I knew him for one month and he told me he loves me. He does not review on certain things like his age, his martial status and where he stays. He is so worried when i told him that i want to look for him at his place. Why ? I am puzzled but always did not get an answer from him. He just asked me to give him the trust that all he wants. Should i believe or not ? I am at a lost now cos i think i really like him a lot.
2007-06-19 03:34:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say that chances are there is alot more to this story than you really know. Get out now... Run very fast.... If he won't say that he is or is not married, then chances are he may very well be.. If he does not wnat you to find him at his place, then he may have things such as a wife to hide there. I suggest you search his name in the directory, or google it, and get you some answers fast. Something is not right..... Good Luck Grl... :)
2007-06-19 03:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by johnniesgrl_34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first of all you dont exactly know him that well. i mean u guys been together for 1 month. and he hasnt told u anything about himself..but do u tell him everythign about u? if the answer is yes then he either is too scared to tell u that he still lives with his mother or that he just is playing around and doesnt want a commitment. i mean why cant he tell u anything? while on the other hand u tell him things that he wont even mention to u. and does he always go like oh u dont trust me? or question u ?? or go like do u love me? if u do then stop asking these questions? chances are hes hiding something from u i dont know what it is there could be a million possibilities. but tell him that its not going to work out if he keeps being this secretive. leave him, he doesnt deserve u or ur time. good luck =)
2007-06-19 10:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your distance and your legs closed. It sounds like this guy is playing games by saying what he thinks you want to hear. Actions speak louder than words.
How can he expect you to trust him when he is not giving you reason to get to know more about his life.
Maybe he's married/shacking, and/or a fugitive on the run. I would stop allowing him access to your house or even accept his phone calls until he shows you where he lives, who his friends and family are.
It seems you don't know as much as you should before investing your emotions into someone. Right now you just like the illusion of what you want this relationship to be not what is really being shown to you. That's how so many women get hurt. Don't let him use you. Don't give your love away too easy make him earn it.
Good Luck!
2007-06-19 10:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by anosey1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the man won't tell you how old he is, you can't trust him!!
He doesn't love you, if he was in love with you he wouldn't be scared to show you his true self. Love is about bareing ALL. Love sees all so it chooses to see less. Him not allowing you into his life means he is not secret with you - what does he plan on never telling you?? Do not believe him. Do not trust him. You deserve answers, if you ask, he should answer. Thats it! Unless he has something to hide. If he's not ashamed then he has nothing to hide.
2007-06-19 10:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is hiding something (actually sounds like a lot of somethings) and that much is obvious. He is asking for trust but has not been open and honest with you, therefore not giving you any reason to trust him. If you do continue with this relationship, prepare to be hurt. I think you like the idea of what you want him to be, but it sounds like you don't really know him and he is banking on that.
2007-06-19 10:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can never be so assure when a man is serious but most likely if he was serious he will be wide open with everything and would tell you any kind of secrets he had. your best friend might be secretive because of the fact she might not know alot about him or either she thinks that your more attractive and may not want you to be very interactive with him.
2007-06-19 10:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but, you need to learn to follow your instincts. You already know there is something majorly wrong with this situation. The only thing that is holding you is his overcompensation for what he's hiding. He's making you feel very special and treating you extra nice. This probably isn't his normal relationship behavior. But, he must keep you hooked. Don't fall for this. Let him go.
2007-06-19 10:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by peace seeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes keeping everything a secret, you dont know what else he might be hiding. dont waste your time on someone who doesnt trust you enough to tell you the truth. you deserve a man that can make you happy, so go out there and find one.
2007-06-19 10:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not good, there is something about his home life that he doesn't want you to know. It sounds like he is married. The best advice I can give you is to break up with him. He is not being honest about something and you do not want to mixed up in a bad situation.
2007-06-19 10:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by littleone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you know the answer but, your infatuation with him has you looking for justification to keep trying to be with him. It sounds like he has someone else, especially if the dude is telling you he loves you, that is a lie you don't even know each other yet.
2007-06-19 10:38:59 · answer #10 · answered by nathan r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋