He never had time for me. I tried not to complain and when i did i was always polite etc.. but in the process i was only hurting myself.. i was so stupid not to see this and continued to love him thinking it will be all ok someday.. when that day mite never come because my bf broke up with me saying we had no understanding.. Imagine.. after all i did for him.. after all the understanding i tried to offer.. this is what i got.. i am very sad and very mad at myself by being so dumb...
2007-06-15 06:05:38 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, u were not dumb... i did the same thing, and trust me i thought i screwed up big time, but the truth was that it was never ment to be and if it is ment to be with you then he will come back to u! but if a guy cant make time for u then he's not worth ur worry, yeah u can still love and care for him but think about it was it really love or was ur mind playing a trick on u, and just some advice from girl to girl, there is a guy out there that IS ment to be with u and ur ment to be with him, but until u find that guy just remember the more guys u date/love will only make u stronger and plus it will kinda give u clues on who will always be there for you no matter what!
i hoped that helped! if u need anymore advice or u just need someone to listen/read with no advice just understanding i will be here (just e-mail me at flagbabe28@yahoo.com) *peace*
2007-06-15 06:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That kind of guy isnt worth ur concern, n u dun hv to bother because of him, he's over. Respect urself n remember time heals. Good that u realise u have been dumb, then take this as a gud lesson that never ever let anyone hurt u this way anymore.
2007-06-15 06:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by Catherine Tanoto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you have more experience, keep the good memories and throw the rest to the trash.
That happens because you tried to reach him YOUR way, not the way he wanted to be reached. Common.
Cheer up, and seek another love with high forehead and a smile in your face.
2007-06-15 06:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by mbestevez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hurt yourself anymore, If you need to talk to somebody about how you feel. Maybe a close friend, family member etc. Just anybody who know who will listen and you know you can trust.
2007-06-15 06:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by Kyle B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry u tried a lot for ur relationship to work.. but if it didnt stop feeling bad and move ahead.. u deserve someone who can understand and appreciate u.. good luck
2007-06-15 06:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by virgogirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't be sad. your bf sounds like a jerk. how can he tell you, you don't understand him when your sitting there patiently waiting, not complaining to see when he has time for you and he says you don't understand. i say forget him. being in a relationship deals with 2 people not one. wtf if he says you don't understand tell him to try and make you understand not just leave you when it seems like things are getting hard.
2007-06-15 06:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by Karrie_Poo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay things happen life can be cruel sometimes maybe now is not a good time you no maybe he just wasn't the one you'll find someone better!! don't be sad !!
2007-06-15 06:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by no name 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT HAPPENS ALL THE TIME, YOUR NOT DUMB. PICK YOUR HEAD UP FIND SOMEONE WLSE AND GET OVER IT. THEN HE'LL COME CRAWLING BACK WHEN HE HEARS ABOUT IT
2007-06-15 06:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by zah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your question? Do you want sympathy? Pity?
nicole
2007-06-15 06:08:51 · answer #9 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you learned your lesson.
2007-06-15 06:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋