I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and this summer, since dropping out of Uni, will be the longest time I will spend apart from him. We really love each other and promised that we will see each other again, but until then, I'm relying on the Internet and texting to keep in regular contact with him, with one phonecall a week with us alternating who calls first.
The problem at the moment is that it seems like he isn't as bothered about staying in contact as I am. I sent him four texts yesterday, all asking him to at least answer once to ease my mind, especially since he hasn't been online for two days. Is it unfair for me to expect him to text back if not all, then half of my messages? He's still in Uni and living off a loan with no job at the moment, so I know I can't expect him to pay his mobile credit all the time, but his lack of communication is killing me from the inside. Should I confront him about it?
2007-06-19 18:55:51 · 7 answers · asked by Ainamael 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think your insecurities are going to screw you over and cause you to drive him away. be less available to him, and see how it works out. resist sending him ANY texts until he answers. if he doesn't then you have your answer.
2007-06-19 19:01:31 · answer #1 · answered by chicananerd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A difficult situation but try playing it cool. By constantly texting him and asking him to answer you seem desperate and that is not a good thing.
Next time you text him just say something light and friendly and then DO NOT text again until you hear from him. Men hate rejection and if he thinks you are cooling off you will soon found out how he really feels
Men are not like us!! They dont think about our feelings and he probably just thinks he has no need to text or talk. He will probably be shocked that you are worried.
On the other hand men are cowards and if he wants to finish the relationship he will ignore you rather than be honest
Whatever happens keep your self esteem and dont chase him, be COOL
2007-06-19 19:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by chicaguapa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could just be busy. Remember how busy you were when you were there? Give him a chance to explain. I realize that you are anxious, but I also know how time consuming school can be. I think that patience may be the key here. I wouldn't hesitate to ask him to try to contact you a bit more, but I would listen to why he hasn't.
2007-06-19 19:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always have to give a far away persone an axcuse,he may be busy, may be ill, anything so don't give up hope,but at the same time don't send him any msgs anymore until he get in touch with you.
2007-06-19 21:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by maram 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to ask him with out being to direct i.e. "is there something wrong with you phone because I never got your replys yesterday" and see what he says - if he is on Pay As You Go he could be out of credit, or he could just be forgetting to look at his phone. I wouldn't worry too much about it though
2007-06-19 20:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by Soul Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should, on the one hand uni life is busy and demanding, but he did arrange to keep in contact, if he is finding it difficult time or money wise he should be upfront about it rather than keeping you dangling on a string, its only fair
2007-06-19 22:18:06 · answer #6 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you need to confront him about it... people just dont keep in touch, it hurts but it's just that simple... do something in the mean time and you two will be talking in no time!!
2007-06-19 19:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ [cindy] 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋