I know it is bad, but ... very exciting. And addictive...Shall I just break up before it is too late?
2007-06-15 06:39:13 · 14 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes get out of it b4 u develope feelings or b4 he does...there will b more than just one heartbreak in this situation...if children are involve u are hurtin them as well..u and him will hurt the other...it doesnt matter if she does wrong or not and how she treats him...he can get out of it if he really wants to..and if he doesnt then obviously he likes bein treated that way....and he aint worth the time or effort honey..there are better thrills than that
2007-06-15 06:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by lil country gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to this...
How do you get out of it without hurting yourself? One word -Quickly.
...and you must cut all ties. Building a relationship on a foundation of dishonesty is pretty much a no-win situation and a no-brainer as far as whether or not you should be in it. While the affair may be exciting and fun and risky and challenging - (all fun words) - it also represents alot of ugly things and says a lot about your character that you would find this so much fun. It also says a lot about his character that he would do this to his wife. You know there is no long term future here - chances are -- it will end sooner or later. Better to stop this thing now before it snowballs into something really messy...that is - if it hasn't already.
2007-06-15 13:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's just an affair, then it's obvious you don't love the guy. And you're in it for the thrills. Do you have any true feelings toward him? The answer seems like it's right there: break up with him now and be done with it. However, you've got to know exactly how you feel about him. If you have any kind of greater feelings toward him, there's no way you can opt out of this without getting hurt. Such is the way of relationships.
2007-06-15 13:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by Niko? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question here is do you really want the other person (wife) to get hurt.... That's one question you need to ask your self.. How about if that was your husband and he was cheating on you... And you found out. What would you do? How would you feel?? Just think about that.
You need to just walk away and not look back... I never had an affrair with an engaged man. However I was temepted... But never did.... But we sure flirted up a storm. Flirting would be ok when you see him... But yeah defintely... Stop with the affair. Its not lady like and trashy.
2007-06-15 13:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out now. Dont allow yourself to fall for him, becuz u cant have him. He's married. Dont convince yourself that you guys share something sacred, even if you did end up with him, what makes you think he wouldnt do the same to you.
2007-06-15 13:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The quicker the break, the easier the fixing. End it now, it'll hurt less.
Just say "Ted, this isn't working for me. See you around!"
2007-06-15 13:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by Brian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's already "too late." Try to break up before it's too later.
2007-06-15 13:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by FatElvis 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nice job ... hmmm...hurting urslf? How about how do u stop it without his wife finding out and she get hurt?!!! I guess ur not thinking about her otherwise u wouldnt be doing it.
2007-06-15 13:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop seeing taken men, and stop be a homeweacker, and get out your self, and pay the price
2007-06-15 13:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES, I am available and single if you would like to get to know me better.........
2007-06-15 13:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋