me and my girlfriend have been argueing constantly over the last couple of weeks over little petty things and she always keeps things from me when i try to ask her things but then when she asks me things she expects an answer we never get time alone anymore and it is starting to realy begin to get to me and today we have been texting about it n now she dont want me to stay at hers i do near enough everything for her but now she planning to take a day off work for some reason which is so secretive but she dont want me there does anybody have a clue what i should do
2007-06-18 22:30:37 · 9 answers · asked by chrislambert3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's shady. I'd do something about it, like say exchange one of your answers for one of hers. It doesn't look good at this point :(
2007-06-18 22:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by internetnooborlyyarly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her for a while, you have been arguing alot because you have been around each other all the time. maybe she needs some space to think about things.let her do what she wants, if you keep on hasling her you will end up pushing her away.when she is ready she will come back and speak to you.you just need to give her time by herself. this happens to alot of people so dont worry.
2007-06-18 22:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you need a break.
maybetry stay away from each oter for a few weeks, concentrate on work or your friends to take your mind off it.
i know its hard cos i did that and i always wanted to pick up the phone. but don't! hopefully she'll miss you and come back to you . otherwise i would talk to her face to face,cos if she is hiding something at least its harder to lie face to face. ask what she wants. say how you feel bluntly.
2007-06-18 22:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by life_sux72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she won't communicate with you then ask yourself - do you trust her? If you do then don't get too suspicious. If you aren't sure then you've got to ask and if she won't tell then perhaps it's time you realised that she is definitely cheating on you and has found a better man to fill her gap !
2007-06-18 22:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are suspicious for the things she is doing and tell her why. Explain if she does not tell u what is going on then you will have to consider your relationship. Good luck
2007-06-18 23:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say goodbye to all this work, it sounds like mind reading isn't your forte and since it is not, dude find someone who will actually TALK with you about problems...
2007-06-18 22:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by ImaDork2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love her? if you do, stay and try to keep talking to her. if you don't, then move on and find someone who would at least try and want to spend time with you and not keep secrets.
sorry, this isn't much help.
2007-06-18 22:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by miss_laura_jane 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
break up with her?
...unless your one of those guys who trashes personality and laps looks, lol...
2007-06-18 22:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica_Rabbit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call it quite
2007-06-18 22:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by Simex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋