I am a 14 years old girl.I want to go out with my friends but my family never allowed me to go.My mother want to pick me up after school.I don't like it because i know how to go myself.Should she do like that?Please,suggest me!
2007-06-19 18:31:37 · 7 answers · asked by jady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WIth the way the world is now a days, no parent wants their 14 yr old daughter going to some party or walking home alone from school. You should be happy your mom cares that much about you. I do understand at 14 you want to spread your wings a tad...so sit down with your mom and ask can you two meet 1/2way on this. Your mom can drive you to wherever you and your friends want to go and then have your friend(s) sleep over at your place or you at hers. Let your mom know you want to start growing a bit on your own, to learn from your mistakes, but you know she's right there if you need her. let her know tis time for her to start letting go a lil. Goodluck and hang in there..YOur mom is trying to do the best thing for you..and that is mainly keeping you safe~, so remember that~*
2007-06-19 18:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mother is your mother if she's doing all this that just because she loves you and she doesn't want anything bad happen to her daughter because she'll be devasted if something bad happen like getting in trouble or go to jail, or do drug or end up being pregnant at 14 so that why she's being like that so don't hate her for that cuz she's just trying to protect you. so you better listen to her and follow her rules because they are on your best interest. ok
2007-06-20 01:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by noonchy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13 and your mom seems like she has your best intentions in mind but you should tell her something that makes her feel like it's not dangerous or that you need a little space sometimes lol this sounds kinda mean but moms will by that cuz they were your age at one time too lol:D
2007-06-20 01:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by answering god!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that kind of sucks...you should maybe try to work out a compromise w/ her. Maybe ask her if you can go out on friday since it is right next to the weekends and for any other day you could tell her that you will check in w/ her via cellphone.
2007-06-20 01:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by hey123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
about going with your Friends you have to talk about it with your parents iam sour thy will understood it CZ i had the same problem when i was 14
but about taking you from school its greet that you have apiarists that the about you
the world is not a safe place
2007-06-20 01:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang up with friends that are good influence. your mother just want to protect you.
2007-06-20 01:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should....!
2007-06-20 01:35:50 · answer #7 · answered by SiSco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋