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Ok well we have been dating for a year and a half.. and he recently called and said that things have changed a lot from when we first started dating and he doesn't like it. He said I seem to get annoyed at him more and stuff. I don't know what to do, I might get annoyed but itsn't that normal? I will agree that our relationship is a bit different. He also gets angry at little things, for example when he snores i just tap him on the shoulder. He gets mad, yells, and turns around to go back to sleep. But on my side, I do seem to be bothered by some things he does. Any ideas on how to handle this?

2007-06-15 05:17:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

25 answers

Break up with him and find somebody you love.

2007-06-15 05:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by TheEconomist 4 · 1 0

You said above that your relationship is different from others, well I believe it isn't. Basically all relationships are going to have problems, anybody will tell you that, no matter who you ask. All you two have to do is talk about the problems you are having. And you may have to talk to a family member or a close friend. He also probably got mad about you tapping his shoulder because he was sleeping, which is understandable. If you are bothered about his snoring or whatever, talk to him about it. That is the best thing you can do. But if you just stand in a corner and never talk to him then how long to you think the relationship is going to last. And if you do end up getting married what do you think that's going to be like? I know I wrote a lot but if there is one thing I want you to get out of this is to: TALK TO HIM.

2007-06-15 12:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You're over the honeymoon stage, that is all.
This happens, sometimes worse than others. My boyfriend recently said to me I am not as carefree as I used to be, and sometimes he feels less important and there is no intimate time. When we first started dating, I worked maybe 15 hours a week and was in college, still lived with my parents, could not give a crap about anything. The situation has change. Now it is just me and him in our apartment, a puppy, a cat, a full time career for me, bills, laundry... this is my first full taste of independence and I'm still adapting. Situations change throughout dating, and your going to change as well. Hopefully it is more of growing together, then growing apart. I wish the best for you two.

2007-06-15 12:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by BabeDoll 4 · 0 0

Boyfriend? Sounds like a live-in lover, what with the sleeping and all.
You are obviously not real happy with him, since you "get annoyed at him" maybe possibly sorta kinda in a way. He's not real happy that you are trying to change him.
Find other lovers, both of you, before you do something really stupid like having a baby.

2007-06-15 12:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0 0

You dont obviously love him enough...my man snores like i dont know what,,,,,basically u can sit downstairs with the tv on and u can hear him upstairs...n its like that all night...
But it sends me sleep...i have just learnt to get used to it its a part of him...n i have grown to love it.....at first i thought i'll never sleep ever....but a few weeks down the line i was ZZZZZzzzz like a baby.....

And the poor fellas trying to get some sleep n ur disturbing him y dont u get some ear plugs if u think its that bad....

Just dont get on each others nerves....and dont annoy him...just be normal...

and if you dont love him enough to put up with his quirks let him go then he can find a girl who will treat him better...

2007-06-15 12:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by julie60988 3 · 0 0

Things are always going to change in a relationship, Darlin'. That you can count on. After a year and a half, you're past the honeymoon and more into real life.

2007-06-15 12:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by VirtualElvis 4 · 0 0

maybe counseling? Or a break? Or maybe the relationship isn't worth it. Maybe signs are telling you he isn't the one, and you should break up and find someone else. But you might not want to leave him. Maybe you can talk about it, and find each others side of the story. With that you can find ways to change, and make things better.

Hope i helped, and think about what you can do

2007-06-15 12:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by Amy 2 · 1 0

well im in a similar situation. i have been with my bf for 14 months and recently he has been acting different. he says that "it doesn't feel the same anymore" and that im "boring" him. it hurts a lot, especially when u really love and care for that person. try to work it out with him, sit down and have a real talk and be open with eachother. see if he really cares about you or not, but u should be able to tell by your own intuition.

2007-06-15 12:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by i ♥ EStEBAN 2 · 0 0

have a talk with him about it. lay down the laws beforehand: you two have to be totally honest with everything you say, and mention anything thats not making you happy in the relationship. You also need to listen with an open mind to what the other person says and instead of getting mad think of it as something you can do in the future to improve your relationship.

those are the rules ^

then you have your talk. good luck!!

2007-06-15 12:20:00 · answer #9 · answered by toothPASTE 4 · 0 1

tell him that you don't see it as bothering and if he does then just let it be. Why be in a relationship with him if he already told you he gets annoyed with you sometimes if not all the time

2007-06-15 12:20:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just get over him. if you are already having major troubles like that it wont get any better, just worse. i have been with the same guy for 2 1/2 years and we started having problems and we stuck it out thinking it would get better and it has only gotten worse. break things off while you still can!!

2007-06-15 12:23:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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