Family & Relationships - 15 June 2007

If so, why? I'm 20 and ride a motorcycle, but I do it for fun, not to look cool. I often ride with my dad, just to take a break from life...

2007-06-15 08:30:30 · 11 answers · asked by bluedevil1642 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-15 08:29:43 · 61 answers · asked by XQZ-moi 2 in Weddings

If a girl flirts with a guy and thinks it's just for fun, what does the guy think? How does he react? If the flirting continues, does he start to grow feelings? Is it unfair for women to flirt if they aren't genuinely interested?

2007-06-15 08:28:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-15 08:27:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Question on dating and a person's beliefs on Christian theology?
I have been dating a born-again Christian for about 5 months now (I am a born-again Christian also). We have since the start of the relationship questioned each other's beliefs to make sure we were on the same page and not dating each other in vain. All along it seemed we agreed on the basics, such as how to become a Christian, what it means to be a Christian, the importance of church, and also major moral issues. Now we have figured out that we disagree on the more in-depth issues such as speaking in tongues, prophecy, modern-day miracles and a few other things. How important is it that a couple agree on EVERYTHING that has to do with their Christian beliefs? I would really hate this issue to break me and my boyfriend apart.

2007-06-15 08:27:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and not have sex???? even sleep in the same bed and be able to keep yourself and your partner from having sex???

2007-06-15 08:25:49 · 15 answers · asked by Poosocks 6 in Singles & Dating

Well , what d'ya think is acceptable age to lose ur virginity and shud u jus sleep wit some1 or make it special??

2007-06-15 08:25:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-15 08:24:25 · 24 answers · asked by panicos m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im not particularly long only 8 inches but its thick, 6.5 inches around which makes condoms really tight to put on an painful. I've tried Magnum XXL and they're still uncomfortable, anyone know where I can get bigger ones?

2007-06-15 08:23:43 · 37 answers · asked by CoolGuy 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years. We live together and have a child together. Before he and I became a couple, he was with his ex girlfriend and they have children and had a house together. He has visitation with his kids and of course his ex doesn't like me and tries to make his life a living hell by always taking him to court for dumb stuff (obviously she still wants him and hasn't gotten over their relationship yet). He's finally getting the house thing situated where he'll be off the deed.
Last year in the beginning of the year, he asked if I was ready to take it to the "next" level with him. Of course I asked more questions about what that meant and it was marriage.
We are going on three years being together and he still hasn't proposed to me. He was with his ex for 8 years and never proposed to her.
Could this be a pattern for him? Is he in a comfort zone? How long should I wait???????

2007-06-15 08:23:41 · 26 answers · asked by jamaica1_9 2 in Singles & Dating

what's your favorite part of a woman's body? T or A? Most of my friends are guys, and the majority love the upper option. I have one friend who likes the lower . . . what is your favorite, and why? what's the fascination?

2007-06-15 08:23:12 · 9 answers · asked by vinsa1981 3 in Singles & Dating

I give myself to you on this day and for each that follows.

I take you to be my life's partner with our hearts beating as one, embracing our future together.

I will never abandon nor forsake you in times of need or hardship. I will hurt when you hurt, cry when you cry and perish when you perish.

I will spend all my days at your side, loyal and vigilant, guarding our love for all eternity.

All that I am or ever will be is because of the assurance and vigor that our love has granted us.

Let us embrace one another and spread our wings of fire, uniting us and proving to the world that our love is true.

Together forever my darling, my one and only……my love.

2007-06-15 08:21:53 · 34 answers · asked by Bo 2 in Weddings

I've noticed (and I'm guilty as well) that women who normally have good sense and a fairly decent home are willing to throw caution to the wind for an ex. It usually has something to do with how wonderful he is and how he listens. Ladies, what's wrong with us? Where's our will power?

2007-06-15 08:21:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-15 08:20:53 · 4 answers · asked by rex 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-15 08:19:26 · 14 answers · asked by &>smartie<3 2 in Singles & Dating

is there a certain way he looks at u or is there a certain way he acts around u i mean c'mon tell me i need 2 know these things caus i think that we r a really good match and i really want 2 make this work!!!
help me pleaz

2007-06-15 08:19:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IM 5'5 IN 1/2 AND IM 154 LBS.I DONT HAVE A HUGE BUTT BUT ITS NOT FLAT AND IM PRETTY GOOD SIZED UP TOP

2007-06-15 08:18:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I'm going to get slammed for this, but I honestly want to know if there's any way for me to maintain any shred of integrity... so please, if you have an answer I'd like to hear it but if you just want to tell me how horrible I am, I'm already aware of that.

My husband is a good man, works hard, pays the bills, loves me and our 4 year old daughter. He's 100% committed to marriage, and divorce has never been in his vocabulary. However, because of me, we've never had a good marriage and after 6 years of tension, I kissed somebody else. I admitted this to my husband, who flipped out. He gave me a second chance, as long as there was zero contact with the other guy. I still have a relationship with the other guy (no, I have not slept with him).

I know my husband deserves MUCH better. I love him but we're not IN love. At all. That's the problem. What should I do? For my husband's sake? For my daughter's sake? What do people think of women who initiate divorce?

2007-06-15 08:18:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with this guy for 6months and it has been a big a huge roller coaster ride.. I met him thru this girl who has been friends with him for 14 years- the three of us used to party etc anyway she got a bit jealous of the time he would spend with me and I know she has feelings for him (but he dosn't for her) He has said i shouldn't let her get between us.
I am going overseas in a few days and he needs a place to stay while i'm gone. He has been staying here for the last few weeks. He spent last night with her and her brother and his nephew, as I no longer like to see her because I no longer trust her and he didn't ask me to come anyway... I feel that he should not have gone over there especially since I am leaving the country for 7 weeks...she knows this as well and even put it in her calender!! please help me... I am tempted to turn my phone off and not talk to him b4 i go and not let him stay here. Am I overreacting? I don't think he knows how manipulating she is...

2007-06-15 08:17:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is not on the birth certificate and he has another family that he cares for and has ignored this child with me (I don't care for child support just want to terminate his rights and it is not for adopting purposes.)To top it off a lawyer will charge me about $200 to $500 an hour and legal aid was no help either... I can file myself but don't know what to do afterwards. Any advice? By the way this is for the state of Florida

2007-06-15 08:16:28 · 6 answers · asked by Leyla G 1 in Family

Ok so I'm a 45+ femal that joined classmates last year and got in touch with an old boyfriend. We shared the summer of '78 and what a summer it was... anyways we have stayed in touch through emails, and phone calls. Heres the problem, He is divorced and a very religious man, he would never even consider kissing me cause I'm married, even though I know he wants to be with me. To him even having sexual thoughts about a married women is a sin. I want this man sooooooo bad I can't think straight sometimes. I'm not that happy in my married lide (bored). Even when he does say something sexual to me if gives me goose bumps.. what to do???? HELP

2007-06-15 08:16:15 · 30 answers · asked by No Drama for this Queen 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my boyfriend. And he loves me. I know this. But he's broken up with me twice. He was under aLOT of stress from college problems, as well as exams and major family problems erupting. The first time he broke up with me he was freaking out about us. I allowed for that. He confesses he's very protective of himself.
The second time, he'd been going through a period of so much stress that he wasn't even himself anymore. he was still good to me, but seeing him so distant was making me unhappy. but i stood by him. he broke up with me that time (2 months after the first time) suddenly and rashly. because "he thought he was doing the right thing". we didn't talk for a month because we both had exams. then straightaway he begged for me back. i was very reluctant but he said he'd never been so serious about anything in his life before. his friends have confirmed they've never seen him so set on anything. he even offered to go into counselling if the stress hits him like that again.

2007-06-15 08:13:13 · 11 answers · asked by Chasey Lane 2 in Singles & Dating

Im a submissive and I want to start incorporating sadomasocism/discipline/bondage into our sex lives but I don't know that he'd be into it, and I don't want to sound like a freak, how should I tell him about it?

2007-06-15 08:12:19 · 18 answers · asked by IceQueen 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a white male. My best friend is a black man of my age. We've been friends for years. Growing up I had a lot of diversity throughout school and my family weren't racist in any shape or form. But, here is the problem.

I met this girl a week ago. She is wonderful! She's out going, funny, we just seem to hit it off. She's asian. But her first lover, and only boyfriend before me, was a black man.

The moment I heard that, for some reason, regardless of all the fantastic years with my black friend, Leon, the stereotypes that I had heard began to rush through my mind.

Before we had sex she mentioned his size and the things he did sexually, etc. And the stereotypes began to bother me even more. We had sex that night, and things went great (at least I thought) but despite the wonderful night, the inadequate feelings I had remained.

Now I refer to the original question, am I a closet racist? I don't want to think like that, but when I look at her, I think of THEM. I need some advice.

2007-06-15 08:11:38 · 13 answers · asked by Noah T 1 in Singles & Dating

why is it that if you are a grandparent and take in a grandchild to live with you becauseof a bad home life we are not treated like that of a foster home.Foster homes make out very well when they take a child into there home so why shouldnt we as grandparents be equal to them this system is not fair and I feel it discriminates agaist the grandparent.Any other people have this same issue please feel free too email me to discuss this thanks

2007-06-15 08:10:29 · 4 answers · asked by pepe48000 1 in Family

2007-06-15 08:09:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't want to disappoint my little brother because he has always looked up to me & I love him very much.

2007-06-15 08:08:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am saving myself for marriage and getting sooo frustrated and depressed lately. seems like there aren't any guys out there who also wanna save themselves.
I feel as though i'm waiting for marriage its only fair of my "future husband" to do the same.

Guys- you know best. How many guys out there are really waiting until marriage to have sex?

do i even have a chance of finding someone now? i mean doesn't this cut out like 99 percent of the dating pool?
thanks♥

2007-06-15 08:05:00 · 5 answers · asked by starryeyed 5 in Singles & Dating

How do you think he would react meeting us in a room filled with ancient weapons?

Do you think that he might be a little more considerate in dealing with our daughter?

2007-06-15 08:04:57 · 27 answers · asked by demarkation_line 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-15 08:03:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating