how do you kiss a guy???

Question

ive been with my boyfriend for about a couple months now, and were each others first. so we dont really know how this thing goes...i know it sounds pretty slow to be kissing so late, but we dont want to rush things. if you want to kiss him on the lips, how long do you hold it? do you use tongue? is it ok to make out on the first time? where do you put your hands when you do?

Answer 1

First off. Kiss on the lips: You do not need tongue. Just a gentle 3-4 second kiss will do. Pull back and look at him before going in for more.Use your tongue to make things more interesting, but only after you feel you want to move on. Gentle making out: Hands around his neck (not like a hug) just so the hands are there to play with his hair. Or caressing his face with one and have the other on his knee (if you're sitting) or on his shoulder. Heavy making out: Whatever makes you comfortable. Live up to your standards and make sure not to do something you'll regret or that makes you feel uncomfortable. Considering you two are both firsts neither of you will be a very good kisser, you'll get better at it as you explore new tactics. The tongue: don't be afraid to put your tongue in his mouth, but don't choke the kid. Think of it as a dance (corny). Your tongues are just gliding together and wherever they want. Tip: Feeling confident? Try something new. Pretend to be your favorite celebrety and kiss how you think they would. or add pop rocks for something different, fun, and delicious. Oo! and the first time? make sure you have a minty mouth. Don't use gum. Use mints. Hope I could help. :) Lemme know if you need any more help ok hun? Oh, and it took me and my boyfriend 3 months. :D We've been together for a year and a half now.

Answer 2

a regular kiss with no tonge is just like kissing your mom or dad or grandma! theres deffinitly no tonge that would just be kinda wierd haha

if you want to make out just go in for a kiss on the lips liike you would your mom or dad (step one) then hold it for a little longer , like a second or two so he knows its more then just a kiss on the lips (thats steph two) and then push your tonge throughe your lips like a snake and put it in his mouth, this will make you open your mouth and his and your tonges will be in each others mouth (steph 4) move your tonges around

you can put your hands anywhere really, i like on his hips or leanin him up against a wall, or you could hold hands. It comes naturally whatever feels comfortable

oh and its fine to make out the first time if both of you want to!

and you can make out for as long as you want

you'll be fine cus you both have never done it so you wont be able to tell if your doing it wrong (which you cant really do it wrong) and itll come with ease!

Answer 3

Just kiss him. Yes, you use your tounge, but go slow. Start off with a simple kiss. Then continue with kisses then slip your toung in their slowly. Let your tounges "wrestle." Just take it slow. Don't move 2 fast and don't be 2 scared 2 explore. Good luck!

Answer 4

it comes naturally, seriously, just give him a quick peck on the lips the first time, then you know kiss him again it's like a bunch of pecks in a row, like for first timers so just go with it, and put you're hands were ever, on his head, holding his, on his back, around his neck, on his chest, by your side, where ever, caresse his hair, do what ever you like and just kiss him, it's easy and it just comes naturally

Answer 5

Kid if you haven't figured that out yet then your a little slow. It comes naturally the moment things swing into action.

Answer 6

I would prefer French kiss,for futher details better download some clip on french kiss n u will know everything that u wanna know

Answer 7

How can I kiss a guy ?

Answer 8

this is something that happens naturally no one can teach you this

Answer 9

i simply dont know

Answer 10

jus do wat feels right but dont push ur lips to hard on his