Family & Relationships - 19 June 2007

My first relationship was about a year and a half ago, and it lasted for a mere 3 weeks. But the breakup was awfully messy and complicated, and it left me heartbroken for six months (about until I left for college). While away at school I was able to forget about him, but since I've been home for the summer I've seen him a few times, since he lives in my neighborhood. Since then, I cant stop thinking about him. I've come close to tears.

I've been in a relationship with a wonderful man for the past six months, but we are apart for the summer. The long distance, plus seeing my ex, has made me very depressed.

How can I get over my ex-boyfriend? I thought I was fine, but then I saw him again, and all the hurt came rushing back... Help!

2007-06-19 06:59:32 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 06:50:13 · 20 answers · asked by SATISH KUMAR N 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been looking at different recpetion sites and the majority of them are about 25-30 minutes away from the church witht he excpetion of a few places right in my city that are extremely expensive in price. My mom keeps telling me a half hour is too far away and that this one place is on a hill and that's a bad idea in February since the wedding is in Massachusetts. Do you think a half hour is too far to drive for a reception? Would it make a difference if i forewarned everyone on theinvite that the recption would be a half hour drive? That would allow them to choose weather or not they wanted to attend just the ceremony. Shouldn't I be able to get what I want since it's my wedding and my request isn't crazy?

2007-06-19 06:49:38 · 20 answers · asked by LA 2 in Weddings

my friend is going out with this guy and she's 4 yrs older then him is that wierd?

2007-06-19 06:44:37 · 33 answers · asked by eminems_chick2007 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so this girl and I have gone out on a couple of dates. Both were excellent and there is definitely a great vibe there. I know that I really like her, but since it is so early, I don't yet know exactly how interested she is, or I guess I should say whether she is interested in a relationship.

She went on vacation last week and will be gone for the next two weeks as well. I was also on vacation out of town this past week. Well, before I left, I wasn't exactly sure how much I should contact her, just so that I didn't push things too much and become to clingy, ya know?

I decided every 3 days or so is about right....well we ended up speaking almost every single day, and a couple of times twice a day. Obviously this is a good sign, but would you take it the same way? I just am a little surprised (in a good way) that she would take the time to talk as much, considering she is busy with family on vacation.

Should I be excited about a possible relationship with her?

2007-06-19 06:42:30 · 5 answers · asked by John H 3 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if your bi or not?
Me and my sister are each others BF and she told me about 6 months ago that she was bi. Recently I told her that I had occasionly thought about becoming bi myself(don't get me wrong I would go gay because I like girls way more than guys) over the past 2& 1/2 years but did'nt know if I could do it or not. She thinks it would be great and that I should definatly become bi. And since were already best freinds, she also thinks that it would be cool to have that secret between us (I'm the only one who knows she's bi) and the fact that I could help her with girls and she could help me with guys. I'm still a little confused because it's like one half of me is telling me to do it because I really want to and the other half of me is telling not to because I dont know if I could go through with doing something with a guy or not, or what I would do if some one found out about it . I really need some help on whether or not I should do it.

2007-06-19 06:41:00 · 12 answers · asked by Drifter 1 in Singles & Dating

Or girls, how would you want your boyfriend to propose to you?

Okay, I may lack in confidence in approaching girls to ask them out at the moment but as an Everton fan, as a dream proposal for me, we'd both go to a game like Everton v Man United/Arsenal/Liverpool and vitness a good Everton victory.

Then after the game, we'd head to the centre circle of the Goodison Park pitch and the Everton players along with David Moyes, Everton legends such as Graeme Sharp, David Unsworth, Martin Keown and Duncan Ferguson would come out with the ring and the opposition players would come along with their manager. If she said 'yes', we'd celebrate by having dinner and champagne with the Everton players, manager and legends along with the players and manager from the opposition that day.

What is everyone else's dream wedding proposal?

2007-06-19 06:38:28 · 15 answers · asked by Williaml2012 3 in Weddings

without seeming like we only want in your pants (ie, from car to car @ a traffic light, at the grocery store, the library, etc., etc., etc.). When the direct approach isn't an option or just to be friendly. Please----help 'em out, ladies. Thanks,

askaman

2007-06-19 06:38:21 · 5 answers · asked by www.askaman 3 in Singles & Dating

I signed a quit-claim deed in Ohio almost 3 years ago. My ex-husband refused to give me my divorce settlement check until I signed the deed. Now, three years later, he still refuses to refinance and get my name off of the house. I own my own home now and take care of two children and don't want the house on my credit. I've asked him several times to refinance. He says he won't, because it's not a money-saver for him and won't do anything unless I help him pay whatever it costs to refinance, which is out of the question. I know that he is doing this out of spite and won't ever refinance unless he's forced to. I want to get a lawyer and see if there is anything I can do. I am a single mom with 2 kids and I own a home already...I don't want his home on my credit too for the next 25 years. Please help!

2007-06-19 06:37:56 · 13 answers · asked by Vicki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi everyone!

There is this woman at my workplace, who claims she can sing and has a myspace promoting her music.

I announced to everyone at work that I was getting wed next year and she said, 'Do you want me to sing at your wedding?' She is not mention anything about prices.

Then I mentioned what songs I want played at the wedding, then she said again.. 'Are you gonna pay me'

I have not even invited her, she has it in her head that she is coming automatically!

If she does come, I wonder how she would feel if I charged her for the food she eats at the reception.

What do you think of that, dont you think its rude.

2007-06-19 06:37:29 · 22 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Weddings

my ex boyfrien i love him with all my heart well hes in a group home and i was writing him letters nd stuff and talkin 2 him on the phone well i found out he was goin out with this other girl the whole time! but i still love him he means the world 2 me. i really wana be with him but his daddy or his sister dnt want us 2 gether. and he always lies 2 me! but i love him 2 death! wat should i do????

2007-06-19 06:36:20 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ Roxy ♥ 1 in Friends

im dressing up like a girl but the girls who bet me need to do something

2007-06-19 06:35:53 · 6 answers · asked by sdgsdg f 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 06:33:01 · 14 answers · asked by krq_854 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 40+ male who has only had sex with my wife. My problem is that my sex drive is off the charts and her's is not on the charts. She was abused as a child and has very low testasterone and libido. In fact, she says when I die that she will not have sex again!
Due to my need for sexual release, I would supplement our weekly 'get together' with masturbation once or twice a week to pictures I had saved on my PC or cut out of magazines. She caught me one day and told me I was cheating on her. So, I agreed to stop viewing porn pictures. On a previous vacation, she got drunk and allowed me to shoot some photos of her in my favorite lingerie. I now use these pictures to maturbate - but am very concerned that she'll take them if she finds out I'm doing this. She doesn't have a problem with me masturbating in the shower and recognizes that this is 'needed' due to her low libido. But, she doesn't want me using my eyes for stimulation.

Please help!

2007-06-19 06:33:00 · 31 answers · asked by jimbo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I currently live with my parents and I dont pay rent. My stepmom decided to kick me out and I have untill August 1st to find a place to go. She keeps asking me when im moving and I dont know. She told me that when I know I legally have to let her know my moving date. I disagree because since I am not paying rent I dont think I have to tell her anything. And besides she is being a total ***** about the whole thing...

2007-06-19 06:30:15 · 18 answers · asked by appleshat 2 in Family

I bought my wedding dress 3 1/2 years ago to marry my then fiancee who turned out to be a TOTAL prick (in more ways than one) and I called it all off 8 months before the big day. The dress I picked out is the dress I had always wanted. Can I wear it down the isle still or should I get another? My fiancee now doesn't mind. Help?

2007-06-19 06:29:57 · 24 answers · asked by PNJ T 1 in Weddings

Sorry I posted this before but people barely answered.

I'm so torn and I have no idea what to do. My live in boyfriend who I love and adore has done something really stupid. When I was visiting home with my parents, my bf, my mother, brother's gf, my mom, and I were all sitting down having a conversation. My brother's gf said something to upset my bf (which it really shouldn't have) and he blew up. He was just screaming and yelling at everyone. He told all of us "F you" and other obsenities. It got to the point he was screaming at my mom and threw him out of the house.
My dad got home and took him to talk with him. My mom says I should leave him because she thinks i'm not safe to be alone with him. My dad says after their talk to give him a chance. What the hell do I do??? I'm soooo torn. I feel a duty to my family that if he disrespected them like that, he doesn't deserve to be with me. Yet, I wanna marry this kid.

Btw- he's had an outburst at my parent's house once before.

2007-06-19 06:26:40 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Half the guys I see on a date or meeting their girl this summer are wearing... shorts! I mean short shorts and the girl is all over them (and all over the shorts:)... I NEVER go on a meeting (esp. date with a girl in short shorts even if the temperature's 50 C+ out there). I understand a lot of things but this is out of my reach...:) And don't tell me that the shorts just come off faster... That ain't it, I'm sure:)

2007-06-19 06:25:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am BAD at breakups, and tend to hang on a long time. I just need some "out side" opinions-
I am 34 and my boyfriend of over a year is 23.....I have one child and he does not have any kids.
He likes to YELL at me- we fight almost everyday, and instead of us talking, he yells, it is humiliating. He does not care who is around- my friends, his parents, it does not matter, and he yells loud. Alcohol is an issue!
Also, recently he had an "issue" with his bank account, and he was unable to help me financially with the rent (we live together). Then he lost his job-great news~
Well, I am fine with all that, it sucks, but I have been trying to make it work. He has not even looked for a job, its been 2 weeks-and he lied to me and told me he WENT to a place to apply, and he did not, he applied online,why? I don't understand. He never told me what happened with his account, only that it was negative alot-how does that happen?we have a trip planned, and now I feel uncomforatable going. Help..

2007-06-19 06:25:22 · 11 answers · asked by Tracy L 2 in Singles & Dating

II GOT MY PICTURESZ DONE AWHILE AGO..
and now 2 months later FINALLY i got hired to be a model
im going to be modeling for VOGUE !!!!!!!!!
not lyin` , they said they like me causz im mixed =]

2007-06-19 06:23:26 · 30 answers · asked by anastasia l 1 in Singles & Dating

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I was chatting with my girlfriend on instant messanger and i told her i was going to call... and she didnt answer... mind you i am in iraq... would you be angry? I am so mad i cannot even think... what should i do?

2007-06-19 06:21:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous 4 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I are really close. He just came to my school this year and I was one of his first friends. He's really funny and sweet, jsut a blast to be around. I've sort of fallen for him in the past month and I don't know what he thinks of me. We flirt all the time and constantly make sexual comments/jokes to each other. He treats me differently than his otehr friends that are girls... Whenever he sees me he gives me a hug or picks me up and hugs me and things like that... Sometimes it seems like he likes me, but sometimes I'm unsure...?

2007-06-19 06:21:36 · 16 answers · asked by xobballxo3 2 in Singles & Dating

We are not married, I give her 40% of my salary, just she hates me because I didnt marry her

2007-06-19 06:21:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am looking to purchase a new home so that my kids may grow up with the things I never had.

Which is better: Being house poor (unable to afford any additional luxuries) so that they have a nice home and environment to grow up in, or a cheaper home where I can give them what they want, when they want it (provided they earned said want)

2007-06-19 06:20:36 · 4 answers · asked by John D 1 in Family

2007-06-19 06:19:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

However he flirts a lot, but respect you.

2007-06-19 06:18:47 · 25 answers · asked by Destiny 4 in Weddings

I have 2 "best friends" one whom I've been close to throughout childhood, and the other I'm better friends with NOW, but haven't known her quite as long. How do I choose?? And if I chose both of them like I've heard someone say, how do you choose what each is supposed to do and who stands where during the ceremony? Thanks!

2007-06-19 06:18:11 · 12 answers · asked by VDJ44 3 in Weddings

i'm fat guy & i don't know if girls love it or no i'm not very fat but fat , i think i never find girls love fat guy i don't know ,help

2007-06-19 06:17:59 · 32 answers · asked by lover_life 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 06:17:06 · 75 answers · asked by Destiny 4 in Weddings

She is with us all summer.Is there a legal way to do this and or is this possible. thank you =)

2007-06-19 06:15:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family