Family & Relationships - 19 June 2007

About a month ago, my cousin died of a blood disease he's had for a while. No one in my family has ever died before, not even grandparents. I thought I had dealt with his death somewhat well, but I've found that all of a sudden I'm paranoid beyond belief. I'm so SO scared that someone I love is going to die. It's made me insane how scared I am. . .I want to see a psychiatrist or something, but I don't want my family to think I'm having a breakdown. They think I'm dealing with it well, and I don't want them to think I'm not. Please help.

2007-06-19 16:05:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi everyone, OK so my fiancee's mom is driving us nuts. I am jewish and she is catholic. We decided to have a "Humanistic Jewish" wedding and now her mom is being unsupportive of it. How do we get her to understand that the wedding is cultural and not "religious" hence why we are doing the humanistic wedding. It's a generic wedding with lots traditions, and we are even including some Catholic traditions. Please help, this our first (and only) wedding we want everyone to have a good time and enjoy it. (It's too late to go to vegas our deposits are already in... we already thought of that... ) Thanks!

2007-06-19 16:05:06 · 19 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Weddings

2007-06-19 16:04:47 · 23 answers · asked by Natalie Meagan 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 16:02:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I left my Husband in 2000 and have not seen or heard from him since and I do not know if he ever filed but I can not find out any information with out paying an arm and leg.Could use some help if possible

2007-06-19 16:02:08 · 11 answers · asked by lady10313 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been with my boyfriend for about a couple months now, and were each others first. so we dont really know how this thing goes...i know it sounds pretty slow to be kissing so late, but we dont want to rush things. if you want to kiss him on the lips, how long do you hold it? do you use tongue? is it ok to make out on the first time? where do you put your hands when you do?

2007-06-19 16:01:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im getting married in Feb of 08. This is a second wedding for both of us. I want to do something different for our weding. All I can find is the normal themes: pearl, beach, butterflies. I want different than that. Any suggestions?

2007-06-19 16:00:17 · 9 answers · asked by angelfishghc 1 in Weddings

my mom doesnt think i'm old enough to wear make up.

also she thinks make up would ruin my skin. does that really happen? anyways i just need ways to convince her that i actually am old enough to wear make up. just need good arguing reasons.

2007-06-19 15:59:23 · 16 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Family

I am lucky enough at least for this month, to get to see my bf every day. I will start working full time soon, and I probably won't get to see him for 2-3 days at a time which is really going to be hard. The thing is, we'll be hanging out, trying to figure out what to do...and he always wants to know "who else" is coming to hang out, or what other people want to do. It's like he's thinking "yea yea, I see u all the time." I asked him today, what would we do, with our time together if nobody else was involved...and he said we'd probably just f****. Great...now is he just about the sex?? Maybe im just reading too much into things. I need a drink.

2007-06-19 15:59:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know what state they were born in and year of birth, but the first, middle and last names are very common.

2007-06-19 15:59:00 · 3 answers · asked by borg_1403 1 in Family

My husband has found a new website called paltalk and now he stays on it from sun up to sun down and i only see him when he wants to have sex or eat and he dosent come to bed until two in the morning. He dosent pay any attention to me anymore and we dont conversate because hes always on the damed paltalk. Ive talked to him about how i felt, now im thinking about looking for attention elsewhere. am i wrong.

2007-06-19 15:58:28 · 21 answers · asked by domojj24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister in law is coming to visit and i have nothing plan for us to do what can we do while she is her

2007-06-19 15:58:26 · 6 answers · asked by nykeria2002 1 in Family

need some really, really good advice and tips.

2007-06-19 15:57:56 · 12 answers · asked by havingfun 4 in Marriage & Divorce

A good friend of mine was recently in a car accident and they say her front temporal lobe(?) was injured. Since that time she has been experiencing issues realtated to the love she feels for her family. She has 3 wonderful kids whom she has always been very motherly towards and now she is not even feeling a connection.

She has moved out of her house and only comes to "visit" on a daily basis. Her husband is trying to be understanding but he is very hurt..

My question is has anyone ever heard of this type of injury causing such damage in a persons personal life? And how do you suggest I be a good friend to her? I want to just tell her how selfish I think she is being and to think of her kids before her self but I know that is not fair if she is really dealing with a brain injury.

She has been seeing doctors and therapist about this issue already. Thanks!

2007-06-19 15:56:09 · 12 answers · asked by Rosie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

just a question.
i mean.
its weird

2007-06-19 15:55:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last summer i didnt have the money to go visit my family in a different state. my mom offered to loan me the money, then my cousin told me he would just give me the money. usually i wouldnt accept it but at that time i took it cause i wasnt doing well financialy. a year later he brings it up (out of nowhere) and tells him that i owe him the money, even though he just gave it to me. i had just finished paying back some money that i "felt" like i owed him (no, it wasnt from another loan). when i calmly explained to him that he told me i didnt have to pay him back (the way he asked me for it was totally inappropriate/rude). after that he told me that i was a liar, i was worthless, and he didnt want to know me anymore. then he mentioned small things that he bought in the past (we take turns picking up tabs, etc..) we havent talked in about 2 weeks. then he sends me an e-mail telling me that i still owe him the money and that he wants/needs it. what would you do in this situation?

2007-06-19 15:53:24 · 9 answers · asked by portuguese_tease 2 in Family

why is she like that?

2007-06-19 15:52:50 · 10 answers · asked by benjamin_j1989 1 in Singles & Dating

ok it is now summer. && i have no idea what i can do this next school year to impress guys that i like or think are cute. i mainly want to show my ex that i have better things to do than sit around && wait on him to see if he likes me again. so what should i do? && yes i know yall are going to say just be yourself but i mean i know i can do other things than that. change my hair, the way i talk around them, approach them when they don't think i will, i mean what should i do, to make guys want to get to know me or become more than friends? thank you so so soo much!!

2007-06-19 15:50:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 15:50:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have custody and the other parent was picking up my son from school but school is out and i can't have him up there since school is out and i work it's court ordered i offer for the other parent a extra day since it's summer and they said no then i told them where he will be at and they still said no they want me to have him at the school or she going to have a summon brought against me for not following the court orders

2007-06-19 15:49:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why dont some people like country music?

2007-06-19 15:46:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-19 15:45:00 · 25 answers · asked by Kori5 1 in Singles & Dating

In marriages when you hear about these people that have affairs and then they stay together; do you think the person that had the affair and feels remorseful really loves their spouse or not?

2007-06-19 15:44:55 · 30 answers · asked by JustWondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that when two women are close friends they're automatically labeled "lesbians", but when two men are close friends no one says a thing.

2007-06-19 15:43:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok ive never had sex before so im not sure. Under my penis is like bumps and some under my scrotum can it be a type of STD or anything. The bumps under my penis goes about half way across the back of my penis and the in the front goes almost all the way around. My penis has normal funtions like im able to ejaculate and stuff.But should i see a doctor or what??

2007-06-19 15:41:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Come on i want some nice girls that have always said they didnt watch it.

2007-06-19 15:41:14 · 27 answers · asked by Lorenzo 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine her daughter the mother of her 3 year old has recently died. The child wanted to stay with his grandmother after this tragic accident. Now the father wants to move the child up to N. CA. How can the grandma make sure she will still be able to see the child?

2007-06-19 15:40:37 · 4 answers · asked by hoodwink 2 in Family

my boyfriend hasnt given me any presents yet ive given him quite a few...we've been going out for 5-6 months

2007-06-19 15:40:24 · 30 answers · asked by abbigail_angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why does my boyfriend have to pay for alimony and child support if it was his ex-wife that ended the marriage? they have joint custody of the kids

2007-06-19 15:35:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is gona file for a divorce and he's gona pay for it and I just want to know how much does it cost? We've been married for 2yrs, no kids. We live in NYC. Does anyone know prices or if I will need a lawyer? Please anyone let me know because I want to be ready. This is the most painful thing I've gone through. I want to know all the info and searching for it has become so frustrating and stressful. Any help will be appreciated, thanks.

2007-06-19 15:32:36 · 7 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Marriage & Divorce