Theres this girl, she likes me alot and i like her alot. but like she went out with my cousin in middle school. Which was like 2 years ago. She doesnt like him but you know hes my cousin i love him.
Me and this girl can get together whenever i want. She wants to go out with me. But since she went out with my cousin i dont know. But in my head its like they went out in middle school should it really matter? I think in my mind he still likes her, because he caught us making out, and he got really, mad this happend like couple weekends ago. Does he still have feelings for her? They went out so long ago...He tells her he doesnt care and stuff. And with me he acts comepletely the same like as if nothing ever happend. Were good buds. But now hes trying to hook us up like in a desperate act. But she told me he keeps trying to get back with her. But shes like in love with me is what she tells me, I like her alot but not love. Should i move it further with this girl or not? Whats his prob?
2007-06-18 22:53:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And he has a girlfriend hes been with for a year...
2007-06-18 22:53:36 · update #1
Ameythyst she can get to him whenever she wnats...
2007-06-18 23:01:34 · update #2
I have a rep around my small town, and like my cousin thinks she used him to get to me...this is what she told me.
2007-06-18 23:02:42 · update #3
What cousin? Go immediately and love her. If you cannot, hire boy friends for her.
Anita
2007-06-18 22:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by anita d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you just have to talk to your cousin and you can observe some thing from what he responds and his emotions. But if she loves you, you don't have to worry much about your cousin. You have to ask your self and act as your heart tells you to do. What do you really think about her? Is she the one that you have been looking for? Do you like all about her? or do you still have some doubts that you may not be able to love her? you have got to answer those questions.
After that you can decide what to do.
Good Luck!
2007-06-19 06:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot is two words. Just so you know.
So, middle school was two years ago eh? Sounds like problem for mature people! Date the girl. Your cousin is already with someone else. By the way, that girl isn't in love with you. She has a teenage crush and you have one on her. If you're worried about hurting your cousins feelings, well, find another girl. At your age, it doesn't matter who you date. You're not capable of a real relationship.
Of course, you could just give it a rest and work on school. It seems like you need it. See point number one.
2007-06-19 05:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by qwertatious 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go for it, f*ck it you don't want to live your life with regrets and miss out on an opportunity with a great girl even though she went out with your cousin in middle school middle school relationships are most puppy love. so take the opportunity while you have it.
2007-06-19 06:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's the possessive type of guy who doesnt really likes his ex being with someone he knows? Well, if the both of you like each other, y bother about your cousin? It's not like he's still single and doing things to woo that girl.. Moreover, its the girl who chooses who she likes to be with.. If she chose you, then ask your cousin to give it up and accept the fact..
2007-06-19 06:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by jacquesLee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship with your cousin is more important. Tell her to kick rocks.
2007-06-19 05:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your cousin, If it's ok with him then you are good to go.
2007-06-19 05:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by TRH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's playing games, I'd stay away from her.
2007-06-19 09:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's jealous ... and you're confused ... don't take any action until you sort out your feelings ... and ... have you considered the fact ... that she might be using you ... to get to him ...
2007-06-19 06:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by Amethyst_Moonfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it if hes got a gil then there shouldnt be a problem...
2007-06-19 05:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by skitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋