I like this guy, but don't know if i should ask him out, what do you think?

Question

Lol. I dont really know if this is a good advice center, but I rwally don't know. I like this guy, but don't know if i should ask him out, what do you think? And also, i dont know what my friends would think. I dont know what to do. :(

Answer 1

If you really like him, why not ask him out? The other option is to flirt seriously in his direction in the hope he asks you. That can work too.

Answer 2

First of all, if the guy likes you he'll make it perfectly loud and clear as your phone will constantly ring and make it abundantly clear he wants to pursue you. Thats how guys operate. Their M.O. is 10 times more obvious than the female who's nature it is to leave a man wandering in the outer reaches of the mysterious universe. I'd suggest learn as much as you can about as like studying the trends he follows and the friends he keeps. As you learn what you can by surrounding yourself in his social realm, you'll discover his habits and behavior patterns which will determine if he's right for you. Be selective and picky. Don't limit yourself to just the physical attraction that more than likely has evoked an infatuation. And most of all, be patient because you'll discover what it is you do want and the things you don't want.

Answer 3

Well, this is a easy question to answer. If you like a guy... you shouldnt be obligated to ask him out, because of what your friends might think of you. I mean... your friends might think oo thats my ex-boyfriend y are you asking him out, or that guys right for you... but they should get over it sooner or later... and if they dont... then their not exactly your real friends, or good ones for that matter..! So, my point here, is if you really like this guy, then go ask him out... My mom always says... the most a person could say is NO...

Answer 4

Some men are scared of overly aggressive women and are shy also. The only way to find out is to talk to him, before you ask him out. Get to know him and he will or should make the first step. If he doesn't then ask him why he has never asked you out.

Answer 5

How old are you? You sound pretty young. Why don't you start by asking him if he wants to hang out with a group of people. That way you can feel out whether he is even interested in you. That could be why he has not asked you out yet.

Answer 6

First, who cares what your friends think? Do they really have that much control over your life? If so, I advise that you cut that really quick.

Second, if you like him, tell him. Guys like a girl that's straightforward and can give them the real. It creates trust and predictability.

Good Luck!

Answer 7

first of all... you can't think about your friends all this much. ur relationships are part of YOUR life and YOUR deisions, not theirs. you must learn to build YOUR life, not see if your decisions are going to affect ur friends (meaning, ur personal decisions). what im saying is... yes, do what YOU want to do and dont let THEIR thoughts affect what YOU need to be doing. obviously, its your life, so you choose. secondly... yes, ask him out. dont be shy or anything... just come up and say "hey... its been a while that i wanted to talk to you and here i am and i wanted to let you know my feelings about you." and then tell him and ask him to go places.
see where it goes from there...
best luck

Answer 8

well who cares what your friends would think they are not the boss of you and if they try to be then they aren't really the best people to hang out with. So i say go for it its worth the try.

Answer 9

well you seem to like this guy. but if your more worried about what your friends think then you must not care that much. it dosent matter what your friends think they dont have to like him you do. and if you think tht you want to make tht commitment then go ahead nd ask him. dont be shy! he could like you back!!!

Answer 10

If he likes you he'd ask you out. And if you're worried about what your friends think then you don't like him that much.