Family & Relationships - 15 June 2007

It's been a year, but if I see her I'm thinking I wanna beat her a$$. After a split we got back together, and are better than ever before. Still it wasn't just my man that did wrong, she did too. She knew all about me and even after I found out I confronted her and she still didn't care. She had no shame in it.

2007-06-15 06:53:10 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Miss X♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My dressmaker suggested them since my dress is so large and complicated. She said they are designed to feel completely dry, odorless and, of course, you change anyway before your "big night"...

I guess they are getting really popular?
Please no immature "ewwww" responses... thanks.

2007-06-15 06:50:14 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am running out of creative things to do for my girlfriend. I was wondering if I can get some help to get or do something for her that's creative.

So far I have done the following:
1.) I have sent her bouquets of flowers once a week.

2.) Recently bought her a necklace from Swarovski and TIffany

3.) Dinner on the deck of a restaurant in Tiburon, with the view of San Francisco night life.

4.) Sent her last week a dozen large chocolate covered strawberries, hand delivered by four Godiva associates. I had them also sing the theme to " Sound of Music". I know it was corny but, I got her to laugh. i did this at her work!

5.) I write her letters a few times a month, handwritten in calligraphy and then I would snail mail it.

6.) Taken walks with her on a secluded beach.

7.) Chartered a helicopter to fly her around San Francisco prior to dinner.

Now I am running out of ideas at this point. Can I please get some creative ideas to do..something meaningful

2007-06-15 06:49:12 · 13 answers · asked by Cerealkiller 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i broke up with him but now we are back together? what should i do help me plese!?

2007-06-15 06:48:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a co-worker who I'm very friendly with. We get along fine. For months she's been helping to plan her sister's wedding and is essentially paying for the entire thing(I don't know they're relationship well, but her sister has never been able to keep a job, and I have no idea why the husband to be isn't pitching in any). A few weeks back she gave me a wedding invitation, for myself and a guest.As well as info on where they're registered.

I like my co-worker/friend, but I'm not really interested in going to her sister's wedding. Do I have to give a gift though? I don't know about wedding ettiqute.
If I do give a gift I'd rather it be for my co-worker/friend than her sister(who I've never met) just because she's put in a lot of work and money into it with very little thanks it seems.

Would it be rude to gift my co-worker(not at the wedding, but a day or two before) instead of getting a gift to the bride?

2007-06-15 06:48:14 · 11 answers · asked by Seriously, Passionately 2 in Weddings

We have sex regularly and still enjoy to experiment. But since he has made a trip to Amsterdam he likes it a bit more rough. He has gotten into spanking and wants my bottom up for a 'warming up' before engaging in the final ...
It hurts and I don't enjoy it. I know he has dropped his eye on our (much younger) neighbour and I am afraid he will go next door when I do not cooperate. What am I going to do?

2007-06-15 06:47:59 · 37 answers · asked by Mariska 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Does having premarital sex affect the quality of marriage? If you have premarital sex with a partner, whom you later marry, will you have a better marriage, a worse marriage or does it not matter? Is the sex worse after the marriage?

2007-06-15 06:46:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why or why not?

2007-06-15 06:46:30 · 7 answers · asked by topless_linda 1 in Singles & Dating

First I know I can trust him,but at the same time I have girls coming up and asking if we are still dating. I'll say yes..y? Then they say they can't tell me something? What should I believe?

2007-06-15 06:45:08 · 4 answers · asked by loopy 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you like about the place...what was the most you ever spent at a strip club...how much money do you think is ok to spend? and men why do you buy the woman a drink when you know she wont sleep with you?

2007-06-15 06:44:16 · 12 answers · asked by bmxq8 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A reversal of my earlier question. Would you listen to someone else?

2007-06-15 06:44:10 · 10 answers · asked by Barefoot Chick 1 in Singles & Dating

which name do you like better Gorick or yanick?

2007-06-15 06:43:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why is it topics like women talking about having sex with stranger or guys talking about having affairs get the most responses...

2007-06-15 06:40:58 · 13 answers · asked by bmxq8 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know it is bad, but ... very exciting. And addictive...Shall I just break up before it is too late?

2007-06-15 06:39:13 · 14 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Singles & Dating

We were married 9 years. I fought really hard to get him back. I filed for divorce but we tried to make things work out. It's been about a year. I do forgive him, but I just don't feel the same about him. I feel that he could not have really loved me if he could go outside our marriage. Anyone ever feel this way?
I also feel that we are falling in to the same agruments, the same direction.

2007-06-15 06:38:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What does that mean help me plz....

2007-06-15 06:37:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-15 06:37:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i've been thinking about this friend of mine way to much as of recently.. we were hanging out a party.. and such.. and it lead to some kissing.(that is all i ran away before it could lead to much more.. ).he told me a pile of things that i liked hearing..just compliment after compliment.. and i'm not really use to that type of attention from boys.. as i've never really had many boys say that type of stuff you know?

anyways.. i saw him the other night.. and we didn't really get a chance to talk about it at all. as our signicant others were there... (yeah i know that doesn't help either)

i realize untill were both single nothing more can become of it.. but why can't i stop thinking about him.. and wanting something else..i'm not even sure what he thinks of the whole situation. but he seemed interested that night..

2007-06-15 06:36:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend dumped me long time ago and i still have hope he is coming back its like weird like i know sooner or later hes coming back to me but i know thats not going to happen but i just cant get that idea off my head and like i go to his myspace and i see his single but i see pictures of him with other girls there and i get so angry but i cant stop loving him and like i said i have this stupid feeling that hes coming back to me last week he called 2 times and he hung up i dont know what he wanted cuz he never called again i really want ot stop thinking about him and get this feeling off my mind what should i do???how do i convince myself he isnt coming back???

2007-06-15 06:36:09 · 5 answers · asked by marlene v 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a 15 year old daughter. I don't know whether to wear a wedding gown, or something more along the lines of a dress for Mother of the Bride? I feel odd in a wedding dress this old and with a child. I really don't know what to do.

2007-06-15 06:30:27 · 44 answers · asked by kait_1213 2 in Weddings

2007-06-15 06:23:54 · 7 answers · asked by RICO 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why is it so hard for my husband to have sex without a BJ first? for a while he denied it, saying that he just likes to have one before sex... and btw, this started with me; he never had this issue with any other girls. but last night pissed me off so badly that i've cut him off until further notice. and i changed the password on our computer so he can't look at porn anymore... until i see an improvement. so last night, i thought he was asleep, so i changed into some pjs and brushed my teeth and went to bed... but then he started with the whine (which means he wants something)... i told him, "no. i don't feel like doing that and i've already done it once today." he said, "fine. goodnight." i called him a jerk and told him to go whack it. he fell asleep like two seconds later.
usually i give in... but last night i didn't, just to see what would happen. now i'm really disappointed. so my question is why do guys do this? and how can i change it?

2007-06-15 06:21:40 · 22 answers · asked by termite choking on the splinters 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been engaged for nine months an i dont agree on prenups cause i think when you love someone you should not put limitations on them. Me an my fiancee has been arguing about this for the last 3 months an my grandma thinks its unifair an i should not marry than my future mother in law you know" agress with her beloved son about the pre nup" so that becomes a problem. To top things off she tries persuade me on the phone for four hours talking about he will love me more if i agreed. i have not talked to her for three days she use to be someone i confided in an now i just dread too talk to her. i come to find out that she is the one that is very passive in her marriage.

2007-06-15 06:20:04 · 17 answers · asked by sparkle7 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been talking to a guy online for awhile we are planning on meeting tonight, We where talking on like meeting at the mall then going to the movies and back to his house what do you think? Should I? Yes or No?

2007-06-15 06:19:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-15 06:07:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Then email me sometime or put yo email and i'll email u. I'm smart,fuuny, can almost talk about everthing. and my pic is my avatar

2007-06-15 06:05:50 · 3 answers · asked by Rodney M 2 in Friends

He never had time for me. I tried not to complain and when i did i was always polite etc.. but in the process i was only hurting myself.. i was so stupid not to see this and continued to love him thinking it will be all ok someday.. when that day mite never come because my bf broke up with me saying we had no understanding.. Imagine.. after all i did for him.. after all the understanding i tried to offer.. this is what i got.. i am very sad and very mad at myself by being so dumb...

2007-06-15 06:05:38 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah S 2 in Singles & Dating

The latest affair that I found out about on Good Friday 2006, from the biatches mouth lasted two years. He just says that he felt I no longer loved him and he didn't want to be alone. He bought her diamonds and pearls, took her to amusement parks and even bought her a passport so that they could go away. I don't think that it has stopped but I can't prove it. He was and is very sneaky, I never know where he is and he controls all of our money. Well he did, I just stopped my direct deposit from going to our joint account to my own personal one. This really has him ticked off, even though he says that my salary doesn't even pay the bills and one of his deals is much more than a full year of my pay. He is a real estate agent and she is a lender, he hasn't sold anything since Dec. 2006 they carry on a 9-5 any hotel relationship. She has since divorced her husband and expected him to do the same. He says she is nobody and that he could never find anyone take care of him like I do

2007-06-15 06:02:09 · 37 answers · asked by MaryAngel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is the situation- two people who like each other and would like to date, but neither of them are very fond of going out. What would be a possible date? And staying at home, depending on the activity, might be too intimate for a first date? Any suggestions?

2007-06-15 06:01:17 · 18 answers · asked by twasbrillig 3 in Singles & Dating

my bf is tall, dark and handsom but he has a huge complex and is convinced hes ugly. walking down the street i see girls staring at him because hes so good looking, but he thinks they laugh at him. how can i make him see hes sexy, because me telling him doesnt seem to be working as he says i'm his gf i'm ment to think hes the best looking man on the planet. HELP ME!!!!

2007-06-15 06:00:10 · 2 answers · asked by JOOOOOSIE 1 in Other - Family & Relationships