i've been thinking about this friend of mine way to much as of recently.. we were hanging out a party.. and such.. and it lead to some kissing.(that is all i ran away before it could lead to much more.. ).he told me a pile of things that i liked hearing..just compliment after compliment.. and i'm not really use to that type of attention from boys.. as i've never really had many boys say that type of stuff you know?
anyways.. i saw him the other night.. and we didn't really get a chance to talk about it at all. as our signicant others were there... (yeah i know that doesn't help either)
i realize untill were both single nothing more can become of it.. but why can't i stop thinking about him.. and wanting something else..i'm not even sure what he thinks of the whole situation. but he seemed interested that night..
2007-06-15 06:36:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You both want what you cant have....If you could have it, would you really want it so bad????
2007-06-17 18:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop thinking about him because he told you what you've been wanting or needing to hear - and that's a pretty potent drug.
I'm glad your sense of morality (not wanting to be a homewrecker) is stronger than that drug. He gave you a self-esteem booster, and that's very good feeling, but the truth that you know deep down inside is that your self esteem will actually end up severly damaged if you follow the homewrecking road that you know and feel is wrong.
2007-06-15 13:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating happens all the time, Ive recently come to discover. Remember youre initial feelings are probably puppy dog love feelings for this guy. If youre not married then do what you want. Just be true to yourself.
If you are married, well then welcome to my world...
2007-06-15 14:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mergler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So? If neither one of you are free and single, what difference does it make? So what if you sit around thinking about him? I sit around thinking about cake but that doesn't mean I eat it all day. Just because you decide to cheat on your partners by making out doesn't mean you're free to continue it
2007-06-15 13:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wanted some strange..Get to steppin...You are both with other people, stop thinking of him and don't put yourself in that situation again...
2007-06-15 13:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by ~Angel~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What Angel said.
2007-06-15 13:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then tell your "significant other" that you don't want to be with him/her. You don't have to go behind ther back!! OMG just be honest. Just one more thing KARMA ; )
2007-06-15 13:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by *AntA mAriA* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋