This guy is really cute and is liked by a lot of girls. I get very nervous when i talk to him. This guy also knows that I like him. Someone please tell me how to ask him out.
2007-06-19 05:50:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I get asked out by a lot of girls too, and honestly, when a girl does it, there is something in my head that tells me I can take advantage of her... so my advice is to wait until he asks you. You have to make him think he's chasing you, not you him.
If he knows you are after him, then he will take advantage. That's how we men are wired in our brains. We take advantage of women if we can.
If he doesn't ask you out, then he is not really that into you, so you asking him out will not really make a difference, because if he's not into you, then he might say yes for the date, but he will just use you and in the end you and him will not be together.
He has to want you, so you better wait for him to approach you...
2007-06-19 05:55:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by asking him to some sort of local social event and see if the interest is returned. If he is as popular as you say, he may actually be alone. Many of the "pretty" people are not approached because everyone thinks they must already have someone. This probably happens more for in the case of women, but he may be available and looking for someone to spend time with. Good luck.............
2007-06-19 12:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Missouri Mick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't........He already knows that you like him so leave at that. You already said that all of the girls like him and he obviously knows that. You need to be the one girl that don't go goo-goo over him and that will create mystery in you that will make him want to know why you are not chasing him down like all the other girls.
You need to be that special girl that is going to make him persue you. Guys like it when a girl acts like she is really not that interested in them. It's good that he knows you are attracted to him but just don't show it. Keep your cool around him like the two of you are just friends and stay busy with your own life because you did have a life befor he came in it.
Always stay confident and cool because all men like a confident woman.
2007-06-19 13:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by teri d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my suggestion is don't have someone else ask him for you. either a text message or a phone call would work, or even try asking him yourself in person. that will show him how much you really like him and he won't be able to turn you down. good luck.
2007-06-19 12:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by jenna h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2jaded nailed it. how old are you? as long as your not in highschool, the guy should have enough balls to ask you out, especially if he knows you like him. get him alone, and give him a chance, if he doesn't, do what jaded said. ask him out
2007-06-19 13:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by jon h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi (insert name)! Wanna go out for a pizza/movie/whatever? Job done.
2007-06-19 12:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by 2Jaded 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Azula S, Just look him straight in the eye and be honest !
2007-06-19 12:54:31 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say"hey, would you like to go to dinner with me this Saturday?" Just do it and get it off your chest.
2007-06-19 12:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by Windy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋