Help!!!!! Please any one!?

Question

My friends and family are hating me! i have people at school slagging me of, one even made up and address and pretnded to be a teacher and asked me for dirty pictures? and my family, i just feel hate, and they dont seem to care about me. I always get the blame, iam 15, i want responsability, i dont get any!!!, but my sister just gets what she wants, i get told to shut up. I dont swaer or any think at my parents or friends. I wouldnt call them frineds though. Even my closest frined is been weird, they all belive the rumores and gossip and i can't cope. It doesnt help as i have got GCSE exmas this week!

I found some new friedsm but one of them have started rumors. I am responsable and have always got good school grades, but they are been effected by this.

Answer 1

Hello,

Please you must speak to someone professional who can help you. Go to a teacher or adult at your school who you like or trust - they will be able to help you. Teachers and adults in schools are used to helping people with things and they will sit and listen to you, and not judge you. There will be a specially trained teacher in the school who will help you deal with these problems. The dirty pictures thing is terrible for you to have to put up with and needs to be stopped - the behaviour of the people who did this to you is unacceptable. Your school might also have a counsellor - you can go to them as well.

If you really can't face seeing anyone at school, go to your doctor who can help you. They may suggest someone you can go to who can help you. Finally, it may be hard but you could try talking to you mum or dad? They may really not know that you are very unhappy, and it may make you feel better if you told them - then they can try to help.

Finally, please do talk to someone - you are going through an important part of your lfe with the GCSEs coming up. You will find that you feel better about things once someone is helping you - and may I wish you the best of luck in your exams - I hope all goes well for you and things get sorted out.

Answer 2

Do your GCSEs first as you will need these to improve your chances of having a better life and afterwards when the pressures gone you might find that you feel better and can cope with other people. Other people are always complicated and it takes a lot of inner strength to be able to deal with them.

See if you can find someone to talk to who you know, otherwise you could call the Samaritans or some other helpline.

Answer 3

find some new friends, dont rise to any arguements just walk away and people will soon realise the change in you and start
to treat you nicer. If you want responsibility you will get it as soon as your parents feel you are acting responsible.

Answer 4

AGe 15 does that way, peeps seems hard 2 understand u...
now, focus on ur GCSE.....Later, take a time, talk 2 ur parents, ask them wats wrong.......u might do wrong without noticing it....
Ur fren? Means she's not a fren.....U'll find some1 better....
And one more, pray a lot....that helps

Answer 5

You need to talk to an adult you trust, immediately. Is there a teacher or counselor you're comfortable with? Maybe the school nurse, or your family doctor? Please talk to someone honey.

And pray. God is there for you and He loves you. Ask for strength and wisdom and guidance. It sounds like you are being bullied and you need help with how to handle it. I will pray for you, and I will be asking God for strength, wisdom, and guidance for you. I will also ask Him to send you to an appropriate adult for help.

Answer 6

Talk to a teacher or fav. aunt tell them how you are feeling, it often takes just being able to talk about it to make others understand more about how you feel or for them to reasure you about the way they or your family/freinds feel about you.