my boyfriend dumped me long time ago and i still have hope he is coming back its like weird like i know sooner or later hes coming back to me but i know thats not going to happen but i just cant get that idea off my head and like i go to his myspace and i see his single but i see pictures of him with other girls there and i get so angry but i cant stop loving him and like i said i have this stupid feeling that hes coming back to me last week he called 2 times and he hung up i dont know what he wanted cuz he never called again i really want ot stop thinking about him and get this feeling off my mind what should i do???how do i convince myself he isnt coming back???
2007-06-15 06:36:09 · 5 answers · asked by marlene v 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really need help!!!
2007-06-15 06:36:34 · update #1
from what you've said he probably will come back,just maybe not as a boyfriend.........if he is calling you,the fire is not yet out! theres hope inmy opinion that he will come back,but, dont waste your young life obsessing over some guy. theres to many out there and your not ugly so find another!how to convince yourself? sometimes you just cant convince yourself...its horrible but it is the truth,the best you can do is deny and deny that you like him or have any type of feeling for him and eventually he will be of your mind...but you must never,think that you like him in your process of trying to forget,or,he will just come back!you will be convinced once you realize that YOU will never come back to him, i suggest a new man perhaps?????until then,you will always believe he is coming,because you still have feelings for him.....
2007-06-15 07:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're still undergoing the pain of loss. There's no helping youu wanting him back, or at least, having him in your thoughts all the time. Such is the symptoms of the brokenhearted, and the only remedy is time and endurance. You're going to have to absorb the pain he's caused you and through time, you'll forget about him. You could try to do things to get him off your mind, but these are only temporary fixes. If you truly want him out of your life, you;re just going to have to let time flow.
2007-06-15 13:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by Niko? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so very sorry this happened to you, but all I can recommend you do is you keep yourself very busy and in time you should forget about him.
2007-06-15 13:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie maybe you should go with some body else just to get him off you mine.maybe you mine fine another love
good luck
2007-06-15 13:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe find someone else that will make you happy, but make sure he is single
2007-06-15 13:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋