what if you can tell a girl is interested in you but maybe just doesnt feel comfortable going out alone with you. I asked this girl if she wanted to go out to lunch or something sometime, and she said she did and it looked like she actually meant it (big smile eyes wide open ect.) and she flirts with me all the time. she said she would call me but she never did. I do know she is very busy but i think she just wants me to make the first move. help!!!
2007-06-18 12:27:55 · 8 answers · asked by Eric S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's probably nervous so if you make the first move it'll loosen her up a bit. And if she won't call you, ask her if you can call her sometime & if she doesn't answer 'cause she is busy, leave her a sweet, thoughtful voicemail.
2007-06-26 11:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could be nervous about it. it would help that you made the first move. Exchange numbers, call her, then wait for her to call you back, etc. ask when she has a day off, and then set up a time. Make sure to tell her it is ok if she has to cancel (she might get cold feet and say it's work, you have to be patient). She might be truly excited by nervous for whatever reason.
2007-06-26 06:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by butrflylvr82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do something simple but sweet and totally unexpected like bring her a rose. I'll bet she will just love it. Tell her you really want to spend time with her, you want to get to know her. These are the things a girl likes to here. The rose would just add sugar to the already sweet words you'll be saying. Romance her!!!
2007-06-26 02:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by Funeeegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why dont you make the first move?? that might be whatshe wants you to do...or shes playing hard to get but call her anyway to see whats up
2007-06-18 12:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well make the first move then
2007-06-25 01:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yur right she want yu move first just go for it have fun toghter
2007-06-26 12:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by rameshp999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time, she might be busy.
2007-06-26 10:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so make a reservation somewhere and tell her you'll pick her up at noon!
2007-06-25 07:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋