Well , what d'ya think is acceptable age to lose ur virginity and shud u jus sleep wit some1 or make it special??
2007-06-15 08:25:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It should be special and not just a roadblock to get rid of
2007-06-15 08:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Around 18, that includes a little before.
Around that time you're probably mature enough to make the decision rationally.
Never take sex lightly. Ever. Once you go there, once you start to head down that road, it changes you and you can't go back. I can't explain it. I haven't gone all the way, but I'm already different. I can see where I would be a wreck if I'd gone any farther, any earlier. I still moved too fast, too soon and I was messed up for almost a month.
I don't know what your religious beliefs are (personally I'm an agnostic) but I'm not going to preach to you about waiting until your married. However, you should wait until you know that that person isn't just going to pack up and leave. Wait for a relationship to strengthen. Would your partner still love you, still be with you if you could never have sex? It should be something that you want to do for yourself and for the other person. Both of you should be striving to make the other person happy. It should come as an extension of the things you do because you care about each other.
It shouldn't be just because you're horny, or because you think it will make you cool, or mature, or popular. I can guarantee you that if you move too soon you will be miserable. If you're horny, you have fingers. If you want to be cool, get a new jacket. If you want to be mature, control your impulses. If you want to be popular, make more friends.
If you define yourself by your sexual activity you will be miserable, and you'll end up used, and feeling hollow. Worst part will be, it's your own fault.
If you set out down that road at 13, or 14, or 15, or even 16 for a lot of people, you'll end up doing something way bigger than you realized that could mess you up.
When in doubt, wait. Get birth control pills, and use a condom. Be responsible. Once you've had sex once, you don't have to do it again. Just be aware that you can't turn back.
2007-06-15 08:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is a huge step into adulthood. I think before the age of 16, teenagers shouldn't have sex, and I'm even iffy at 16. They'd better be using protection.
Sex should be between you and someone you love and respect. Why would you ever want to give away your virginity to a guy who wouldn't give a damn about you afterwards? Meaningless sex just makes you an object, and you're NOT an object...you are a human being, with mind and emotion.
I don't believe in sex with no strings attached. Don't demean yourself by giving into someone pressuring you to have sex for the hell of it. Save yourself, until you find someone you know loves you for who you are. If you do, it won't just be about the physical feelings, the lust....it will be about the connection, the safety, the pleasure, and becoming part of another person, who needs you just as much as you need him. Take it from me, it will be all the more satisfying for you!
2007-06-15 08:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's different for everyone. In my opinion between 16-18 is a good age. Sometimes when you leave it too late it becomes an issue and then nerves get in the way. I was 15 and that was probably a bit too young but I've no regrets. I loved him at the time. I think it should be special with someone you love and trust.
2007-06-15 08:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You don't understand what sex is about if you have to ask these questions. It's for one person-that special someone you want to give yourself completley to, and in turn he gives himself completely to you. Sex is created to bond you with someone is a way nothing else can. It cheapens when we think it is anything less then this. Save yourself for that sepcial person-don't compromise. Wait until you know this is the one and only and then wait a little longer until you're married. You'll save yourself a ton of dignity and heartbreak if you do this. Life is better when you don't have regrets (or STDs).
2007-06-15 09:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mary L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Acceptible age depends on when you find an aceptable husband. I am sorry, but if you are dating, under the age of 18 and wanting to have sex because he says he loves you.... you are obviously too young.
Giving up you virginty is suppose to be special. It's not suppose to be wasted on some guy just because you are attracted to him. Or just because he says he loves you. Because if he really loves you, he will wait.
2007-06-15 08:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not under the age of consent anyway. It is best to wait until you meet someone you love deeply before you take it to the next level. Anyone can have sex but it takes two mature people to make love, dont throw your virginity away on a meaningless relationship.
2007-06-15 08:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Goodness, no offense or anything, but you've got "potential sl*t" written all over you. What about loyalty? Relationship? Ever heard of these words? You don't just pick an age to have sex, you pick a person, you make a committment, you make sure it means something before you throw away the most precious gift you could give to the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with. You can have sex as many times as you want, but you only give yourself away once. If you piss it away, there's no getting it back.
2007-06-15 08:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by Hitch 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
I believe you will know when your ready because you will be so turned on that the fear of losing your virginity will no longer exist and the thought of losing it will make you even more horny so i suggest you wait until that happens then you know the time is right
2007-06-16 05:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by magnum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 23 and still got it. just waiting for the opportune moment with my special person. i've had many chances to lose it but didn't want to lose it to just anyone (no matter how sexy and good looking they are).
acceptable age is when your ready, and it feels right with the right person, then you'll enjoy it, as i been told a million times.
2007-06-15 11:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can wait, then the best time is after you have found the right person for your life partner - then get married and you are ready........
If you have to ask, you are not ready, so hang on and wait for that someone special that God has planned for you.
2007-06-15 16:11:39 · answer #11 · answered by Seng Kim T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋