but on the other end ...if I meet a very very head strong women, they don't like to have much fun. The women with the most problems seem to be more fun to be around and the sex is always better.......HELP!
2007-06-19 05:02:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe you just like sex.. Women with problems are the best in bed.. trust me
2007-06-19 05:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by ........ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop going for the damsel in distress. These women are more fun to be around possibly because they make choices that are not so responsible which end result cause them their problems. Head strong women know how to have fun, but they make better choices as when to do it. Some women with these problem you are mentioning are probably women who rely on the opposite sex to be happy and hence make poor decisions giving them the problems. Head strong women know that sex and men are not the answer to bliss, a person has to be happy with themselves first. Maybe you enjoy the sex better with the damsel in distress because that makes you feel more in control?
2007-06-19 12:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have an unconscious need to date damaged women so that you can fix them. I have a friend with that problem. He has been divorced 11 times because he keeps getting with women who have issues. He won't even consider dating a strong independent woman. Unless you want to end up as a father figure in every relationship you ever have, then you need to give independent women a chance. Good luck.
2007-06-19 12:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by from_a_dark_place 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will have to decide what you want in a relationship. We can't get it all, unfortunately so you have to see which is more important. A person who us dull and headstrong or a person who is fun with many problems.
Just remember that each and everyone of us at some point in lfie have troubles. Sometimes it wouod be nice if you could help others in their troubles. That way, they no longer have any problems and you gain someone who is fun to be with.
2007-06-19 12:10:37 · answer #4 · answered by SG GAL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't the only one to be attracted to the loose canon type. My friend and I were talking about this, "why do guys find depressed chicks more attractive?"
I find that we attract the kind of person we are, either that, or the kind of person we want to be. Either you've got baggage and can't have fun with a confident woman, or you secretly envy these emotionally driven women because you want to let loose yourself.
Maybe you can't handle a woman with her sh*t together because she makes you feel like a loser in comparison. She doesn't need you, and maybe you aren't all that together yourself.
2007-06-19 12:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by pola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am headstrong, fun, and sexy. I have my fair share of problems, but we all do. My husband also has some hangups...you all do too. I think it's how you react to and deal with them that makes it or breaks it. You just need to find someone who shares and understands the SAME type of problems you have. And you should really stick with the fun ones, not the uptight no sex ones.
2007-06-19 12:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freaky girls are more fun, definitely! :) I know. What kind of problems are we talking about here? Ones that you couldn't in any possible way deal with? Unless she was psycho, and tried to kill you or something I don't think it was something you couldn't have worked out. But don't go for the stuck up, headstrong women. The freakier the better. :D
2007-06-19 12:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by sarahbarah! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People seem to be drawn to the same type of person. Take time to judge things slowly, do you want a partner with so many problems or are you trying to be a figure in their lives who loves the problems...
Ask yourself what you really want in the long run
2007-06-19 12:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by angijd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm head strong and i like to have fun. A lot of fun.
2007-06-19 12:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you're attracted to a certain "damsel in distress" type of females? Why? Do you subconsciously want to feel like superman and help these ladies, to only find out later that you've got too much on your plate for you to handle?
2007-06-19 12:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by Luda F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋