It's been a year, but if I see her I'm thinking I wanna beat her a$$. After a split we got back together, and are better than ever before. Still it wasn't just my man that did wrong, she did too. She knew all about me and even after I found out I confronted her and she still didn't care. She had no shame in it.
2007-06-15 06:53:10 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Miss X♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
be a better person... ignore her and go on about your day and life.
beating someone will do nothing except make you look extremely ghetto and trashy.
2007-06-15 06:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by jd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is not your responsibility. Wrong or right she doesn't have to care about your feelings. You haven't made a commitment to her. She's an opportunistic female out to get all she can. She got your man, be pissed, but move on.
The best revenge is keeping your thing with your man strong, if that's what you want. She is the past, put her there and keep her there.
2007-06-15 14:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by Equinoxical ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking action against her that way is beneath you. :) You're better than this, it seems, so don't waste your time on this. Besides, you still did patch it up with your man, so perhaps you ought to let things be. Karma finds its way around, and you'll then get better things, and that person will get her **** kicked (figuratively or not) by someone else. Yeah, it sucks that you can't send her retribution yourself, but that's the way it works at times. People like her never stay happy too long, remember that. :) So be wise, and be the grown up. Ball's in your court.
2007-06-15 14:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by Rogee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds like someone has some serious anger issues. How old are you? I say after the age of 12, you pretty much look silly fighting over a man. Not to mention the fact that men aren't ever worth fighting over.
2007-06-15 14:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, I have yet to encounter with my husbands pig but I have dreams of how I'm going to beat the sh** out of her. I feel like it will be a way to end that chapter in my life. Me and my husband are still together and doing great, bad thing is she works in the same place as him. The thought of him seeing her everyday just adds to me wanting to beat her.
2007-06-15 14:16:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let it go. It's been a year and you and your man have not just worked it out but gotten closer. Forget her. You can't teach someone a lesson if they don't want to learn. And confronting her only brings up the feelings from the betrayal. Its wont help you and it wont help your relationship. And that's the most important thing.
2007-06-15 13:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loook heres what your going to do ! Nothing ! Just get on with your life and forget about her . Your just playing into her hands and will probably end up in Jail . Why risk it just love your guy !
2007-06-15 14:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i understand how your pissed at her but remember he's the one who cheated on you not her. it was his responsibility to stay faithful to you not her.She did do wrong i agree but you should be able to trust that your man won't disrespect you by doing another woman.Don't do anything to hurt her you don't want to get arrested or anything.
2007-06-15 14:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by lsp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. It gets to people when people actually don't care.
2007-06-15 14:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by GrantS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!...did you see that? All these wise people on the same question. I am proud of all of you.
2007-06-15 14:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by Big Red 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋