My boyfriend will be all over me a few days and then the next couple of days afterwords he won't even really call me or anything. I called him to talk to him about how his weekend/father's day was and within about 3 min. he ended the phone call saying he wanted to watch a movie. I felt kinda bad because I hadn't talked to him for awhile and I thought he would of wanted to talk too.
I deleted my myspace months ago (due to all the stupidity) and my boyfriend said he was going to too. Well he didn't and he has pictures of him with girls from different schools and comments from them all on his page. It bothers me. Then for his status it says SINGLE. I know myspace isn't everything but maybe he's tricking the other girls from the other school into thinking he is single. He wants to have both me and those girls.
We have had trust issues in the past. Whenever I bring up other girls he feels he has to get very defensive. Should I send him a text saying "Hey I like your myspace"? or what
2007-06-19 08:33:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My suggestion to you is... try not to let stuff like this bother you. It's seems like you are young and the kinda relationship that you are in right now is not that serious. serious relationships happen when you get older and more mature. and most of the time you see your boyfriend or girlfriend every day.
As far as the myspace thing goes... he knows how to change his status from single to in a relationship.. and it's obvious that he has it set to single for some reason or another. It's also obvious that he is spending time with other girls and not telling you about it. He is not stupid... he knows that even though you don't have a myspace page anymore that you still have friends that will see it or you will still end up seeing it anyway.
Look, he's a little boy.. men are soooooo immature... and they stay that way forever.. for the most part.. Don't waste your high school ...or middle school years on worrying about stupid guys!!!
I know this is what all girls do.. I did it too. Now, I just wish that I didn't. I would have much rather spent all my time with my girls.. and my family.. and guys that were JUST MY FRIENDS!
Chill out chica... lose the loser. Have a good time and call it a day.
2007-06-19 08:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust ... one of the most important aspects of a relationship, and your not getting it. This boy sounds very immature and needs to learn how to treat his girlfriend. I wouldn't even send him a text message about you seeing his MySpace, that he was suppose to have deleted. Okay, myspace isn't the biggest issue here, but he lied to you, and that is a big issue. If he lied about this, what else is he lieing about. You need to dump this immature little boy and move on, have fun with the single life, or wait for a guy to come around that deserves you. You do not need to be his little puppet anymore, you are much stronger than this I am sure!
2007-06-19 08:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by Squeakers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't send him a text do something better why don't you set up and new account and put your picture up and add him as a Friend and write him a message of why he didn't do it and that this time you wont erase yours until he does it first. and if things get crazy then and there and he wants to keep his myspace then something is going on and maybe that's why he doesn't talk to you. just tell him that things need to change if he wants to keep this relationship as far as the myspace and spending some time with you. hope this helps,good luck.
2007-06-19 08:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by Adina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you and will do for as long as you let him. You arent pathetic, but you are at the age where you feel that having a boy/girl friend is probably more important than who that person actually is. I know its hard but let him go.
Put your myspace back up and make yourself a whole bunch of new friends. Just enjoy being a teenager....it sounds like he is
2007-06-19 08:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by Peter A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive not really figiured out how 2 make her trust me but sometimes guys really aren't bad people maybe he just has more girl friends than guys & in my opinion i see nothing wrong with that. All my friend that are girls feel like sisters or cousins that I can open up to and help me understand girls better to make a better b/f to my g/f. I have pics of me & girls on my myspace too & she got a little mad but got over it. So maybe thats it really. Were not all out just to get as many girls as we can ;) Hope that helps.
2007-06-19 08:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey. Don't be sarcastic with him. It won't work. Don't send him a text now or ever again. He is using you and you do not need this in your young life. He's a jerk. The world is full of them. Learn to say NO and take care of yourself. Put your MySpace back up and enjoy these years and let him have his stupid fun. He lost out, not you.
2007-06-19 08:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kyle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've already discussed the MySpace issue, and he lied about it. Has he added to it since the discussion?
Don't be subtle. This guy sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
Talk, and if you don't get any resolution, consider moving on. Life is too short to waste with an inconsiderate, selfish guy.
2007-06-19 08:40:48 · answer #7 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The next time you see him say 'hey, I thought we agreed to delete our myspace accounts but I see that you still have yours, what's up?'
I think most of this behavior is pretty normal teenage boy stuff but you deserve to know if he really wants an exclusive relationship with you. He sounds pretty immature so keep that in mind when you're deciding if you still want to be with him...
2007-06-19 08:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by LB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your dating a player and no matter what you do he will always have other girls in his life. If you can live life that way then stay with him. If you want to have a life where the guy foces on you and not on any other girl then dump him. Personally I would dump him now, then risk more heartbreak later. But this is your desion.
2007-06-19 08:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh. THANK YOU. I agree with every single word you said, there. I'm a 15 year old girl and I can hardly find anyone who agrees...
2016-05-19 22:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋