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I know someone, that is dating two ppl at the same time. They told me they are not sure of who they really want to be with, So talking to both of them will provide the answer. Is it wrong to do this?

2007-06-19 18:38:08 · 19 answers · asked by jessiemay20033 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

19 answers

Yes I think its wrong. That's how people get hurt. These guys might fall in love with her and end up finding out about each other. When this happens feelings get really hurt. People do crazy things when they're in love.
Gurl you ain't seen no movie where the man be like if I can't have then nobody will. If she gone be pimpin' it she better do it right. But don't have sex with them. Too many diseases she can get. Also its a sin and don't play with God honey.
God Bless

2007-06-19 18:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by 2FR3SH4U 2 · 0 0

Well, in places where there is a large dating pool, that sort of thing happens. People date one person after another at the same time without starting a relationship, and then they start dating only one person when they get into a relationship. As long as the people involved are aware of their standing I don't think it matters. Now, if she had two boyfriends at the same time (which may not be the case), then it would be wrong. Different people have different ideas of what it means to be in a relationship. Around where I live, people consider it a relationship the moment you start going on dates. At least, that's the impression I get. Good night!

Note: I didn't say anything about sex, because you shouldn't be having sex with people you are only dating!

2007-06-19 18:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0 0

It is ok only if you have an open relationship. If your friend is dating someone he/she should have told the other person that they were in a relationship. and if he/she was attracted to someone the should give their partner the opportunity to decide if they want to stay or leave.

everyone should have a choice

My bestfriend has been in a loving marriage and relationship for 10 years and her and her husband are swingers.

Honesty is the key

2007-06-19 20:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by justusmiangel 2 · 0 0

Not a problem for me.....I have a wife of 24 years, she refuses to allow me to TOUCH her or see her na**ed in any way. I have not seen her br**sts in over 5 years. so I did what any male would do...I have 2 young women who I buy nice things now and then and they meet my sensual and s*x needs very well. The wife has no clue. Please understand I have only had these "girlfriends" less than 2 years, I never would have done this if the wife had not cold-shouldered me. I feel terrible for doing it but what can I do, I get very lonely?

2007-06-19 18:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by kiny 2 · 0 1

having two boyfriends is wrong...but dating two guys or girls at the same time isnt...but honestly speaking, it will just confuse u all the more and one has to go home with a broken heart...it is better to stay away from such chaos and be happy with just one.

2007-06-19 18:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well, if she is steady dating both of them, then yes. I highly doubt that she would like to know that a guy she is dating is with another woman as well because he can't decide. If she doesn't know which to choose, then she shouldn't have either until she is positive.

2007-06-19 18:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Nope, nothing wrong with it, she is just keeping her options open, men have been doing it for years and years, now it's our turn. But I think so long as she doesn't love them both and she is just trying to figure out who is better for her, then yeah go for it.

2007-06-19 18:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

No, it's not wrong technically, but I believe that many girls are users, manipulators and intrigue artists. Typically, they will use one man to make another one jealous and so on, with a variety of other games.

For example, if someone asks them out, they will try to think of how they can use him to their advantage. It's sort of like the female equivalent of men who try to use women for sex.

Not all are like that, however.

2007-06-19 18:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I guess so, provided the 2 guys know about each other's existence and whom are they competing with.

2007-06-19 18:43:30 · answer #9 · answered by angel 4 · 0 0

Umm.... in my opinion, no. I agree that they should get to know the two boys better, but if they find out or already know, it could make them feel hurt or suspicous, and it might ruin the relationship.

2007-06-19 18:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by kyokat130 1 · 0 0

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