My boyfriend and I (both 21) have been together 2 yrs (we broke up for a month 6mnths ago) and don't usually go out together to clubs and stuff that much.... and he likes to tell me the numbers he’s gotten from girls... I wouldn’t care but he keeps them in his phone!!!
Is he just doing it to make me jealous? Or show off to his friends (who are all single) I already said we can try being single for while, (thinking were only young) but he said no... I want to hurt him
2007-06-19 22:19:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
childs play my friend. Don't take this guy serious, and if I were you I would enjoy your single life while you're still young. Just look at the 2 years you invested as a learning experience. A guy like that shouldn't be in a committed relationship and you should do yourself a favor and just leave, be the bigger person by not lower to his level of childish games, show him you're better than that.
And of course he doesn't want to break up, men are selfish creatures, who want to have their cake and eat it too....kick him to the curb sista!
2007-06-19 22:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a retraining order works well. Other than that you may have to be mean to her. Tell her to stop calling. Or that if she contacts him again he'll call the police. you dont have to do it but you can threaten it. Be very blunt, say what you want. "Leave him/me alone" "do not call here again" or block her online. some phone companies can block callers from people, or you can change your phone number. I know how you fee because I'm in a 3 yr relationship and I would hate for this to happen to us.
2016-05-20 05:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, just change your girlfriends names in your phone to guys, so every time they call or message, it will give him something to think about. He may be trying to give you an excuse to dump him? Either that or hes just totally stupid and thoughtless. The fact that you dont go out together proves that he is not %100 committed. Dont ever accept anything less than %110. Dump him. He's TRYING to upset you.
2007-06-19 22:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R u sure that u wanna be with someone like this? It sounds like he is deliberately trying to hurt u! It also seems like he is trying to make it seem like he is irrosistable to woman and wants u to know that so that u see how lucky u r to have him! If anything he is lucky to have u! I dont know any other girl that would put up with that! U would be better off without him! He obviously doesnt respect u!
2007-06-19 22:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by Stacey-Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like an immature brat! Why do you put up with him?? Don't waste your energy dreaming up ways of hurting him, just dump him or laff it off and put up with it. Besides, have you any proof these girls really exist? I can put hundreds of phone numbers with guys names into my phone's address book if I feel insecure enough, and who's to know if they even exist? Do you really wana try calling all those 'girls'' numbers to check for yourself, c'mon, don't bother with this loser, get yourself someone who appreciates you more :) Good luck!
2007-06-19 22:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anna V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teel him that either he gets rid of the phone numbers or you are leaving. If he chooses the phone numbers, he does not love you. Leave him and find someone that will respect you and your feelings. You deserve better than this jerk!!
2007-06-19 22:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he sounds like a dumb a** but he has an ego. a very big one. he seems to think that if he gets a number he "scored" trust me, if he thinks he is the only who with one of those girls numbers, i would laugh in his face.. just tell him you arent ok with it. tell him if he is going to be with you, to be with you, tell him you dont care if you get numbers, thats fine but at least respect you enough to not put it in the phone. thats just rude.
2007-06-19 22:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him hes a player
2007-06-19 22:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by poison_angel32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's showing them to you to prove to you, or maybe to himself, that he's attractive and if it doesnt work out between y'all he has options. this may be to show you that he expeccts more from you or for you to try harder in the relationship. he doesnt want to be single though... its a guy thing...and sometimes girls do it too. its weird.
2007-06-19 22:32:42 · answer #9 · answered by b2k4ever08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to boost his ego! While emotionally abusing you at the same time! Move on sweetheart, you don't need this crap!
2007-06-19 22:33:18 · answer #10 · answered by ßỰŦŤΣЯ§! Guess who's back...for now! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋