Say you meet a girl and she told you that she questioned(past tense) her sexuality? Would you date her? She's identify's herself as straight but she let me know in her past that that was somthing she dealt with, however she's never been involved with a another woman, or man sexually. And Lady' s if a guy told you that his idenity was questoined in the past would you still consider dating him?
Im just curious and no foul responses please Thanks
2007-06-19 19:43:05 · 13 answers · asked by Roger B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for all of your responces, We hung out and she's cool and all, however the chemistry to take it past friendship just isn't there for me.........Thanks again
2007-06-21 03:12:03 · update #1
Never, it's hard enough dating a straight person. I would not want the added drama of having to wonder if the person I am with is looking at guys in a sexual manner. Not that I have a problem with same-sex couples. I just don't think I should be the in-between person while he decides if he likes men or women. Good luck to you.
2007-06-19 19:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Top Secret :) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a woman... no way would I date a man who questioned his sexuality. But a mans point is usually very different! Most men don't seem to care if a woman's been with another woman. I think they seem to think there might be a possibility for an exciting sex life in store! But I think everybody has their own set of morals and a point where they draw the line at this sort of thing.... what I'm trying to say is that everyone is different!
2007-06-20 02:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by beckaroo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are a lot different than men in the whole homosexual sense. Being a lesbian nowadays is encouraged and dramatized in tv shows allover.. so it's a lot easier for a girl to think positively about other women than guys about other guys.
This being said, the fact that she questioned her sexuality in the past may just be a mixture of many things. Family problems, relationship problems.. anything could have pushed her to question it. It really isn't an unusual thing these days. Several of my friends have questioned their sexuality, but the majority of them decided they were just in a vulnerable point of their life and realized they were straight.
As for me, if a guy questioned his sexuality in the past - it's in his past. There are other things I would question about it.. so I couldn't say a positive yes. I would have to talk to him about it..
The main thing is, if you are concerned talk to her. That way you're getting your answers from her, straight from the source of the problem. If she knows what you're concerned about, maybe she can help clarify it for you.
2007-06-20 03:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that a lot of young girls can be confused about their sexuality and still be straight. There's a lot of weird stuff going on around girls now, a lot of confusing messages. I would ask her about her fantasies -- does she dream of making out with a woman? That will tell you a lot.
Frankly, though, I wouldn't be interested in a guy who experimented around with men, I wouldn't trust him to be truly straight and would always worry about what he was doing when he wasn't with me. So, call me prejudiced, I guess. I wouldn't want to take the risk that the guy would get AIDS.
2007-06-20 02:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on her age?
If she questioned it like 10 years ago for like 5 minutes at the bus stop, then sure, so what.
But if she still questions it, no... And this is coming from a guy lol I just couldn't deal with the risk longterm, and I know some idiots are gonna post stuff like "you can have a threesome!"
2007-06-20 02:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by Thinksalot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes in life we miss out on knowing some of the most amazing people because we think too hard or over analyze things. A lot of people have questioned their sexuality in the past i blame a lot of it on the media but give her a chance she might end up to be one of the most interesting people you've ever met.
2007-06-20 03:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Alex H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure we've all questioned our own sexuality at one time or another. Halle Berry is very attractive, to me and I'm a straight woman. I've experimented with other girls ( in younger years) and I still consider myself to be straight. Your question should be focused on yourself...are you willing to put in the time while this person comes to terms with who they are and who they want to be?! Be careful, you could get hurt if you try to force this issue with her one way or the other.
2007-06-20 02:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by monicastocker74 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would if she considers herself straight and has experienced what it is like to be with a women already then I'm sure her mind is made up,so yes it seems like she is sure in which direction she is headed.
2007-06-20 02:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by MO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, it sounded to me like you were describing your self, but you said you were curious, so lemme give u an answer already. I'm really not sure. I never really thought about it, but I think my answer would be no. wow, I'm really considering all the possibilities right now!
2007-06-20 02:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by sarahbara_sarahali 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at first i would step back and be shocked but after the shock there is nothing wrong with being open minded about it, especially if that person is just amazing.
2007-06-20 02:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋