i have a bf and my guy friend has strong feelings 4 me and has already tried to do stuff wt me but i refused. how do i tell him to bug off and i never wanna see him agian... but gently?
2007-06-15 05:27:35 · 20 answers · asked by catkiss17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is no way to do that easilly.
Just tell him you don't want to be friends anymore because he makes you uncomfortable and hope he understands.
He will probably be really angry and hate you forever... so be prepared
I have left girls I was friends with... you just have to tell it straight forward and then stick to your guns.
2007-06-15 05:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely you have 2 alternatives, the two tell him up front or shop ignoring him until he gets tired of dropping his time attempting to get by to you. Yea, you dont like hurting human beings's emotions yet its difficult to regulate what you sense, and additionally you sense such as you haven't any longer something in undemanding with this guy and additionally you sense it may be ultimate if the two merely went your separate procedures. however, ignoring somebody for long classes of time could be incredibly impolite. rather of letting waste their time and attempt, you may merely tell him so he can get off your back. Or extra suitable yet, merely tell him the type you sense approximately his ideals, how he lies alot and which you're merely very uncomfortable. according to hazard he will substitute, according to hazard that's what he desires because of the fact he would meet somebody else that would tell him in an extremely hurtful way.
2016-10-17 09:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him and tell him that your boyfriend doesn't like you hanging around him since he's tried to do things with you. That way he'll just be dissapointed in your boyfriend instead of you. Tell him that you are moving into a different stage of life with your new boyfriend, and he can't be a part of it anymore if you want it to work.
2007-06-15 05:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to get nasty with him if he's trying to force you to do stuff with him you don't want to do. And as long as you are friendly to him, you're actually giving him an invitation to rape. He has strong feelings for you and this could become obsession.
2007-06-15 05:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by FitChic 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you like him as a friend, but if he continues to try to get to friendly with you you will not see him again.
2007-06-15 05:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, sometimes stubborn people need a dose of cold hard reality.
2007-06-15 05:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by Experienced Male named Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried about hurting his feelings, when he obviously doesn't care enough about yours to leave you alone! Tell him that his behavior is UNACCEPTABLE and that he better leave you alone or else you are going to have to get your BF involved.
2007-06-15 05:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you think you guys are growing apart from each other FAST and that you don't want a best friend that you dont get along with anymore
2007-06-15 05:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by musicfreak600 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say that you don't think you should continue being around one another. It's gentle and short.
Good Luck!
Big Kiss,
Keira
2007-06-15 05:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him the truth.....you don't feel comfortable keeping the friendship going.....iyou can't be too nice or he won't take you seriously....talk to him only once and if he doesn't do what you ask then get firm....good luck
2007-06-15 05:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by sxyitlngrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋