yeah so the other day i was driving home, and my dad started yelling at me about how i always give him an attitude and what not, and then he was like get the condoms out of your room. i didnt even know what to say so i just walked away. It's just wierd having your parents know about your sex life? idn. so what should i say, or should i just be like oh those uh, and lie about it hah, idn but lately it seems like they hate me.
2007-06-15 05:04:28 · 18 answers · asked by Bizzy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I ask if they would rather you throw out your condoms or become grandparents too soon?
There's no reason for you to lie; they're the ones in the wrong for disrespecting your privacy. Be mature, don't get upset. (And keep your condoms better hidden.)
2007-06-15 05:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best place to hide them is under your dresser. Take out the bottom drawer and lay them on the floor, then put the drawer back in. Of course, I'm tipping off all the parents on here to one cool hiding place.
Your father was just unprepared to find out you were sexually active. Or your mom was and your dad caught hell for it. That's far more likely since it is usually mothers who find stuff.
When things simmer down, you might ask your dad where he hid his condoms when he was a teen. First tell him you're sorry Mom found them. You'll get the truth at that point. If I'm right, he'll then be more willing to talk to you.
2007-06-15 12:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by loryntoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always told my parents the truth and it has really helped our relationship. Some parents are too close-minded to handle the truth though. Anyways.... I would tell them that at least you use protection. They can't be mad that if you are going to be active that you are trying to do it safely!! Tell the truth and be strong!! And you should ask why they were snooping in your room?
2007-06-15 12:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lyndsay P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him if he doesn't want them in your room then where should you put them?
I'd much rather see my kids using condoms than just riding bareback. At least it shows they are being safe.
2007-06-15 12:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by J D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL THEM YOU ARE GONNA KEEP BONING AND THAT YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE AND DON'T WANT TO RUIN YOUR LIFE WITH A BABY, SO IF THEY DON'T LIKE IT... DON'T LOOK IN THAT PLACE ANYMORE, CUZ THAT IS WHERE YOUR CONDOMS ARE GONNA BE. YOU ARE THE MAN FOR USING CONDOMS, KEEP ON THE D/L AND STAY OUT OF DADS WAY. ... AND STOP GIVING HIM ATTITUDE!
2007-06-15 12:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth --- tell him why you have the condoms and that you are being safe. don't pull attitude with him be calm and mature in the discussion as this is an adult discussion.
2007-06-15 12:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by crazicowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him sometimes you get hungry at night so you keep the condoms around for a snack, or is that condomints, eiter way its all tha same
2007-06-15 12:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by robert s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them "safe sex is better than having my *** getting in trouble for pregnating a girl" =] goodluck*
2007-06-15 12:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by Brittany 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him atleast I am being safe
2007-06-15 12:18:06 · answer #9 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you people really need to state your age in these types of questions.
I wouldn't say anything... just put them somewhere else...
2007-06-15 12:11:13 · answer #10 · answered by beast9156 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋