Family & Relationships - 15 June 2007

So, my bf and i broke up got back together and are trying to work things out. some days i think it can work, some days i for sure think it won't work out. we broke up for a week about 2 weeks ago, took a week off, then talked and are working on it. During that week off, i made plans to go to dinner with an ex. I've told the ex what is going on, told him i'm not ready for anything at all, but that we can be freinds and go to dinner. He's driving 2 hours to see me, i told him he can't stay with me. Sounds ok so far, but he's totally confessed to me that he wants us to start dating again. that he misses me, and wants me in his life. i love my bf, but he doesn't put much effort into the relationship, my ex would. i'm not trying to compare them, but i'm just not sure if i should go to dinner with the ex, is it a bad idea? i'm not telling my bf no matter what, although he had dinner with his ex a month ago and i found out. ah... help!

2007-06-15 05:57:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do guys like in a girl? Do they like for girls to play with their hair?Whats the best way to get a guy to go out with you?NEED ANSWERS!! :P (from guys only plz)

2007-06-15 05:56:12 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

The groom will answer a number of questions. Tonight, at the stagette party, the bride will have to answer the same questions - if she gets them wrong she will drink!

Looking for some good questions - not "Favourite Movie" or "Best moment together"....

Any help is appreciated!

2007-06-15 05:55:09 · 13 answers · asked by MountainGolfer 1 in Weddings

I'm a very open and honest individual. I believe in honesty, loyalty, respect, communication, equality in a relationship. But how come when i meet a woman in person and we talk they seem to "fall" for me when im' trying to just be friends?

2007-06-15 05:54:14 · 23 answers · asked by joseph c 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-15 05:54:03 · 12 answers · asked by LOLA S 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a 16yr daughter who thinks her Dad is so great and her step-father and I are monsters. We pay tuition to a private school, bought her a car for her 16th b-day, pay her insurance, clothes, etc. She get pretty much anything she wants. Her Dad refuses to pay for anything in addition to the measly little child support he wouldn't be paying if it wasn't court ordered and automatically deducted from his paycheck. My daughter sees no problem with this, it is his choice she says. First she said he couldn't because he couldn't afford what we can afford, then he bout a 2006 Mustang GT for himself. He has her convinced it wasn't expensive. She falls for his BS constantly and it is driving me crazy! We have rules and discipline that go with all the benefits she gets from my husband and I and that is what makes us the jerks/monsters. I am so sick of it I don't know what to do!

2007-06-15 05:50:54 · 25 answers · asked by firegirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-15 05:49:19 · 21 answers · asked by peach 2 in Singles & Dating

I had kind of a falling out with the guy I was "seeing" the other day and all of a sudden I realized that he slept with my best friend. I have pretty good reason to believe I'm right, plus I've never been wrong about this stuff in the past. The only thing is, she would NEVER admit it to me. So the only way I could know for sure would be to ask him. Should I ask him or just forget about it? Either way I'm not seeing him anymore but my curiosity is killing me.

2007-06-15 05:49:13 · 25 answers · asked by DramaBug23 3 in Singles & Dating

my fiancee is kind of selfish an he does not take me out often. i asked a couple of times an he tells me he has no money but then like two days later he buys a head board an bed frame. Or when i make a suggestion about something he thinks im after something. Then he calls his mother saying i always want to go out an do things. Then she tells me i should make something in tAhe house. But sometimes i want to go out an have fun. an i feel like he is a mommas boy calling his mother for everything trying to make me sound like the bad person. like i think she has a seriuos problem without listening to both sides of the story. An in my personal optionon i think she needs too stop butting in out relationship.

2007-06-15 05:45:16 · 31 answers · asked by sparkle7 2 in Family

Whats the difference between an alcoholic and a man who tends to drink say once a week and gets drunk?

**This relates to a previous question**

2007-06-15 05:41:17 · 25 answers · asked by Kaualani E 3 in Marriage & Divorce

should I wait patiently by his side until he graduate from the police academy before requesting more quality time or should I call it quits? I really like him and he's a great guy but he does not have the time for a relationship right now :(

2007-06-15 05:36:11 · 11 answers · asked by Guy's baby 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a bf and my guy friend has strong feelings 4 me and has already tried to do stuff wt me but i refused. how do i tell him to bug off and i never wanna see him agian... but gently?

2007-06-15 05:27:35 · 20 answers · asked by catkiss17 1 in Friends

Wife and highschool sweetheart of 15 years had an affair and left me for her coworker. Its was a shock and happened soooo fast. She was in "lust" and wasn't thinking very clearly. She had to rent a shack in town literally because he could lose his job if they moved in together. We have two kids and they suffered a great deal in the beginning. Its been 8 months now.....hes leaving and moving 300 miles away, She is having a hard time with money and wants to move about 200 miles away. She cannot take the children, I willbecome the primary guardian when she moves. She loves her kids as much as I do but she didn't think it all out and now reality has hit both of them. We live in a small community and alot of people have no respect for her now so she feels alienated. I begged for her to stay when she left and wanted to give her the world. I wanted karma to get her in the beginning but now I'm feeling somewhat sad for her because I know it will be hard for her being a weekend parent. should I

2007-06-15 05:22:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when touching your self, please add details

2007-06-15 05:21:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok well we have been dating for a year and a half.. and he recently called and said that things have changed a lot from when we first started dating and he doesn't like it. He said I seem to get annoyed at him more and stuff. I don't know what to do, I might get annoyed but itsn't that normal? I will agree that our relationship is a bit different. He also gets angry at little things, for example when he snores i just tap him on the shoulder. He gets mad, yells, and turns around to go back to sleep. But on my side, I do seem to be bothered by some things he does. Any ideas on how to handle this?

2007-06-15 05:17:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-15 05:16:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

annoy me every second. im 13. hes 10. can i make up stop by being mean to him?

2007-06-15 05:15:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-15 05:13:09 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and we both go to the same college. In a year, when my apartment lease runs up, I would love to move in together (we would have been dating over two years by then). How do I talk to him about this? It has never been brought up before..

2007-06-15 05:12:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have always had this fantasy, I can't get it out of my head, my wife says shes up for trying most things, but refuses to try swinging, 3somes, or role play. I can forget about most of my fantasies, but the 2some with 2 women just WONT go away, I know I can't truly settle in until I at least try it. I love my wife but how can I be happy and content where I am if I have things that I just NEED to try that she wont be part of?

2007-06-15 05:10:29 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my fiancee' have been planning our wedding for over a year now (we have been together 4 years.) My brother, who is one of my groomsmen, out of the blue decides to plan his wedding 2 months before ours, after a very short engagement (they have been with each other 2-3 months max). I wish him the best and will support him through anything (like any brother would ;-) ), but I was just wondering if there is some kind of ettiquitte issue here. This is me and my fiancee's first marriage, and this is my brother's third (ditto for his bride-to-be.) Is there any reason for us to be upset about this?

2007-06-15 05:09:19 · 18 answers · asked by J R 2 in Weddings

I would like to think I'm fairly up on style but I have never really figured out the whole dress to flatter your body thing. I was wondering if anyone could help me on this. I'm looking for the appropriate sillohette and neckline I shoud look for in a dress. Its a beach wedding (but still on the formal side) and I would like to wear a long dress.

I am 5'3 (Short!) and 120lbs (weight holds in my hips and backend). I am not very well endowed in the chest area but I'm not completely flat chested by any means. I guess you could call me petite.

I'm not very curvey, but I have a small waiste and I look a lot younger than I am (I know I'll appriciate that someday). I want to look a little curvier or at least accentuate what i have. Obviouly a ballgown or poofyness is out of the question for a beach wedding. But meremaids and sheaths are ok. I want something not princessy, more sophicticated. So what sort of shape should I look at? What kind of neckline?

2007-06-15 05:08:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

yeah so the other day i was driving home, and my dad started yelling at me about how i always give him an attitude and what not, and then he was like get the condoms out of your room. i didnt even know what to say so i just walked away. It's just wierd having your parents know about your sex life? idn. so what should i say, or should i just be like oh those uh, and lie about it hah, idn but lately it seems like they hate me.

2007-06-15 05:04:28 · 18 answers · asked by Bizzy 2 in Family

ok, let me make this clear first I am not wanting to date now. I would like to know what other people think is a reasonable time to start dating again. Remember I am not in a hurry I want to take care of my baby girl and get are lives straight first. ok, My boy friend of 3 years is leaving me, we have a baby girl together. After I get my life straight when is it a good time to look for someone new? How long did you wait? I ask because I don't want to be alone (without a man) my hole life.

2007-06-15 05:03:12 · 14 answers · asked by gia00601 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok~ so my fiancee has been working really really long hours lately (like 17 hour days...) I now he is getting a little stressed about work, and then on top of that we are planning our wedding and buying a house.
How can I help calm him down and show him how much i love and care for him..

*we don't live on your own so i can't do anything really romantic...

2007-06-15 05:03:00 · 13 answers · asked by stephanie 6 in Weddings

We live in a small town so I see them all of the time. He is still legally married to his wife who also lives in the town. I thought that I would get joy when my kids starting hating him (He is known town-wide as a azzhole so it was a mtter of time). How long did it take you.

I know that I shouldn't hate and that I should fotgive but that is not my reality now. Even Billy Graham acknowldges that what I feel is normal. Just how long before it goes away? I have tried dating others but I feel that I am just using them.

2007-06-15 05:02:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies,

I have three back-to-back weddings to attend this summer. I've already spend a small fortune in plane tickets, new attire, hotel etc.and now it's time to think about the gifts.

Brides-to-be: Which items to you really REALLY want from your registry?

My budget is $100- 150 per wedding for a gift.

Good luck

2007-06-15 05:01:52 · 26 answers · asked by Blunt 7 in Weddings

i sent out invites for my b-day pty and only 3 out of 14 ppl said they would come?!?! if they dnt wanna come then y are they my friends?

2007-06-15 05:01:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My daughter and her boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. I have never liked him. My daughter is way too good for him and can do much better for herself. He is 21 years old jobless, high school drop out and isn't trying to do anything to improve his life. My husband and I desperately want to see our daughter with someone who is up to her standards and can possibly make a good husband for her.

Just last night, my husband suggested that I should try sleeping with our daughter's boyfriend to prove to her that he is a no good dog. My husband says that by doing this, she will see that her boyfriend is a low life looser and she will break up with him and find someone better. Do you think this will work? Should I try sleeping with my daughter's boyfriend so that she will see that he is no good and break up with him? Help please!

2007-06-15 04:58:44 · 86 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-15 04:56:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends