What are the key signs that it's time to end a relationship....?

Question

And the signs that it may be worth trying to make it work?

Answer 1

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I'm a realist, I don't believe that a relationship should have to be worked at. It should be natural and fun. When you have to go out of your way to make someone appreciate you, you're wasting your time and life and their's too. Time to move on and get int ouch with yourself. Be your own best friend and do what makes you happy.

Answer 2

the most important indication is you feel "uncomfortable" and try to find ways to get away.

The same symptoms "Uncomfortable" also can put seeds for re-unification if I repeat if despite the fact you feel uncomfortable but you try to linger on the feel of "togetherness" . This is a phase of return or no return, if you are able to start communication , any communication, then the chances are that the relationship will be reborn and in most of the times the new found relationship is more stronger than the earlier one.

Here the most important point or rather the trigger point is the "type " of communication" . You are trying to put together the dislocated shreds of "being together" . Pick up the smallest of the shreds and gradually but slowly put them in a pattern without showing any sign of what you are doing to the other person.

Some times a single word is enough and some time full dictionary.

The underlying strength or weakness of this exercises is the "willingness" on both persons.

Answer 3

Signs that it’s time to end a relationship…

You have a feeling of continuous frustration about the relationship (E.g., your emotional needs are not being met)
You’re finding more reasons to spend time apart
You’re being physically abused
You’re being emotionally abused
You no longer have strong feelings about your partner but reminisce about the feelings you used to have
You’ve changed your core values, beliefs and goals to accommodate your partner in hopes that your relationship will no longer be problematic
You’ve made drastic changes in your appearance hoping your partner will find you more attractive
You have a growing feeling of emptiness
You’ve put extreme distance or totally cut off former close relationships you used to have with your other friends and/or family
How to make the final decision...

The most pragmatic way is to make a list with two columns. One that lists the positive attributes of your relationship and one that lists the negative. Next, itemize the good and bad parts of your relationship honestly. Sometimes seeing a concrete list where one column is much longer than the other will help you see your situation more objectively hence making it easier to end a relationship that no longer brings you joy and fulfills your needs. Relationships should add to your quality of life—not subtract from it.

So if your unhappy and have been unhappy for some time, get out now. Don't try and save this relationship because your only going to be prolonging the problems you two have...If you really care for him and you think it's worth the time and worth saving, suggest couples counceling..If the problem is your man, then he is probably not going to change, he may say he will but he will not...
hope i helped

Answer 4

Three signs to end it are if you feel that or have proof that this person is not being faithful to you, If they treat you in a way that you don't want to be treated, and if you feel you can't trust them anymore. Signs that may say give another chance maybe if their going through some type of stress or trama, that has a tendency to create a negative effect on how you are or how you treat other people, but if they are just being an a****** then you should definetly find someone who will respect and love you for you.

Answer 5

one of the most significant signs is when you begin to see more negative traits in the person you are with and there is no 'spark' in the relationship. It's basically up to you to decide wether you want it to work out or not, or wether you may feel it's time to move on. Another key factor is also the length of time you've put into the relationship. Good luck in whatever you decide.

Answer 6

If you're asking about ending a marriage, it's only time to end it if he's A) hitting you or B) cheating on you.

Other then that - you should stick it out and make it work. You committed for life.

If you're talking about a dating relationship - you end if when you realize you are no longer happy anymore.

Answer 7

signs that its time too end a relationship is when u have lost respect for each other or it becomes abusive or loss in attarction for the other person there are no such signs that it is worth taking but its all up too you

Answer 8

Signs it is over:
No trust, Not being honest with each other, not communicating.
If you still have those 3, it may be worth working on, assuming you still love each other.

Answer 9

Are you happy in your partners company most of the time?

Do you look forward to spending time with your partner as much as you do with your friends?

Do you like your partner as a person?

If you answered 'no' to any of these questions I fear that the end may be nigh.

Answer 10

When you look at the person your with and your not sure if you still love them or want to be with them anymore....I think thats the biggest sign that people usually try to make excuses for...When you start having doubts about your mate for me is enough to question myself if I want to be in this relationship...Life's not guarantee to live short..You have to be and live happy.....