Family & Relationships - 19 June 2007

recently, i received a letter from a bank addressed to my husband, i read the letter and i was surprised because he opened a bank account without my knowledge.is it ok if he hide that from me?
i never ask him about that because he is working abroad, do i need to confront him?ask him why did he not tell me?

2007-06-19 19:58:17 · 18 answers · asked by mj cute 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so i am 17 (girl) and i really havent had a real boyfriend let alone i havent had a kiss before too..
so does that make me lame???
i dont want to just kiss a guy just do have done it ya know?
i want it to mean something but should i just find someone and kiss them???
and even if i had someone i wanted to kiss i have no clue on how to....
so i would really like some tips on that too please...
thanks

2007-06-19 19:56:15 · 9 answers · asked by Mary Cakes 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband just does not understand me.. I told him before we got married i came from a screwed up family..and they are, But as a christian i try to forgive them. I tried to tell him to think twice before marryin.He was raised in church with a devoted mother and father. I raised myself. My father died of cancer when i was 7 yrs. My mother is and was a whore not to metion CRAZY!! My mother left the town when i was 12yrs my older brother took me and raised me the best he could he was only 18 at the time. He was killed in a car wreck when i was 16 and i took care of myself. later i found out our daddy wasn't even our real father, but my husband to be a christian(?) is so self centered. He talks terrible to me and critizes everything i do. He wants everything done a certain way but does not want to do it himself. I recently went back to college with a GED ( i had to quit in the 7th grade) and all i have heard is that i'm stupid and can not do it Although the lowest grade i have made is a C

2007-06-19 19:55:58 · 10 answers · asked by momaof2angels 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we must get hurt n order to grow...
we must fool in order to know..
sumtimes..our wrong becomes clear only after are eyes have been washed with the tears...

2007-06-19 19:49:47 · 8 answers · asked by marg m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It has been five years, since my ex left me.We were having a kind problems about....our relationship that he can never protect it! he's selfish. He never saying two words for me! He should be thankful for me because I'am the only one who really cares. He never loves me, doesn't care about me! I did everything what he wanted but wasn't enough for him? When Im crying he was not there!. He just playing billiard with his friends. His friend loved me so much, so I said yes. I got two bfs. Even though I said yes to my no.2, I ddn't love him. He knew i stil in love my bf # 1. My no. 1 found out that his friend were together. He asked me to let my no.2 go, so that we can be together again. Yea, I did b cuz I loved my no.1. Hhahay, your no.2 loves u, but I dont have a feelings on him. Your no. 1 did not love you much, and you love him. That's hard, some one is getting hurt.

2007-06-19 19:48:47 · 14 answers · asked by Jane 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if a guy likes you if ya'll don't really talk but he's always looking at you and his pretty cute.....Oh and how do you know if he's is already taken

2007-06-19 19:48:26 · 5 answers · asked by Birdie 1 in Singles & Dating

I told my sorta of casual bf (we are tested together regularly and dont see anyone else) that I would give him oral last night but that is all.
As I was giving him Oral he said he had to have me.
I said NO I did not want sex at all that night and I was enjoying giving him oral.
He then said for me to lie on my chaise and he would come on me. Instead he (gently) grabbed my knees and got on top of me.
Again I said no and tried to squirm away but i was cornered and he was on top me.
He then pushed himself up against me and said he would just rub a little on the outside. I said NO sex inside me. He then wriggled between my legs part and immediately start thrusting i said no again.
He is foot taller than me & finally i gave up.Plus he parted my legs and i couldnt turn awaybecause I was cornered. i feel guilty because I ended up enjoing it.
but i told him no and wasnt playing around (he wasnt wearing protection)
He pulled out before he came but he looked so wild and excited Im afraid he mightve had some preC/
we're both around 30 btw
what upsets me the more i think about it is that I WAS serious, we did not have condoms and i was in mid of fertile cycle.
I cared about him but he shouldve respected when i said 'seriously no'
Also he is only the 2nd man Ive ever slept with because I m old fashioned.
I took Plan B today and I have decided to never speak to him again.
My family is private and wont allow me to make this public and since I enjoyed it and had already given him oral it would be too hard to prove
What I want to know is HOW to handle him ?
I live near him and both he and I are rooted in this community for the rest of our lives.
Should I just ignore him in public ? Should I avoid places he goes for a while while memory is fresh ?
Should I seem cool and calm and happy ?

Advice please

2007-06-19 19:47:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been with my boyfriend for 4yrs and he treats me too bad, he lives with me and i can't take him anymore..he has said so much hurtful stuff to me i don't even wanna repeat it...i need to know how i can break up with him without a huge fight blowing up or him laying a big guilt trip on me, which he has done before...please help me figure something out!!

2007-06-19 19:46:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just don't understand why I should strive to get married when it seems that people just lose interest, lie to each other, take from each other, and don't care about the feelings of their spouse. all this cheating bickering and fighting is not worth giving my life to under Gods oath and it certainly isn't worth me waiting to have sex for even though I am a virgin now. does any one agree with me out there?

2007-06-19 19:45:49 · 8 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know how he will react and that is what I am afraid of.

2007-06-19 19:45:03 · 34 answers · asked by MO 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you tell a girl that the way she sitting
you get a clear view up her skirt not to metion shes going comando so you can see her cash and prizes

with out sounding like a pervert

i cought it out of the corner of my eye

2007-06-19 19:44:21 · 19 answers · asked by all knowing dslxic one 2 in Friends

2007-06-19 19:44:18 · 5 answers · asked by Lauren Y 1 in Singles & Dating

Say you meet a girl and she told you that she questioned(past tense) her sexuality? Would you date her? She's identify's herself as straight but she let me know in her past that that was somthing she dealt with, however she's never been involved with a another woman, or man sexually. And Lady' s if a guy told you that his idenity was questoined in the past would you still consider dating him?

Im just curious and no foul responses please Thanks

2007-06-19 19:43:05 · 13 answers · asked by Roger B 3 in Singles & Dating

What happened?

2007-06-19 19:42:07 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Ashley 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-19 19:40:35 · 11 answers · asked by Frankie 4 in Singles & Dating

I've been with this girl for about 2 years now. We're around pre-teen age. We haven't seen each other over the winter. Now we love each other more than ever now we met again. Problem is, we can't go anywhere privately (except on a date). Her sisters and sister's friends always spy on us and tell their mom.(we're really not allowed to be in a relationship) Anytime we hold hands, o im telling mommy u so dead! Anyways, i'd like tips to get away from the perverts with my love. It's getting really stressing.

2007-06-19 19:37:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

basically my bf has done several things (suspicious) things and ive confronted him and he told me i dont answer the phone because this is how i am(which is true he has always been bad with returning calls etc)

i always hear all men lie and wont admit to cheating is it bad that i believe my boyfriend because i truly dont think he can do that to me

society can make women think all men are cheaters and would jnever admit that but i think mine would.
is that so bad

2007-06-19 19:35:33 · 3 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Singles & Dating

want my relationship to be healthy

2007-06-19 19:33:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm not some kid typing this as a joke, i'm a 22 year old college grad who has serious concerns.

i like to tape me doing things to myself. i tape this because i like to trade pictures and videos with a guy who sends me ones of himself doing the same in return. he enjoys videos of me in my silk robe with it open and talking to the camera as if i don't notice that i am exposed. the problem is, he will look at the videos once or twice, critique them on how my next video can better fulfill his fantasies BUT he's obsessed with the internet, including Yahoo Answers. i'm putting this on here in hopes that he will see this and get the feedback on what others think about it.

so, why is it he likes to search the internet more than me?

do you think that he's asexual or just plain hard to get?

should i just stop sending them altogether and just make him see it in person?

2007-06-19 19:32:23 · 13 answers · asked by megz 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know some extra ones. Is wanting to meet my parents one of them?

2007-06-19 19:32:15 · 5 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 19:31:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is an Indian.wedding is held between10.30am and 11.30am, and thence to lunch. I want to give them a red packet,what is the range?

2007-06-19 19:29:02 · 4 answers · asked by John 1 in Weddings

I still think of my ex girlfriend which was separated 17 yr ago. I still kept her photo with me without telling my wife. Recently, our relation turn sour and I really feel like calling her. I really felt damn guilty. Tell me what to do, please.

2007-06-19 19:23:55 · 6 answers · asked by Simon De Rider 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I make good money, have 4 children still at home 2 are in college and live at home, the other 2 in high school. I help around the house more than any male i have ever known. Laundry..yes, dishes...yes, lawn...yes you name it I do it. I also work at home, I go to visit clients in their offices. 95% of my clients are female. Many years I was able to avoid trouble ( I do sales/marketing so I have to talk smooth and stay in good physical condition) My wife has never had a remote problem with this. However wifey started cold-shouldering me for 9 years. I tried to discuss this with her and she said I had been mean to her for over 15yrs and she had no desire to be affectionate or sexual ...this killed my spirit dead! and no she hasn't said what the meanness is about, just says I am mean, will not even discuss it, goes ballistic if I mention it. Rejected over 9yrs, finally dated and bedded 2 hottie clients, I feel really guilty..please! If the wife just would notice me, I could stop...

2007-06-19 19:22:53 · 25 answers · asked by kiny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married to my husband for 5 years, and I love him, but the love has kind of turned into a love for a good friend. He threatened to leave, and I was like go, but when the day came for him to leave, I asked him to stay. Some days I look at him and he makes me wanna puke and other times I look at him and just wanna hug and kiss him. What's wrong with me? Have I fallen out of love? do I need to just let him go? Oh, and there is one more aspect to this story, my 16 year old daughter and my husband are mortal enemies. I cant have one peaceful day around here for them fighting. I feel so stressed and lost.....Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-19 19:22:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok Im in grade 10 and I always fall asleep in sex ed class, and when my mom gives me "the talk" as well. I just don't know! So will you cool people answer this question for me.

2007-06-19 19:21:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Considering how busy it's going to be because the holiday do think it would be goog idea?

2007-06-19 19:20:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Girls may seem weird about this, but I am a very nice guy. I am a college student after being active duty in the military and I have core values that I still follow which is honor and courage.

2007-06-19 19:20:41 · 4 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for almost 2 years, and every year he takes a trip with his family overseas for Christmas and New Years. The first year, we'd only been going out a few months, but last year I got really bent out of shape about it (especially since he didn't mention it to me until the tickets were non-refundable - not that he was going to get a refund). This year they're planning early and he's brought up a few suggestions. One of the suggestions is that I pay my way out to see him after Christmas, put myself up in a hotel that is not even in the same town as he and his family, and see him a few times since he's doing family stuff the whole time. (Obviously I'm not a fan of this idea.) Other ideas include him coming back early, or leaving later, but those are difficult to manage. Does anyone have any ideas? Maybe someone who's done this before? We are both 26 so it's not an age issue. Thanks!

2007-06-19 19:18:15 · 9 answers · asked by Murrin 2 in Singles & Dating

after two years +seven of being friends ,my girl friend told me she was moving 1900miles away.She said I could go too,but I cant .both of our familys live here,and are in thier mid 70s.she is moving anyway,and has turned my world upside down because I love her,she is my life,and she says she loves me too,but this is something she says she has to do.what about us? is this how you love someone?leave them behind? she says that she'll most likely come back because we have such a conection and she can't see her life without me.GO FIGURE...this has devistated me,I am so hurt that this is something she is justifying with no regards for me at all.I don't know what to even do with myself cause she moved out and is with friends untill she goes.excuse me but...should this be telling me to move on?she still comes over and sleeps with me and still tells me she loves me,but this is something she has to do..whats really going on here?and this is how I came to my question.. Heart broken/angry ?

2007-06-19 19:15:14 · 10 answers · asked by offwhite 1 in Other - Family & Relationships