Family & Relationships - 19 June 2007

2007-06-19 19:13:44 · 17 answers · asked by skts_md 2 in Singles & Dating

I use humor extensively to break the ice with women and to get to know people. Unfortunately, they get this image of me as a chronic joker and a lot of the time they don't take me seriously. When I try to do or say something with whatever purpose they always classify it as another one of my attempts at humor. I've honestly asked a few women out but they thought it was a joke. How can I ditch my clown persona and get people to actually take me seriously?

2007-06-19 19:13:03 · 9 answers · asked by Your Ex Boyfriend 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok I like this boy his name is Collin Simolvic and I've known him all my life. He's so cute and has a really pretty girlfriend. He just thinks we're great friends, but I don't.

2007-06-19 19:12:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tonight my 2 year old sister woke up in the middle of the night and wouldnt stop crying. As she was crying and throwing a fit she said she had to go to the bathroom but a second later she peed her pants all over my kitchen floor.

Then my mom yelled at her. She then said "clean yourself up, your disgusting." My sister kept crying and started saying "Mommy I want you". My mom then replied to her by saying " I dont even want to look at you."

She said these things not meanly but, disgusted like. But, I still know what kind of trama this can cause a kid. And when she said these things it upset me.

Should I say something to my mom about what she is saying to my little sister?
And then what would I say to her?
Do I have a right to be mad about this?

2007-06-19 19:10:37 · 18 answers · asked by muhboh 3 in Family

I live in Washington County, Oregon. I was wondering if anyone knows where I can go to get help for things besides food...clothing, utilities help, get aa christmas list...stuff like that...thank you!

2007-06-19 19:10:22 · 5 answers · asked by sara_and_cj 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am American and my Indian fiance and I have been engaged since Feb 2006 and have known one another for two years. However, when we met while I was in India that was the only time we saw one another. We are both Christians. There are cultural differences and I would like to know if anyone has any tips for us.

2007-06-19 19:10:01 · 10 answers · asked by NO NAME 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i got into an arguement with my friend and i am sleeping over and right now i am on his computer wondering should i stay or should i go its about 1:00 here and he just went to sleep and i only live like 10 mins away! i know its kind of bad that i am on his computer but i am not doing any thing so i dont think he will mind!even though he is pissed at me for somthing he thinks i did but really i didnt do any thing at all he really doest want to belive me!

2007-06-19 19:08:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-19 19:07:31 · 5 answers · asked by dharkangel 3 in Family

Whenever my boyfriend has workstress or pressure or any kind he goes quiet and with that I mean he doesnt call/text/ or answer my texts or calls... it makes me very angry, I find it disrespectful.. I told him this and still he keeps doing it.... what can I do so he will act normal and call me back even if he experiences a bit of workstress... is this normal? it upsets me a lot, as if whenever he has stress I dont exist anymore for him

2007-06-19 19:06:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We just moved to Houston, against his wishes. The night before we started loading the moving truck, he became sick with stomach flu: shaking, fever, diarrhea. He looked too sick to move, so he didn't. But then he looked better, was walking around, and seemed okay. So I asked him if he was better and just faking it (he's shady sometimes). He angrily said no, and I said, "Sorry for asking."

Then, the next day we went to Ikea to get stuff for our new home. He was sick and in the bathroom, but he called me and started SCREAMING in to the phone that I should apologize for questioning him/his sickness. I said, "I did. Whatever. Get over it."

On the way home, he grabbed the steering wheel, shook it hard in the middle of an intersection, hit me on the side of my head and on my arm, all the while screaming, "APOLOGIZE TO ME!" over and over.

And it's not a shock because he's always had anger issues. Just never hit me.

1) He's crazy, right?
2) I'm crazy for not dumping him, right?

2007-06-19 19:05:23 · 32 answers · asked by Kristina S 3 in Singles & Dating

you like about yourself? that you hadnt told or share with any body else .

2007-06-19 19:04:28 · 1 answers · asked by statecalifornia2009 7 in Singles & Dating

OK im a 13 year old boy that has had a few girlfriends before but none of them serious at all. I have never kissed a girl or done anything further than holding her hand and a little hug ok? Well i don't plan on kissing or making out or anything like that for like 2-3 years and that's just what i feel is right. Well I really like this girl who I have found out from other guys she's gone out with that she has kissed them and isn't as shy as me about that kind of thing. I think she likes me but im not sure and I think I'm gonna ask her out pretty soon and I was wondering how i tell her I'm not interested in that kind of thing for a while??? plz help me out with some advice and plz dont leave answers like "your weird youve never kissed a girl!!!" i just need some advice k? thx:D Now i really think i could be completely overreacting and stuff but I've heard a lot of stories about kissing leading to making out and then leading to sex and stuff. plz give me advice i can use thx!

2007-06-19 19:03:45 · 15 answers · asked by answering god!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I am only sixteen I suffer from extreme pain every day sometimes its so bad i cant even get up my mother who sleeps practicly all the time if she isnt being extremly rude and my parents pretty much assume im just being lazy she acts like im a bad child im on the verge of suicide and they just get meaner i cut daily because of them i need some advice on how to deal....and no i cant just ignore them ive tried

2007-06-19 19:03:24 · 12 answers · asked by Sabrina S 1 in Family

Ok, I met this guy through a friend. We come from to different back grounds. But we like spending time together. We have known each other for about 2 weeks. I don't want to jump the gun by asking question like, “What r u looking for with me?". And things of that nature. His lifestyle is very crazy (his brother is a local rapper) I can care less but it's very different for me. So what I’m asking is how to open up to someone new? The only part in a relationship that I hate is the beginning. I hate going through the getting to know each other stage. Help? I need to let my guard down.

2007-06-19 19:00:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 And im in High School and i sit by this girl and every time i make a joke or do something funny she always laugh......and she always stare at me so im confused

2007-06-19 18:56:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay ppl. This is just for fun, so dont go into a hissy fit.
But tell me, how am I doing on my tan this summer? Good? Bad? Needs improvement?
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2007-06-19 18:56:19 · 18 answers · asked by The BecaNATOR 5 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and this summer, since dropping out of Uni, will be the longest time I will spend apart from him. We really love each other and promised that we will see each other again, but until then, I'm relying on the Internet and texting to keep in regular contact with him, with one phonecall a week with us alternating who calls first.

The problem at the moment is that it seems like he isn't as bothered about staying in contact as I am. I sent him four texts yesterday, all asking him to at least answer once to ease my mind, especially since he hasn't been online for two days. Is it unfair for me to expect him to text back if not all, then half of my messages? He's still in Uni and living off a loan with no job at the moment, so I know I can't expect him to pay his mobile credit all the time, but his lack of communication is killing me from the inside. Should I confront him about it?

2007-06-19 18:55:51 · 7 answers · asked by Ainamael 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 18:50:48 · 24 answers · asked by shira s 1 in Singles & Dating

1.) How old are you?
2.) What is your REAL first name?
3.) What's youre biggest character flaw/weakness?
4.) Have you had impure thoughts that you remember today?
5.) What do people tell you is the most attractive body part on you? (If any)
6.) Do you feel you are better looking than 75% of the people around you during the day?

2007-06-19 18:48:23 · 11 answers · asked by rlfesty 3 in Singles & Dating

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S Confused about this guy?
well im just curious, new at this thing,well at first he asks me if i was a lesbian, next if i have a boyfriend, then offers to publish my poems after knowing me for just about a week. then joins the school rally because i encouraged him to do so, heard from friends that he hated the media, but when i offered him to be a columnist in our school paper he wanted it. replies to my every text no matter how weird my question is, told his friends he was glad i am different, rather crazy and out of this world, doesnt always text me, then suddenly asks me if i want to add more subjects so that we could be classmates again?
smiles when we see each other, sometimes too startled to smile, i dont know i do know i am attracted but with his intelligence dont know if he is pretending like i told him i have a cat and the next day tells me he adopted a stray cat?
i just dont know if that is enough proof that he is feeling something for me

2007-06-19 18:46:55 · 13 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 18:45:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 18:44:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-19 18:43:22 · 3 answers · asked by baby_irish2005 1 in Friends

Cool and diplomatic.

2007-06-19 18:42:16 · 7 answers · asked by Macaroni 1 in Friends

2007-06-19 18:40:44 · 32 answers · asked by misslonely2009 1 in Singles & Dating

I started out as friends with this guy, and then we found out we had so much in common and we loved being around each other so our relationship progressed. I'm 16 and he's 20. My friends think it's creepy. What do you think?

2007-06-19 18:38:27 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know someone, that is dating two ppl at the same time. They told me they are not sure of who they really want to be with, So talking to both of them will provide the answer. Is it wrong to do this?

2007-06-19 18:38:08 · 19 answers · asked by jessiemay20033 3 in Singles & Dating

Technically, we are not together. But you can consider us together (a lot of people do). We both like eachother, but I told him I don't want to go out with anyone now. We are also best friends and he is always hugging me and we always tell eachother how much we love eachother. He told my sister on aim that he thinks I am the 1st girl he has actually really loved and cared for a lot. But when we hug, he makes it fast like he's nervous. So on the last day of school, I made our hugs much longer. I am helping him into the right direction and giving him time to get used to it, but I don't want to be pushy either. What should I do?

2007-06-19 18:37:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this bf that i think i need to let go becuz im not happy. i care dearly for him becuz we did at one time have something special, so i thought. well he has a double life. he hasnt introduced me to his kids and he still wears his wedding band around his neck, even though she left 3 yrs ago. he got a phone call today from a woman and i asked who it was and he said his childs mother. this is the first i heard of this. he has 3 other kids that live with him. he smokes weed every day and he hardly ever takes me out. i never see him on the weekends and he gets upset when i complain. i never met his mother and he has not helped me at all but he did give me something for my birthday. normally he comes to my house at night cuz we work together. so after work he comes over. well not tonite. he hasnt called or said nothing. then he has flirted with girls in the past. i kind of dont trust him and i think he might be just using me. plz help cuz i did care for him. what would you do?

2007-06-19 18:34:50 · 10 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

I am a 14 years old girl.I want to go out with my friends but my family never allowed me to go.My mother want to pick me up after school.I don't like it because i know how to go myself.Should she do like that?Please,suggest me!

2007-06-19 18:31:37 · 7 answers · asked by jady 1 in Singles & Dating