Is this odd?

Question

My boyfriend never seem to greet his female friends when we are out together. If they happen to say "hi", he'll wave or nod his head.

My boyfriend never tells me about his ex girlfriends. One time I found a picture and asked him who she was, he simply just told me " someone he knows". I found out later that she was his ex. Perhaps, it's out of repect, but he never talks to me about girls (Unless she's on TV.) He never tells me how he got hit on, or some girl has a crush on him.

Maybe I'm reading too deep into things, but I find it kind of odd. To me people like that are sneaky.

Answer 1

I'm the same way with my girlfriend. I don't like to talk about my previous relationships with her simply because it doesn't concern her. I've left my past behind me. But I know that once the topic is brought up or she sees pictures of my ex's (not that I have any) then she'll start to compare herself and our relationship to those of my ex's, start asking never ending questions about my ex's, etc.....So I just nip it in the bud and not talk about them. It saves me the headache from all the nagging.

Answer 2

No he probably doesn't want to talk about his ex girlfriends because it makes him feel uncomfortable or he doesn't want you to feel uncomfortable. I think he is just respecting you by not talking about people he used to be with. Right now they don't matter to him, you do.

Answer 3

It sounds to me like your boyfriend is letting the past be the past, and is trying his best around you not to seem attracted to other girls, or make you jealous. It's not odd, and, in fact, he sounds like a nice guy.

Answer 4

I think he's doin it out of respect, He may feel awkward around other women now he is with you, just incase he offends you or you get jelous.
Make the most of it! there's plenty a bloke's out there who'll eye up women when their with someone!

Answer 5

tell him how u feel, tell him to b open with u and to tell u those things that make u feel uncomfortable, if u dont ask he wont answer.