what do u mean by a wife?

Question

is she not eligible to share all with her husband even in happiness and in sadness why do some men behave that wife is meant to kitchen and bed

please answer om tat sat

Answer 1

A wife is someone who loves her husband. Isn't that why she married him? She doesn't have to be in the kitchen or the bed. She should WANT to be in the kitchen or the bed.

I love to cook my husband dinner, because he loves the way I cook and he loves to take me out to dinner, because he knows the I love different restaurants.

Now bed should not be because you have to be in bed having sex. You should love to be in bed MAKING LOVE! Isn't that what it's all about?

Don't you expect your husband to be at work everyday? Or don't you expect him to take care of the different things that break in the house, (like the car) or what about things that have to be done outside the house?


Why the hell would you have a problem if he wants you to cook the meal. Maybe because he can't cook! Why would you have a problem if he wants to make love to you? Who else if going to run too? What do you want him to cheat?

C'mon, act like the wife that he would love to come home too. Make him happy, compliment him, tell him you love to cook for him, tell him you love the way he makes love to you. Tell him he's gorgeous and you are so happy you married him. TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM!

Your husband will not only be eating the dinner you made, but you will also have this man eating out of the palm of your hand! Good Luck

Answer 2

If a couple are not communicating their specific needs and desires to each other regarding their role in the marriage, it is very easy for a man to assume and want to replace his 'mother' with a wife. Women are not delegated to kitchen duty and bed. The roles that couples play today are often reversed and follow no real order. Men are working at home and caring for children just as women used to do. Our society is really MESSED UP! The Bibical law in the day required that the MAN be the head of the household and bring in the money and teach the children the spiritual laws, while the woman was the homemaker and also teacher of the children. Those roles are definitely crossing many lines according to the specific homes of those families. I still believe the man should be the head of the household and his wife is his HELP MEET...She is to help meet the bills...Happiness and sadness and all the other emotions are there for the couple to share with each other and help each other through. A man is supposed to love his wife as Christ loved the church and so is the wife. There seems to be so little respect in relationships today.

Answer 3

Worries Invited For Ever.
Kidding

I don't know abt other countries but I say about India

She is the one who takes care of you with out your knowledge
She is the one who leaves all other relation for one relation called husband.
She is the one who motivates the husband in many ways.

She is eligible to share all things, but some time husbands feel that it is better not to disturb them with the tensions what he is facing with. And I know that the wives feel the other way.
It is never ending cycle.
Yes there are people who feel wife is meant only for kitchen and bed.
It is the society which makes them to feel so, till now it is a mans world and may be in future also,
They grow in such an environment that it becomes a habit,
it takes time to change for those people, who at least want to.

Most of the time a husband realises very late abt the person called WIFE and he may at that time see back and feel bad about the past, it takes time.

Let me tell you few more words

You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when white wings of death scatter your days.
Aye, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.
Love one another but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.
Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together, yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow


First give spaces to each other and then you can understand each other the better.

Answer 4

From the old days, that was a wife's role. Now to this day people still think like that. Some women are actually OK with that. Being a wife is being in love with a man, telling that man that u want to be his one and only, telling him that no matter what you will always be my best friend. Men who think like that were probably brought up that way or had that put in their heads because in todays society women are much more independent. Sometimes i dont understand either so you not by yourself.

Answer 5

Wife has to be your life partner. However, both husband and wife should have some private space with respect to each other e.g. have separate spiritual lives. Husband and wife should be together, like pillars holding the roof, but not together enough to loose utility. Both should eat together, though not from the same plate :)

Answer 6

Some women believe that a husband is meant to bring in the bacon, and sometimes she doesn't even want him to share the bed.

Answer 7

A wife should be an equal partner to a husband. Nothing less, and nothing more. Two equal partners who share equal responsibilities of the home, kids... everything involved in their relationship.

Answer 8

the best friend and trusted person, ever you can find in your life is faithful wife. it is the precious gift from God to a man. she share your pain and joy. she take all your headache and problems.
those persons who thinks wife is meant to kitchen and bed, they are the biggest fool living on this planet.

Answer 9

A husband and wife should share in both, We have come a long way sence 1800 if you no what I mean.

Answer 10

any man that believes a woman only belongs in the kitchen and the bed is an idiot!!......but that's just my opinion!! I will never be with a man that believes that again!! that is not a true, healthy, loving relationship or marriage. best of luck!
~peace~