I am running out of creative things to do for my girlfriend. I was wondering if I can get some help to get or do something for her that's creative.
So far I have done the following:
1.) I have sent her bouquets of flowers once a week.
2.) Recently bought her a necklace from Swarovski and TIffany
3.) Dinner on the deck of a restaurant in Tiburon, with the view of San Francisco night life.
4.) Sent her last week a dozen large chocolate covered strawberries, hand delivered by four Godiva associates. I had them also sing the theme to " Sound of Music". I know it was corny but, I got her to laugh. i did this at her work!
5.) I write her letters a few times a month, handwritten in calligraphy and then I would snail mail it.
6.) Taken walks with her on a secluded beach.
7.) Chartered a helicopter to fly her around San Francisco prior to dinner.
Now I am running out of ideas at this point. Can I please get some creative ideas to do..something meaningful
2007-06-15 06:49:12 · 13 answers · asked by Cerealkiller 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh we are not both materialistic but, we are both busy at work. So most of these stuff I have to send or have someone do it for me. We work far away from each other. But, anything that would give me an idea to do thats creative...just creative. It doesnt have to be costly.
2007-06-15 06:59:22 · update #1
We have been dating for over a year now.
2007-06-15 07:09:45 · update #2
Sounds to me like you need to present her with a restraining order against yourself! The Sound of Music is just too much! haha.
2007-06-15 07:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been dating? It sounds like you're trying pretty hard to impress her. The problem with that is that now she expects you to keep it up - you will *always* have to do things like this for her because she'll wonder why you stopped! Cut it *way* back. You don't need to do stuff like this all the time! As a female I can honestly say that a girl will stop appreciating things like this and they will have no meaning. My bf NEVER gives me flowers, so when he does (once so far in the past 12 months) it means a lot more than if he gave them all the time!
Try smaller things like picnics, wild flowers picked from the grass on the spur of the moment, romantic hikes or swimming at a secluded beach, etc. To me, just making dinner together is romantic!
2007-06-15 07:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by tink 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like all these things you are doing are rather costly, and in my opinion, it doesn't take money for me to realize that I have a good boyfriend whom I care about and cares about me, too. Why don't you try just being yourself and hanging out together in an informal way. Just go rent a movie and snuggle on the couch while you watch it. Cook dinner together at home. Meet her parents. Play mini-golf. Doing little silly things are the most memorable and will allow each of you to put your guard down and just be yourselves. A girl likes a little pampering every once in a while, but all the time, it just gets old.
2007-06-15 06:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by MILF 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would love a boyfriend like you. How about a surprise weekend away here to Jackson WY. It is awesome. Don't tell her until you get here. What about a gourmet breakfast in bed. The night before draw a bath with rose pedals, a bottle of Don Perion and some bath oils. Afterwards give her a great body massage.
2007-06-15 06:58:30 · answer #4 · answered by aintlifegrand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok-personally, I think you are overdoing it. How about something normal, like rent a movie and cook something at home? Spend an entire saturday in your pajamas and watch movies all day and pig out on junk food. But if you really wanna know something, my favorite thing to do with my husband is go to a restaurant that cooks food in front of you. Like a hibachi grill. All that stuff up there that you have done for her---it's all about how much money you have, how about something that doesnt need money? oh, and one last thing try authentic messages- they deliver messages in a bottle. Which is cool.
2007-06-15 07:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok, could you start over and do that all again?
Moonlight dinners at home?
Evening in front of the fire?
Join something together, something she likes.
Most of all have you talked to her and found out her interest? Guys not all women are looking for $$ or marriage...some of us want a best friend, someone to confide in, a partner in crime as well the person who passionately turns us on.
2007-06-15 06:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you afford to take a Friday off work? If you can, do so, rent a nice hotel show up at her home/work early so that she knows all day that you are there waiting on her when she gets home. the best thing i could think of to receive from a man would be the man.
2007-06-15 09:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to impress her soo much ...because everything you do , you will have to top it with the next thing. What are some things she likes to do? Show her a side of you that she might not know ...she has definitely seen the romantic side!!
2007-06-15 06:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by jbe2176 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cuddle with her all day in bed and give her something she'll never forget...if you know what I mean..lol. Most of the things you named are materialistic...is that what you are? Is that what she is? If not then stop doing it sooo much.
2007-06-15 06:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop trying to impress her. If she really likes you, she won't care about all these things. Frankly, it's a bit too smothering for me, but that's just me. I'd be satisfied w/just dinner and his company.
2007-06-15 07:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋