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It was very much awkward and we both were a bit confused. And it seemed as though he was checking me out. He’s relatively young, and he was accompanied by a friend who started flirting with me until he introduced me as one of his students. It wasn’t a nudist beach, but a touristy one where a lot of women go topless. We have a fairly warm relationship; we had a few personal conversations about our life and love life, and I’m almost convinced that I’m one of his favorite students. It seems to make it more embarrassing and awkward, than if I weren’t close to him at all.
I now feel discomfited and self-conscious, how could I possibly handle our future meetings? What should I say? Should I mention or ignore it?

2007-06-19 05:24:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

12 answers

Just pretend nothing happened. Act naturally, the way you always have around him. You may feel embarrassed or uncomfortable, and he may feel embarrassed or comfortable -- it's possible that he's wondering how to act around you, too -- but if you take the initiative and let him know that nothing has changed, that you're still going to relate to each other the way you always have, then the tension should soon smooth over without a trace. Definitely don't ever mention it to him. If he were to bring it up (unlikely), tell him it's not a big deal. Because it shouldn't be.

2007-06-19 06:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by dilabor86 1 · 0 0

He became probable merely as embarrassed as you have been. do not reside on it – there’s a stable danger he gained’t be your homeroom instructor next 3 hundred and sixty 5 days besides. And next time you’re going to pass topless on the coastline, the two do it farther away out of your domicile, or comprehend that your classmates, instructors, pals, acquaintances and others could see you. in case you’re comfortable with being topless on a coastline crammed with human beings, I don’t rather be attentive to the way it could worry you that one particular person observed you. the form you tell the tale, it form of feels as in case you and he (and his chum) had a quick communique, you topless the full time. If it stricken you that lots, you have thrown on a shirt till now talking to him. the reality which you didn’t shows to me which you weren’t all that stricken. merely forget approximately approximately it.

2016-10-18 01:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

don't bring it up unless he does. It's possible he could be just as embarassed as you are, if not more so. Or if you could find the strength to laugh at yourself, maybe you could joke about it to make you both feel a little more comfortable with it. But hopefully it won't be so awkward that you can't talk anymore.

2007-06-19 05:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Understood 7 · 2 0

Let's face the truth. You wanted to show your T**s to the men on the beach. You succeeded, more than you had planned. Don't try to make your teacher feel guilty for getting a look at your breasts! You wanted him to.

2007-06-22 20:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why not to bring up the subject? Talks just improve any relationship. Is there any worth keeping yourself struggling without ever know what he really thought?

2007-06-20 11:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by ciciu 3 · 0 0

You were dressed appropriately for a topless beach. Don't worry about it. It's only natural that he'd be checking you out as he hadn't seen you topless before. Don't worry about it.

2007-06-20 02:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by so 6 · 0 0

Ignore it, of course. It is better than him seeing you on XTube.

2007-06-19 05:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0 0

how many other people were on the beach?:) why is it that ur only concerned about him...I wish god would come down to earth every now and then...only then is when our embarrassment will have a meaning !!!!...if you're not embarrassed of God up above you shouldn't be embarrassed of any human being..

2007-06-19 05:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by BabyMika 1 · 0 4

yea , just act normal... its not a big deal yo

2007-06-23 02:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0 0

just act normal with him

2007-06-19 05:47:08 · answer #10 · answered by Trouble..88 2 · 2 0

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