i live with my girlfriend we have lived together for about 2 years the first year was wonderful due to she had some problems while we were dating because she was under age in we had problems with her parents causing her to leave as soon as she was 18 now that she has started to talk to them she wants to help em out in everyway possible there causing us some financial problems then i end up asking my mother for favors but when my mother asks me for favors in her parents can help she throws a fit in talks about when i was unemployed for 4 months in who she payed the bills but even before she moved in with me i already gave her money in during those 4 months i was unemployed my mother help us out in when this arguments start she always kicks me out of the house which i dont listen to due to im paying allt he bills i have decided that next time she says something im taking action who should leave? and em i doing the right thing?
2007-06-18 12:03:18 · 5 answers · asked by mrchevyclassic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
before you make the decision to leave have a serious talk with her, let her know how you feel if she can't listen then you have to go...if she decides to listen make sure she understands everything you say and you also have to hear her out ........good luck
you both should go to church too...it's healthy for couples
2007-06-18 12:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by Babygurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married because of a pregnancy. My wife sits at home all day watching TV - Internet. She does take care of the baby, but doesn't clean, or do anything else. It's funny, I work the 12 hour days, and she is the one that gets to go on a 2 week vacation with her family. The best advice I can give you is don't ask anyone for favors, be responsible. Stand your ground, if you are doing your duties then she as no leg to stand on. If you love each other then it will work out, if there is no love for each other, then divorce before children come into the picture.
2007-06-18 19:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by Kyle P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and her both are in way over your heads. It's who can afford the pay the bills. If she can't then you stay. If she wants the bills and can afford them, then you leave. Either way make sure the person that leaves has their name off the bills, so if the other person ends up not paying, it only hurts the credit of the one that stayed. Good Luck
2007-06-18 19:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much information. Anyway,the relationsahip is obviously not working out. Count your blessings. With no children you can check out of her scene permanently anytime you like.
2007-06-18 19:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by Galahad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave, put this one behind you and start again, it willnever work out
2007-06-18 19:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by Pengy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋