I use humor extensively to break the ice with women and to get to know people. Unfortunately, they get this image of me as a chronic joker and a lot of the time they don't take me seriously. When I try to do or say something with whatever purpose they always classify it as another one of my attempts at humor. I've honestly asked a few women out but they thought it was a joke. How can I ditch my clown persona and get people to actually take me seriously?
2007-06-19 19:13:03 · 9 answers · asked by Your Ex Boyfriend 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Omg, change nothing. And where are you meeting these frigid women?
Most single girls are looking for someone who is fun, and you're giving them a great opening, introducing yourself with charm and confidence. If anything you should flirt more WITH the jokes, to show her your seriously interested.
As long as you're serious when it matters, don't change. The world needs more humorous people!
2007-06-19 19:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine Says... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women like a little humor in a guy, its the one thing we look for.(Well I do) To much humor can be taken as a sign of immaturity. So the best thing I can say to you is this...... Let the girl know u are being serious tell her look I know u think I am a jokester but I am really serious about taking you out sometimes and let u see the more softer serious side of me. Be honest with her let her know I use my jokes as a way to break the ice, and when I get nervouse talking to a beautiful girl, (flattery earns u points) now that the ice is broken and if you are free, I would like to take you out, or maybe give you a call sometime and we can talk . Yes this may sound cheesy but it gives the girl options and gives u more of a chance to show her there is two sides of you.
2007-06-20 02:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by Squeakers 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read the book by Dale Carnegie called, "How to Win Friends and Influence People." It should be at your local library.
2007-06-20 02:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and just show consideration and women will start noticing you and one will love you eventually but take it cautiouslyu women are a bunch of fickles where they seem to stixck together at times..you just show them that you are just as maucho as the next one and probably even better...talk about cars, or babirs or love lives...got the picture
2007-06-20 02:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by lorr1941 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha .. you better change your attitude .. instead of going for a short-term solution i.e. going out with a woman on a date.. you better improve your attitude and be sure girls would ask you to go out ..
2007-06-20 02:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold a conversation with no jokes in it.
2007-06-20 02:18:41 · answer #6 · answered by Alisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reduce humour by a large factor then you will have better chances....
A balance is required...bit of humour...bit of normal talk...bit of serious talk....etc....
2007-06-20 02:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're gona have to change your immage first Pal,then ask someone out.sad but true...
2007-06-20 02:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by offwhite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her that you can also be serious.
2007-06-20 02:16:46 · answer #9 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋