I meet a guy online he is 26 and i'm 21. We talked online and on the phone i have meet him once in person and it was at a public place. I have noticed that i only talk to him when he is at work. I have never talked to him on the weekends and after he gets off work. At first i didn't think anything of it because we were both busy and didn't have time to talk online or on the phone but now i'm starting to second guess it. What does everyone think? Should i just ask him about it or should i stop talking to him? Thanks for you help.
One last thing i don't know his home or cell number i only have his work number. but i have never asked for them either.
2007-06-18 13:29:25 · 8 answers · asked by Julia M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would ask if you could call him on the weekend sometime - and be very suspicious if he refuses to give you his home/cell number.
He might try the "I'll call YOU" routine - which usually means that he is waiting until he has the house to himself (the wife/gf has gone out for a while).
I would also be suspicious if he ONLY wants to meet you in public - for a relationship to grow, the two of you need to be able to spend some time alone together (even if things DON'T get intimate). If it gets that far, also be weary if he ONLY wants to see you at YOUR place...
2007-06-18 14:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is in your best interest to ask him. Let him know how you feel. If he is avoiding telling you the truth and your heart is telling you this, know that there is someone else in his life. From the sounds of it, he is married. The red flags are: 1. you do not have his personal phone. 2. You have set times to talk with him.
When you met him online, did he present a picture? That is another give away when he does not put it up.
2007-06-18 13:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by silverwhite_68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm. thats tough. what i would do is casually bring up the question, and not make it a big deal. if its only at work that he talks to you, try asking some questions without being too obvious.
2007-06-18 13:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dont u ask for his home and/or cell number, and if he seems reluctant to give it or refuses than stop talking to him b/c then u can tell that somethign is off
2007-06-18 13:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by aliza c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out!
2007-06-18 13:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF THERE IS A FEELING INSIDE OF YOU FOR HIM THEN ASK HIM,IF THERE ISIN'T THEN LEAVE HIM(DON'T TALK TO HIM)ONLY YOU CAN TELL
2007-06-18 13:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by angel_pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ask ask
2007-06-18 13:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by jenny_bean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM
2007-06-18 13:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by happybunnyjg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋