheating is that they suddenly turn "evil" on you - and accuse YOU of cheating on THEM!
The reason they do this (though they don't realize it) is that - deep down - they are uncomfortable with the idea that they are cheating. They have trouble dealing with the guilt - so they pass it on to you. Gee - thanks!
What you need to do is move on with your life - and take all the time you need to heal from this ordeal before jumping back into the "dating pool". Fate has a way of balancing things out - she will probably get cheated on herself , while you will hopefully end up with someone much better...
That won't take much, though ;););)
2007-06-18 14:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her go. Karma will probably catch up to her, if she turned on you, out of the blue like that. there's plenty of other fish in the sea.
2007-06-18 20:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Han 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. Sounds like she has a lot of growing up to do.
2007-06-18 20:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋