14yr old son caught peeking in on his friends sister in the shower?

Question

she talked to me about it and wants me to allow her and her daughter to each take a free kick to this groin. i kinda of with her on that..what do u guys thing? should i go through with it

Answer 1

WHY DID YOU ASK THIS QUESTION 2 TIMES? DID NOT GET THE ANSWERS YOU WERE HOPING FOR THE FIRST TIME?

No matter how many times you ask, it is still wrong to allow someone to kick your son in the testicles.

What he did was wrong, but he does not deserve the pain you want to be allowed to inflict on him.


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I HAVE LEARNED THRU ANOTHER SOURCE THAT THIS SCUM BAG AND HER FRIENDS HAVE ALREADY GONE THRU WITH THE DESPICABLE ACT. HE WAS DOWN AND PASSED OUT FOR 15 MIN. IN ADDITION, HE WAS MADE TO STAND NUDE BEFORE THE ATTACKERS, AS THE GIRL WAS NUDE WHEN SHOWERING. PLEASE DO NOT GIVE THE S.H.I.T BAG ANYMORE TIME OR CONSIDERATION. SHE AND HER FRIENDS SHOULD BE BROUGHT UP ON CHILD ABUSE CHARGES.

Answer 2

First of all, he is curious and raging with hormones.
If you don't like being peeked at, then why don't you simply close the door?
Instead you chose to open the door and then kick everybody in the groin. I say you're making unnecessary trouble.

Besides, the penalty is way to high. For a kick in the groin he should be granted 35 minutes of shower watching, with a camera, and the options to give instructions. That's worth a kick in the groin.

Answer 3

He's 14 and curious. Don't let him be humiliated like that and why would you allow someone to assault your child like that? If you were caught looking at some guy would you like get punched or kicked in your personal areas?

What you need to do is sit him down and explain to him that you know he is curious, but peeking in on girls is not acceptable behavior, and the police could be called into the matter and If he gets caught doing it again he will have to face the charges from the police, which are not something he wants on his record.

Answer 4

Have you been sniffing gasoline or glue? A kick to your son's groin would not be the thing to do. You should be ashamed to call yourself a parent. In regards to what you should do about this be a parent not a tyrant!

Answer 5

why isnt there a curtain on the window or why arent they locking the door? No he shouldnt be kicked in the groin, just like he should be spoken to about his hormones and whats appropriate or not and that he needs to learn to control it etc and the girls need a lil reality check and show more situational awareness, they do need to be more aware of their surroundings as young women and be spoken to about hormones etc

Answer 6

Well, what's a kick to the groin going to do? Hurt him, but it probably won't stop the behavior. If your son has issues with sex/peeping, it may be a better idea to have him talk with a counselor. There may be underlying issues here.

I think there are better ways to resolve this than a kick to the crotch.

Answer 7

I think your punishment is a bit out of line because she probably told him she was going to the shower and make a big fuss about it. I don't know why you want to punish other so harshly except that there may be some big guilt issue you have in your life.

Answer 8

You have got to be kidding. Two wrongs don't make it right. Although the son shouldn't have been spying to the friends sister violence is not the answer. Where are the parents? Talk to the parents

Answer 9

Come on... that's just to mean... Think of the poor child... I say eye-for-an-eye. Sounds fair, huh?:) - This has to be a joke, no parent would allow his child to go through THAT kind of suffering for an innocent:) look in the wrong way...

Answer 10

ARE YOU CRAZY??? NEVER ALLOW ANYONE TO HURT YOUR CHILDREN!!!!! This is normal for a 14 yr old boy! Just keep an eye on him! buy him a magazine or something! Deffinately keep him away from the woman that wants to kick him !!!!!