i hate my family what can i do im in desprate need of help?

Question

I am only sixteen I suffer from extreme pain every day sometimes its so bad i cant even get up my mother who sleeps practicly all the time if she isnt being extremly rude and my parents pretty much assume im just being lazy she acts like im a bad child im on the verge of suicide and they just get meaner i cut daily because of them i need some advice on how to deal....and no i cant just ignore them ive tried

my honest feelings for them i hate them with every limb of my body and hope they die painfully one day

they dont know why im in pain theyve tested everything

Answer 1

Life is never fair...you will always face horrible moments and you will face happy moments....that's just the rollercoaster of life....I hope you will find it in your heart to love your family even though at the moment, your experiencing pain....Please feel free to email me If you need someone to talk to.

Regards

Jordan JP



Take care and

"Life is short and we have never too much time for gladdening the hearts of those who are traveling the dark journey with us. Oh be swift to love, make haste to be kind."

Henri Frederick Amiel

Answer 2

You may have fibromyalgia. Go back to the doctor and insist on a second opinion and more testing. You also need a counselor, as cutting is very dangerous. Your mother sleeping all the time is a sign of depression and she may be mentally ill. You need a lot of help, but it's out there and you can get it if you can reach out to others. Try going to a house of worship for help -- they are trained to help and they can get you into places where you can find help. If you're suicidal, you may need to get out of your parent's house for a while, and a church may be able to help with that, too.

Answer 3

First and foremost stop throwing the word hate around. Your a kid, but you could act like a lady at your age. Listen there are websites that say there are many women who are in unexplainable amounts of pain, and almost every day, one of there suggestions to help the doctor help you was to keep a journal fo where it hurts exactly when it starts and when it ends, like i said there are someone women who are in pain everyday and its unexplainable, you could be one of them. You need to see a specialists and you seem to be in a depression and angry states you need some professional and medical guidance to help you threw this especially if you are inflicting harm on yourself like cutting yourself or contemplating suicide, which by the way is never the answer and its only temporary pain, killing yourself and going to hell is eternal, think it over kiddo------Go out manage your pain, get friends hobbies etc and stop being around your family so much if they drive you nuts

Answer 4

Try to talk with your teachers and school counselor. Call a suicide prevention hot-line. Check out DrPhil.com - he's a great psychologist and his site might have very useful information for you. Can you call child protective services and get yourself taken out of your home situation? I don't know what foster care is like, which is what you'll be likely placed in. Do you have any relatives or friends (and their parents) who can help you? Can you talk to someone in church or temple?

Answer 5

Look in your local phone book in the help section for the number for Kids Help Line, and arrange to see a counselor. You do not mention why you are in so much pain. Go to your local doctor, get a check up and ask for advice. Good luck.

Answer 6

ok. So I suck at those issues yet you for sure want help, so i'm going to do my suited. i don't understand the Ohio regulations reason... Im no longer a Ohio attorney. idk anyhow Im extraordinarily beneficial in case you instructed the choose each thing you purely instructed us, you would be out of there quickly adequate. "she doesnt hit me alot" properly, if she hits you in any respect, thats abuse. be certain you tell the choose approximately that, alongside with each thing else.

Answer 7

Find peace within yourself by watching your thoughts. Just observe them without thinking about them. Just watch them as if they were clouds coming and going. Eventually you will find peace in this. Let your parents deal with their own problems, It is okay not to like your parents but remove yourself from their problems and don't make their disatisfaction with life your own problem.

Answer 8

Atleast u have parents I have none and wish I had parents even if they were assholes atleast u have them. My parents died when I was 5. I wish I could have them back, u just need to tell them how u feel

Answer 9

your playing a waiting game, as you get older and get more self dependance, you'll move out of that house and make friends who care for you and treat you right....just don't do the running away thing, doing that will make it impossible for you to become self dependant

Answer 10

Try counselling. Your problems seem to be deeper than what you state.