omg my bf told me somthing that he got a girl prgeant but she misscaried what should i do i dont wanna have kids right now
2007-06-19 08:38:46 · 21 answers · asked by Daniellover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's real simple: DON'T GET PREGNANT. NOW EITHER THAT MEANS DON'T HAVE SEX OR IT MEANS USE BIRTH CONTROL. If you aren't mature enough to use birth control responsibly every time you have sex, then you aren't ready to have sex at all.
2007-06-19 08:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does some other chick miscarrying have to do with you? If you are sexually active then the risk is there...someone else getting pregnant doesn't increase or decrease your risk (although you now know he's got some good swimmers).
If you don't want to get pregnant, get your azz on birth control AND make sure he wears a condom every time, or don't have sex.
It's just that simple.
2007-06-19 08:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't feel pressured into having kids. If your not ready then don't do it b/c the baby is going to suffer just as much as you. I think you should definitely talk to your bf and tell him how you feel about this and see where he stands. Maybe you just want different things in life right now and need to go your separate ways.
2007-06-19 08:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he say he wants to have kids? Was it an accident that she got pregnant? If so, don't worry then. Just discuss it with him, tell him you don't want to have any children right now and if he can't understand that, then maybe you should move on. Best of luck!
2007-06-19 08:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by roei914 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are married. It sounds as though this guy was relieved that the other girl miscarried. Make sure that this guy is going to be a good husband and dad before having kids with him.
2007-06-19 08:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by r.p. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because his previous girlfriend got pregnant doesn't automatically mean that you have to. He probably didn't want to get her pregnant. You don't have to have sex with him, but if you want to, use some form of birth control. He doesn't have super sperm that get every girl pregnant within a 50-mile radius.
2007-06-19 08:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what the hell are you worried about if you are not pregnant? If you are worried about getting pregnant then QUIT HAVING SEX!!!!! The best safe sex is NO Sex. If he has a kid with another female then really its not your kid, besides he is your boyfriend not your husband. If he got her pregnant while you two were together then you should leave him anyways.
2007-06-19 08:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by williep197502 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you said doesnt make a lot of sense.
he got another girl pregnant while with you? dump him!!
or youre afraid to get pregnant cuz the other girl did? use protection!!
2007-06-19 08:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit him down... start saying stuff about ur future and say that u r ready to take our future a step farther and u want to have a child with him b cuz u think that it is time. and u want to have a future with him and have a child togethertheres not much more that i can say just tell him wahat u feel...
2007-06-19 08:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by losrr_lovrrr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he got another girl pregnant doesn't mean that you will. It isn't a disease or anything.
Just be sure to use contraception. You should be fine.
2007-06-19 08:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋