Family & Relationships - 19 June 2007

Firs of all, I’m sorry about my English (it is my second language) I hope you understand my question:

I have a friend who just got divorced, she has a 4-year-old daughter. She is already going out with several guys and since she does not have a babysitter she takes her kid with her to her dates. In my opinion that absolutely traumatic for the little girl, making her a very confuse child. The girl rather to be with her dad, who has 33% of her custody.

Please…. I need the professional opinion of a psychologist. I have said to my friend that I don’t agree with that and that she is harming her child. But she thinks that she is not doing something wrong.

Could you give me your opinion, and how can I help her to understand that what she is doing is not acceptable.

Thank you so much!… I really appreciate your professional advice.

2007-06-19 06:15:14 · 3 answers · asked by Artna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i just recently started sleeping with my boyfriend , but there's one really big problem he finishes in 3 to 5 minutes (and i hate to say this but if my last boyfriend finsihed in 30 minutes that was fast) so needless to say he's not really doing anything for me im just getting started when he's completly done .... the weird thing is he acts like nothings wrong like he gave me the best of the best is this common? have you been with other men that think this is normal also ? or is it something he's just not comfortable with so ignores it? and is it something that i should address or should i just stay queit and hope he can atleast go for 10 minutes one day ? ........... lol, the worst part is he bragged so much about himself before and after we had sex

2007-06-19 06:15:09 · 18 answers · asked by live in the magic of life 3 in Singles & Dating

Shes always edgy about things, she never wants to hear me out. Once she says no about something she doesn't want to hear my view of it. shes hurting me really bad but I cant get her to see it. She manipulates it so I end up looking bad, then I end up saying sorry. Icant take this anymore, I prayed about but how can I make her see what shes doing to me. Her high principles are going to be the death of me.

2007-06-19 06:15:09 · 3 answers · asked by cocoshake_16 2 in Family

Hello, it's me, Lauren. (Tren for shorrt)

Umm...well, I'm asian, and I hang out with a whole group of asians and we just sit around the house and stuff. But anyways, I met my friend's cousins and I think one of them likes me. He's always flirting with me, or mocking me, or just trying to hang out with me. Sometimes his family (aka my friends) will say you LIIKKE Lauren and he slaps his bro T_T ...and one time I was sleeping over with my friends (aka his cousins, lol) and we were playing truth or dare, and he was dared to say how he felt (*about me) but started a little fight instead, after he was like struck-frozen, staring at everyone. Also, when we all go somewhere like say to the mall or somewhere, he tries to walk with me and joke around a lot. Or sometimes when I'm at their house, he pulls me away just to sit with him and talk andhang in his room. He also compliments with almost every little thing I do. Like, "Look at that little smile" or "Damn, you're so smart" or when he's tired he'll say I'm pretty and have nice eyes smile and skin and personality and stuff... Also, a week or two ago he saw me on webcam, and I forgot I was singing, so at my city's asian festival I spotted him and he started making fun of me (dancing around like he was gay and singing...in a girly voice) and I ran up to him, and then, my mother called, so I couldnt get him, then I guess he was the humiliated one, since his face flushed. What I dont get is that sometimes he is playful and sometimes he is soo deep. I must admit he makes me laugh and I can also have deep conversations with him. He also said that if any man or guy or person hurt me to come to him, because he wouldnot tolerate it and he doesnt want me to be hurt...Now, that I'm thinking, the more I type, the more I think I might like him too. We've also hugged a few times in private, but I wasnt really sure what it was to him at the time. I sleep over at their house in like a week, so...I guess I'll have to see what goes on the next chapter, but tell me what you think about him thus far. Does he like me? Should we go out?

**he also does cute little jesters toward me, like pinching my cheek slightly, grabbing my shoulders and dancing me around like I'm a puppet, and sometimes head nods...

**he is soo weird sometimes

**question is: ---Do I like him? ---Does he like me?

>> plus a few weeks ago, we were about to play chicken fight with everyone, and he and his bro had a fight about who was going to carry me on top..his bro was trying to make him mad..so we didnt play chicken fight..hehe.. and sometimes he will ask me to hop on his back...(more like tell me to) not to mention, he also has my phone number thanks to my cousin... and he also calls me his cute little girl.. and sometimes we only do things the two of us together...

***THaNKS fOr THe AdvIcE EvErybOdy***

2007-06-19 06:14:33 · 7 answers · asked by tren 1 in Singles & Dating

Every now and then, you meet people who in one way or another hurt you. But then you forgive some but not all.

2007-06-19 06:14:14 · 2 answers · asked by Curious mind 2 in Singles & Dating

So I was with this guy for a lil over 3 yrs. At the begining everything was great but going into the two yr mark, he lost it! He got into really heavy drugs, and mistreated me. He didnt even look like himself anymore, after he finally got clean I decided it would be best for me to leave him so I could regain myself, since I had lost so much helping him out. Now I feel that he's back to the person he was when we first got together and he wants me back, all my family and friends dislike him and would be really upset with me if I got back together with him. I really dont know what to do! I cant picture my life without him in it, I love him more than words can describe and he knows me better than anybody. People always tell me I deserve better than him, and to a certain extent I know that, but I still want to be with him. At the same time I dont want to dissappoint my friends and family that have been so supportive of me.

2007-06-19 06:13:53 · 2 answers · asked by x8Jaded8x 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-19 06:12:28 · 15 answers · asked by 1MVP69 2 in Singles & Dating

when do you stop in a relationship when you keep getting knocked back.. do you just say to yourself .. well that will be that then . and cope with the rejection. x

2007-06-19 06:10:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why do white men think black women want to be accepted by them. in my experiences, only a FEW black women exclusively date white men. yeah, yeah, yeah, i know race doesn't matter as long as you love the person inside, but i just get the feeling that most white men think black women want to be loved and adored by them and i'm here to tell you THAT IS JUST NOT TRUE. btw, i'm not black nor am i racist..

2007-06-19 06:09:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would love to get married in Ireland but have no idea where to even start!! Can someone recommend a good website, book, etc to help me figure it out!! Thank you so much!

2007-06-19 06:07:53 · 5 answers · asked by pickle_road 1 in Weddings

just a random question. i like this guy at my work and i want to know if he is horny? we always flirt whenver were alone but i want to how can i tell if imake him horny? we smile constantly at each other. sometimes he tells me that i look hot, attractive and nice.

2007-06-19 06:06:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I left my manipulative husband over 2 months ago. He called me a month after I left because he wanted to clear things up. I met him and somehow I got duped into meeting with him and his bishop and it became a counselling session. I should mention that with in 3 months my husband became a born again christian and told me when I up with him again that and I quote "In my home we will be christians", he forced a bible on me and christian cd. I find it very hard to believe that he is really a christian especially because at our first counselling session with the bishop, when asked what our problem was in the marriage he said "my wifes inability to forgive" and nothing else. He failed to mention that I caught him logging into the same dating site we met on looking for intimate encounters, he failed to mention that he did his best to convince me that marrying him after 4 months of dating was the right things to do because he needed a sponsor to stay here so we could be together.

2007-06-19 06:05:52 · 14 answers · asked by MsTrust 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 06:01:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

because I'm stuck with her... she's 5'3 and 185, was 115 when we got married 18 years ago. She then said to the counseller she doesn't care if I cheat, as long as I always "come home to her without any diseases or other women's babies."

Question: Is there a point in any further counselling?

2007-06-19 06:00:30 · 24 answers · asked by old married guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 05:57:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do u think of the show i think its cool but what kid do u hate the most who do u luv the most jacob gets no attention i think molly kinda a brat but jeremeys hot what do u think

2007-06-19 05:54:45 · 6 answers · asked by shelby92793smile 2 in Family

They have made me cry, scream, and just sit in the bathroom for an hour until I could leave. I try changing the subject, telling them to back off, and even just ignoring it, but nothing works. My cousins dangle meat in my face (im a vegetarian) and my dad just yells. I have never tried to push any of my beliefs on them, and never even bring them up until they make fun of me. I hate going to family funtions, even though they happen all the time. How can I get them to back off without yelling?

2007-06-19 05:52:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-19 05:51:33 · 6 answers · asked by izz 1 in Singles & Dating

so my girlfreind was wearing white shorts that you can see through to her green lacy panties with the word royalty across the *** this mourning before she left for her class. so i point this out to her and she replys i had to wear thes panties because i didnt have any white ones, OK! anyways.. so i tell her "shes dressed like a slut", and she losses her mind and said i hurt her feelings,and i should of kept my opinion to my self. WHAT !!!!! ... And she honestly believes this... PLEASE some one tell me this sounds as crazy to you as it does to me.... THANK YOU....

2007-06-19 05:51:07 · 12 answers · asked by john l 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy is really cute and is liked by a lot of girls. I get very nervous when i talk to him. This guy also knows that I like him. Someone please tell me how to ask him out.

2007-06-19 05:50:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend never seem to greet his female friends when we are out together. If they happen to say "hi", he'll wave or nod his head.

My boyfriend never tells me about his ex girlfriends. One time I found a picture and asked him who she was, he simply just told me " someone he knows". I found out later that she was his ex. Perhaps, it's out of repect, but he never talks to me about girls (Unless she's on TV.) He never tells me how he got hit on, or some girl has a crush on him.

Maybe I'm reading too deep into things, but I find it kind of odd. To me people like that are sneaky.

2007-06-19 05:49:12 · 5 answers · asked by LoveLess 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend always fine exuse for us to not spend time together the only way he comes around is when i buy him something but he say he love me please advise me is that love

2007-06-19 05:49:05 · 4 answers · asked by unforgetable 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends and family are hating me! i have people at school slagging me of, one even made up and address and pretnded to be a teacher and asked me for dirty pictures? and my family, i just feel hate, and they dont seem to care about me. I always get the blame, iam 15, i want responsability, i dont get any!!!, but my sister just gets what she wants, i get told to shut up. I dont swaer or any think at my parents or friends. I wouldnt call them frineds though. Even my closest frined is been weird, they all belive the rumores and gossip and i can't cope. It doesnt help as i have got GCSE exmas this week!

2007-06-19 05:47:21 · 6 answers · asked by Me!!! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I work with a girl that I like a lot she just broke up with her fiancé not to long ago and he is still trying to work things out with her. She tells me that she dose not what to get back to together with him. So anyways she likes me but she’s not sure if she wants to go out with anyone. We have slept together a few times now and I love being with her and she loves being with me. We are always hanging together. My mother just passed away not to long ago and she has supported me so much. I could sleep after my mother passed for some time and she came over to be with me in my time of need and helped me sleep just by being there. I’m at odds with what to do with our relationship should I just give her space? What is our relation ship? I have asked her this and her response confused me more she said she is taking one day at a time..and that throw me off balance witch is unnatural for me. Dose anyone have any advice or maybe another view point that they could share with me to clear things up

2007-06-19 05:47:13 · 3 answers · asked by charles h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-06-19 05:43:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 05:42:19 · 31 answers · asked by Dev 1 in Weddings

I called my boyfriend over yesterday so that we could have sex, but I didn't want just any kind of sex, I wanted it rough and passionate. But when he came over he acted like such a softy and I wasn't interested anymore. He told me he felt like a failure for not being able to please me. The thing is he just doesn't try anything new or look to books or anything to help even after I point them out to him.
So in the middle of the night I wake up and he is masterbating. It was strange cause it was all secretive, and I was mad and said that it bothered me. But I was gonna leave it at that I mean I didn't give him any so why not jack off.
Then he goes to the bathroom and my intuition tells me to check his phone (i mean he was acting funny). I find that his ex invited him to her sister's wedding but then the other text messages are nasty, and talk about dick and them *******.
I confronted him, hit him(which I feel bad about), and kicked him out.
I trust know it was just a text thing

2007-06-19 05:41:56 · 1 answers · asked by The thinker 4 in Singles & Dating

I said to her "tonight I'll do anything you want". She stood me behind the ironing board with the ironing and put duct tape over my mouth. She sat watching TV!! Cheeky cow!! lol

2007-06-19 05:40:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 47 year old male married to a 41 year old woman. We are happy together and love each other a lot... However one night when my wife was out of town for a business trip, I took my 21 year old stepdaughter out to dinner and we went drinking and then it happenned... we had sex! It was almost subconcious type of thing because we were both wasted. I do regret it. She told me not to worry about it and that it was cool. Should I still tell my wife or not? I am torn! Help please...

2007-06-19 05:38:55 · 31 answers · asked by Ronnie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 05:35:12 · 24 answers · asked by Megs 1 in Weddings