My fiance recently told me that he wanted to push back our wedding another year or so. We had set the date for September of next year, and were just about to send the deposit in for our venue when he told me he was scared and would like to wait. I was obviously devistated, as I had begun the planning and the venue had been booked, but I agreed to put it off for a bit. I can see where he's coming from because he has a string of very messy divorces in his family ( not one couple still together!!) and the momentum of it all can be frightening. We've had a rough year too, and I wouldn't mind being a bit more financially stable before we wed. The problem is, I'm still so angry at him for canceling our original date! Things will be going well, and then he'll mention the wedding, and I instantly get heated! I'm trying to be understanding and practical, but it's so hard. I know he's scared, but I'm just so hurt.
2007-06-19
02:40:17
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