i want to tell my boyfriend that i think theres no connection between us anymore and that i think he's losing me because hes not trying
any better spin i can say that?..
2007-06-19 22:44:58 · 21 answers · asked by xoxocean 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you said it perfectly, hun. You were directly to the point and you were not rude about it. Sounds like you know how to let people down with tact! You are awesome.
Cheers
2007-06-19 22:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well another way is to start off the conversation by doing things other way round.
tell him that you want to admit something to him that you no more feel the same warmth love closeness attraction, sparks etc, you do not know why you feel so...............and say there is definitely something wrong with you yourself.
Do not blame him.
Let him come out and say or do and understand what has happened.
2007-06-19 23:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Life won't Stop Nor Should U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends, Do you want to keep him or not. If you do then I suggest you tell him how you feel and why you feel that way. & try doing things with him that'll spice the relationship up. Going places and just having fun. BUT if you want to lose him. straight up tell him & say goodbye. If it hurts him too bad, he'll get over it.
2007-06-19 22:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no good way to break up. it always hurts the one thats getting trashed... anwayz, try to add some more things to make him understand. As in,,, what do you mean by connection? How is he losing you? And why is breaking up the only way? stuff like that helps hehe :)
2007-06-19 22:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that he's no good in bed and that he's a piss poor excuse for a man and that if you have to spend one more day with him you are going to join the circus and have an illicit affair with an elephant called nelly..LOL
2007-06-19 22:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by mistincat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the first part but for the last, I would ask him "why aren't you putting any effort into this thing anymore"??? Then maybe you will get an answer.
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2007-06-19 22:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by Sister Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly the way you said. If you do it any softer, he may not take it as serious. Be forward. He's your boyfriend, you should be able to express yourself anyway that you feel.
2007-06-19 22:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Quite Frankly with TheFokalist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,
just be like i feel like we have lost touch..and i dont feel the same way i did b4 cuz u dont try.. and if u dont start trying ur gonna lose me...
help any?
if not get back to me i have some other options
2007-06-20 10:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy way lets see "hun where just falling apart you should of had a grip on me and acted like you cared because now i've slipped away ok luv ya nice knowing ya lol! maybe it would work good luck
2007-06-19 22:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by alexus w 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are correct but tell him if he needs a relationship that it has to be alive. means the other partner should feel that he love her.
2007-06-19 22:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by Ravi P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋