basically my bf has done several things (suspicious) things and ive confronted him and he told me i dont answer the phone because this is how i am(which is true he has always been bad with returning calls etc)
i always hear all men lie and wont admit to cheating is it bad that i believe my boyfriend because i truly dont think he can do that to me
society can make women think all men are cheaters and would jnever admit that but i think mine would.
is that so bad
2007-06-19 19:35:33 · 3 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So, let's see: you accuse your bf of cheating and so he hates picking up the phone when he knows it's you because he finds it so irritating. But then you believe him when he says he doesn't cheat. OK, well, then if you believe him, you need to stop accusing him of cheating. Or, if you don't believe him, you need to leave him.
You can't have it both ways: either your bf is trustworthy or he isn't. Stop accusing him: either stay and shut up about it, or leave him forever, but just stop being a nag!
2007-06-19 19:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. No, no, no, no. basically NO. before everything, if that have been actual then there may well be no unmarried mothers OR unmarried fathers, no want for new child help, no deadbeat mum and dad and no absentee mum and dad. little ones do no longer cement a relationship - EVER. the only thank you to "cement" a relationship is for the two human beings in touch in it to thoroughly devote to a minimum of one yet another, abandoning all others, to proportion mutual love and appreciate, and to have no desire to ever be with every person else ever returned. a new child is a blessing, and the icing on the cake. besides, any woman who gets pregnant for the only objective of retaining her guy around is getting pregnant for the incorrect reason, and the new child may be the only to go through for it. consistent with risk a first rate guy will stick around out of accountability to the new child, yet with the help of no potential out of accountability to the female. And why in the international might you even want a guy who basically stayed because of the new child? Why does no longer you like him to stay because of the fact of YOU? and not all human beings sees having a new child as a "lifelong dedication". i in my view understand a woman whose husband left her whilst she develop into 4 months pregnant, got here returned after the baby develop into born, have been given her pregnant returned and then left returned, at 4 months pregnant. He has when you consider that signed over rights to his little ones and has under no circumstances made an attempt to be of their lives returned. the international is regrettably packed with human beings precisely like him.
2016-10-18 02:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by dawber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you thing the devorce rate is so high . both after a while cheat welcome to the real world in my opion?
2007-06-19 19:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋